Feeling left out at work. What do I do?

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I've been at the company for 2 months now, yet I feel so ostracised by my co-workers.



In the first month, I tried fitting in by being proactive in involving myself with work events and socialising with my new peers. Now approaching month two, nothing has changed, and I still feel a distance between me and my coworkers. I often find myself eating alone at lunchtime, and noticed that people generally avoid having to talk to me.



I recall a couple of weeks back, during a night out, I tried to include myself in conversations, yet I felt filtered out by my colleagues. Even worse, when I was left alone with anyone, they would do their best to avoid conversation or they would keep themselves occupied with something else e.g, phone.



any advice on how I can resolve this issue?






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    I've been at the company for 2 months now, yet I feel so ostracised by my co-workers.



    In the first month, I tried fitting in by being proactive in involving myself with work events and socialising with my new peers. Now approaching month two, nothing has changed, and I still feel a distance between me and my coworkers. I often find myself eating alone at lunchtime, and noticed that people generally avoid having to talk to me.



    I recall a couple of weeks back, during a night out, I tried to include myself in conversations, yet I felt filtered out by my colleagues. Even worse, when I was left alone with anyone, they would do their best to avoid conversation or they would keep themselves occupied with something else e.g, phone.



    any advice on how I can resolve this issue?






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      I've been at the company for 2 months now, yet I feel so ostracised by my co-workers.



      In the first month, I tried fitting in by being proactive in involving myself with work events and socialising with my new peers. Now approaching month two, nothing has changed, and I still feel a distance between me and my coworkers. I often find myself eating alone at lunchtime, and noticed that people generally avoid having to talk to me.



      I recall a couple of weeks back, during a night out, I tried to include myself in conversations, yet I felt filtered out by my colleagues. Even worse, when I was left alone with anyone, they would do their best to avoid conversation or they would keep themselves occupied with something else e.g, phone.



      any advice on how I can resolve this issue?






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      I've been at the company for 2 months now, yet I feel so ostracised by my co-workers.



      In the first month, I tried fitting in by being proactive in involving myself with work events and socialising with my new peers. Now approaching month two, nothing has changed, and I still feel a distance between me and my coworkers. I often find myself eating alone at lunchtime, and noticed that people generally avoid having to talk to me.



      I recall a couple of weeks back, during a night out, I tried to include myself in conversations, yet I felt filtered out by my colleagues. Even worse, when I was left alone with anyone, they would do their best to avoid conversation or they would keep themselves occupied with something else e.g, phone.



      any advice on how I can resolve this issue?






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