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Should I put my mental health over my new job?
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first of all some info that might be important:
I'm a Webdeployer at a company out of ~10 people with huge costumers
Work there since 21th of September this year (not even 2 weeks)
Boss does know about my mental health
I can be fired (with no reason named) within the next 6 months
Before i got the job, i was in an intership with the company i work for now. I told them about my illness (mental) in the interview for the intership. I did so, because i felt it would be much easier for me that way.
I had the intership for around 10 weeks with a little break for my final exams. In the last week i got told they want me to start my work as a Webdeveloper there after i got done my finals.
My Boss said following in that conversation:
We had a guy some years ago, that needet to take a break for weeks almost 4 times a year. So i dont want to be rude, but i want to ask you, if maybe this would be the same for you?
At that time I felt like im stable and life finally turns out to be great! So my answer on this was following:
To be honest, I was in a clinic once for like 4 weeks. But that was 3 years ago and I dont think I will need something like that again.
This was back then. Now, around 2 months later, I do feel REALY instable and sensitive what goes down to some bigger problems. My Therapist told me to go to a clinic, in her opinion it was important and needed.
Now my question:
Should I go to a clinic and take a break from work? If so, how can I handle that? How to bring this topic up?
Im scared of beeing fired. Or missunderstood since what i said in the interview. I dont want them to think bad - or get rid of me.
Note: Im from Germany so don't mind my kinda bad english, please.
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first of all some info that might be important:
I'm a Webdeployer at a company out of ~10 people with huge costumers
Work there since 21th of September this year (not even 2 weeks)
Boss does know about my mental health
I can be fired (with no reason named) within the next 6 months
Before i got the job, i was in an intership with the company i work for now. I told them about my illness (mental) in the interview for the intership. I did so, because i felt it would be much easier for me that way.
I had the intership for around 10 weeks with a little break for my final exams. In the last week i got told they want me to start my work as a Webdeveloper there after i got done my finals.
My Boss said following in that conversation:
We had a guy some years ago, that needet to take a break for weeks almost 4 times a year. So i dont want to be rude, but i want to ask you, if maybe this would be the same for you?
At that time I felt like im stable and life finally turns out to be great! So my answer on this was following:
To be honest, I was in a clinic once for like 4 weeks. But that was 3 years ago and I dont think I will need something like that again.
This was back then. Now, around 2 months later, I do feel REALY instable and sensitive what goes down to some bigger problems. My Therapist told me to go to a clinic, in her opinion it was important and needed.
Now my question:
Should I go to a clinic and take a break from work? If so, how can I handle that? How to bring this topic up?
Im scared of beeing fired. Or missunderstood since what i said in the interview. I dont want them to think bad - or get rid of me.
Note: Im from Germany so don't mind my kinda bad english, please.
mental-health
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Regardless of the workplace solution here, I just want to say please make sure you look after your own best interests here (whether that's going to the clinic or continuing to work).
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first of all some info that might be important:
I'm a Webdeployer at a company out of ~10 people with huge costumers
Work there since 21th of September this year (not even 2 weeks)
Boss does know about my mental health
I can be fired (with no reason named) within the next 6 months
Before i got the job, i was in an intership with the company i work for now. I told them about my illness (mental) in the interview for the intership. I did so, because i felt it would be much easier for me that way.
I had the intership for around 10 weeks with a little break for my final exams. In the last week i got told they want me to start my work as a Webdeveloper there after i got done my finals.
My Boss said following in that conversation:
We had a guy some years ago, that needet to take a break for weeks almost 4 times a year. So i dont want to be rude, but i want to ask you, if maybe this would be the same for you?
At that time I felt like im stable and life finally turns out to be great! So my answer on this was following:
To be honest, I was in a clinic once for like 4 weeks. But that was 3 years ago and I dont think I will need something like that again.
This was back then. Now, around 2 months later, I do feel REALY instable and sensitive what goes down to some bigger problems. My Therapist told me to go to a clinic, in her opinion it was important and needed.
Now my question:
Should I go to a clinic and take a break from work? If so, how can I handle that? How to bring this topic up?
Im scared of beeing fired. Or missunderstood since what i said in the interview. I dont want them to think bad - or get rid of me.
Note: Im from Germany so don't mind my kinda bad english, please.
mental-health
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first of all some info that might be important:
I'm a Webdeployer at a company out of ~10 people with huge costumers
Work there since 21th of September this year (not even 2 weeks)
Boss does know about my mental health
I can be fired (with no reason named) within the next 6 months
Before i got the job, i was in an intership with the company i work for now. I told them about my illness (mental) in the interview for the intership. I did so, because i felt it would be much easier for me that way.
I had the intership for around 10 weeks with a little break for my final exams. In the last week i got told they want me to start my work as a Webdeveloper there after i got done my finals.
My Boss said following in that conversation:
We had a guy some years ago, that needet to take a break for weeks almost 4 times a year. So i dont want to be rude, but i want to ask you, if maybe this would be the same for you?
At that time I felt like im stable and life finally turns out to be great! So my answer on this was following:
To be honest, I was in a clinic once for like 4 weeks. But that was 3 years ago and I dont think I will need something like that again.
This was back then. Now, around 2 months later, I do feel REALY instable and sensitive what goes down to some bigger problems. My Therapist told me to go to a clinic, in her opinion it was important and needed.
Now my question:
Should I go to a clinic and take a break from work? If so, how can I handle that? How to bring this topic up?
Im scared of beeing fired. Or missunderstood since what i said in the interview. I dont want them to think bad - or get rid of me.
Note: Im from Germany so don't mind my kinda bad english, please.
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Regardless of the workplace solution here, I just want to say please make sure you look after your own best interests here (whether that's going to the clinic or continuing to work).
– Bilkokuya
6 mins ago
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Regardless of the workplace solution here, I just want to say please make sure you look after your own best interests here (whether that's going to the clinic or continuing to work).
– Bilkokuya
6 mins ago
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Regardless of the workplace solution here, I just want to say please make sure you look after your own best interests here (whether that's going to the clinic or continuing to work).
– Bilkokuya
6 mins ago
Regardless of the workplace solution here, I just want to say please make sure you look after your own best interests here (whether that's going to the clinic or continuing to work).
– Bilkokuya
6 mins ago
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Regardless of the workplace solution here, I just want to say please make sure you look after your own best interests here (whether that's going to the clinic or continuing to work).
– Bilkokuya
6 mins ago