Is it fine to quit after company spends for future business trip?

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Me and my fiance are in the same team under same manager. The manager and the rest of the team is unaware of this. We plan to tell them 2 months before our marriage. We are not sure what happens after we announce about our relationship.



However, our manager wants us to visit abroad for business meetings and will sponsor our visa process. But the proposed visit date will clash with our wedding. We don't want to tell about our relationship yet because it is too soon and fear that one/two of us may lose job.



I am looking out for new job so that I can move out of the team right away but getting a new job is not as easy as it seems. And my manager has asked to apply for visa as well right away.



Is it fine if we apply for visa with company spending on hotels, flights, visa fee etc. only to tell my manager about our relationship/my resignation(if i get a new job) after acquiring visa from company's money.









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    Me and my fiance are in the same team under same manager. The manager and the rest of the team is unaware of this. We plan to tell them 2 months before our marriage. We are not sure what happens after we announce about our relationship.



    However, our manager wants us to visit abroad for business meetings and will sponsor our visa process. But the proposed visit date will clash with our wedding. We don't want to tell about our relationship yet because it is too soon and fear that one/two of us may lose job.



    I am looking out for new job so that I can move out of the team right away but getting a new job is not as easy as it seems. And my manager has asked to apply for visa as well right away.



    Is it fine if we apply for visa with company spending on hotels, flights, visa fee etc. only to tell my manager about our relationship/my resignation(if i get a new job) after acquiring visa from company's money.









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      Me and my fiance are in the same team under same manager. The manager and the rest of the team is unaware of this. We plan to tell them 2 months before our marriage. We are not sure what happens after we announce about our relationship.



      However, our manager wants us to visit abroad for business meetings and will sponsor our visa process. But the proposed visit date will clash with our wedding. We don't want to tell about our relationship yet because it is too soon and fear that one/two of us may lose job.



      I am looking out for new job so that I can move out of the team right away but getting a new job is not as easy as it seems. And my manager has asked to apply for visa as well right away.



      Is it fine if we apply for visa with company spending on hotels, flights, visa fee etc. only to tell my manager about our relationship/my resignation(if i get a new job) after acquiring visa from company's money.









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      Me and my fiance are in the same team under same manager. The manager and the rest of the team is unaware of this. We plan to tell them 2 months before our marriage. We are not sure what happens after we announce about our relationship.



      However, our manager wants us to visit abroad for business meetings and will sponsor our visa process. But the proposed visit date will clash with our wedding. We don't want to tell about our relationship yet because it is too soon and fear that one/two of us may lose job.



      I am looking out for new job so that I can move out of the team right away but getting a new job is not as easy as it seems. And my manager has asked to apply for visa as well right away.



      Is it fine if we apply for visa with company spending on hotels, flights, visa fee etc. only to tell my manager about our relationship/my resignation(if i get a new job) after acquiring visa from company's money.







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