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I had 1.5 and years of experience in a company and after a lot of struggle I got selected in a very good company which paid good.
They sent me to Singapore, and I did something stupid. I was caught fraternizing with a coworker who, unbeknownst to me, was the team lead's GF. The team lead got very angry with me but politely said that he doesn't want me in the company. After 3 months I got fired.
Now back in my country when I look for a new job the first question is always why just leave the company in just 3 months obviously, I don't want to give the real reason. And in many companies I interviewed after wasting my 2 weeks, I had to reject the offer since they don't offer good package and ask a lot of unnecessary and non-technical questions.
How can I overcome this interview situation? I want to leave all this behind and land a new job. Is there any way out of it?
Most companies I interviewed so far either don't have money or they have trust issue with me.
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I had 1.5 and years of experience in a company and after a lot of struggle I got selected in a very good company which paid good.
They sent me to Singapore, and I did something stupid. I was caught fraternizing with a coworker who, unbeknownst to me, was the team lead's GF. The team lead got very angry with me but politely said that he doesn't want me in the company. After 3 months I got fired.
Now back in my country when I look for a new job the first question is always why just leave the company in just 3 months obviously, I don't want to give the real reason. And in many companies I interviewed after wasting my 2 weeks, I had to reject the offer since they don't offer good package and ask a lot of unnecessary and non-technical questions.
How can I overcome this interview situation? I want to leave all this behind and land a new job. Is there any way out of it?
Most companies I interviewed so far either don't have money or they have trust issue with me.
interviewing hiring-process human-resources india complaint
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"I didnt knew that he had a crush on her." - was this just a crush or where they actually in a relationship?
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
Well they talked a lot inside the office but i didnt see them doing anything unprofessional or even give a slightest hint that they were either in relationship or anything like that.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
So, is that a "yes" to them being in a relationship?
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
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@DarkCygnus It doesn't really matter. Two consenting adults and all that.
– ventsyv
1 hour ago
2
@RickySterling I think a lot is getting lost in translation here. A "girlfriend" is when you are dating and in a defined relationship with someone. If you "have a crush" it means that you are interested in someone romantically or think they are cute, but are not actually dating someone. It cannot be both. Which is it?
– David K
1 hour ago
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I had 1.5 and years of experience in a company and after a lot of struggle I got selected in a very good company which paid good.
They sent me to Singapore, and I did something stupid. I was caught fraternizing with a coworker who, unbeknownst to me, was the team lead's GF. The team lead got very angry with me but politely said that he doesn't want me in the company. After 3 months I got fired.
Now back in my country when I look for a new job the first question is always why just leave the company in just 3 months obviously, I don't want to give the real reason. And in many companies I interviewed after wasting my 2 weeks, I had to reject the offer since they don't offer good package and ask a lot of unnecessary and non-technical questions.
How can I overcome this interview situation? I want to leave all this behind and land a new job. Is there any way out of it?
Most companies I interviewed so far either don't have money or they have trust issue with me.
interviewing hiring-process human-resources india complaint
edited 1 min ago
Richard U
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asked 1 hour ago
Ricky Sterling
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I had 1.5 and years of experience in a company and after a lot of struggle I got selected in a very good company which paid good.
They sent me to Singapore, and I did something stupid. I was caught fraternizing with a coworker who, unbeknownst to me, was the team lead's GF. The team lead got very angry with me but politely said that he doesn't want me in the company. After 3 months I got fired.
Now back in my country when I look for a new job the first question is always why just leave the company in just 3 months obviously, I don't want to give the real reason. And in many companies I interviewed after wasting my 2 weeks, I had to reject the offer since they don't offer good package and ask a lot of unnecessary and non-technical questions.
How can I overcome this interview situation? I want to leave all this behind and land a new job. Is there any way out of it?
Most companies I interviewed so far either don't have money or they have trust issue with me.
interviewing hiring-process human-resources india complaint
interviewing hiring-process human-resources india complaint
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"I didnt knew that he had a crush on her." - was this just a crush or where they actually in a relationship?
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
Well they talked a lot inside the office but i didnt see them doing anything unprofessional or even give a slightest hint that they were either in relationship or anything like that.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
So, is that a "yes" to them being in a relationship?
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
1
@DarkCygnus It doesn't really matter. Two consenting adults and all that.
– ventsyv
1 hour ago
2
@RickySterling I think a lot is getting lost in translation here. A "girlfriend" is when you are dating and in a defined relationship with someone. If you "have a crush" it means that you are interested in someone romantically or think they are cute, but are not actually dating someone. It cannot be both. Which is it?
– David K
1 hour ago
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"I didnt knew that he had a crush on her." - was this just a crush or where they actually in a relationship?
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
Well they talked a lot inside the office but i didnt see them doing anything unprofessional or even give a slightest hint that they were either in relationship or anything like that.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
So, is that a "yes" to them being in a relationship?
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
1
@DarkCygnus It doesn't really matter. Two consenting adults and all that.
– ventsyv
1 hour ago
2
@RickySterling I think a lot is getting lost in translation here. A "girlfriend" is when you are dating and in a defined relationship with someone. If you "have a crush" it means that you are interested in someone romantically or think they are cute, but are not actually dating someone. It cannot be both. Which is it?
– David K
1 hour ago
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3
"I didnt knew that he had a crush on her." - was this just a crush or where they actually in a relationship?
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
"I didnt knew that he had a crush on her." - was this just a crush or where they actually in a relationship?
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
Well they talked a lot inside the office but i didnt see them doing anything unprofessional or even give a slightest hint that they were either in relationship or anything like that.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
Well they talked a lot inside the office but i didnt see them doing anything unprofessional or even give a slightest hint that they were either in relationship or anything like that.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
So, is that a "yes" to them being in a relationship?
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
So, is that a "yes" to them being in a relationship?
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
1
1
@DarkCygnus It doesn't really matter. Two consenting adults and all that.
– ventsyv
1 hour ago
@DarkCygnus It doesn't really matter. Two consenting adults and all that.
– ventsyv
1 hour ago
2
2
@RickySterling I think a lot is getting lost in translation here. A "girlfriend" is when you are dating and in a defined relationship with someone. If you "have a crush" it means that you are interested in someone romantically or think they are cute, but are not actually dating someone. It cannot be both. Which is it?
– David K
1 hour ago
@RickySterling I think a lot is getting lost in translation here. A "girlfriend" is when you are dating and in a defined relationship with someone. If you "have a crush" it means that you are interested in someone romantically or think they are cute, but are not actually dating someone. It cannot be both. Which is it?
– David K
1 hour ago
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Personally, I wouldn't list such a brief job experience in my resume, as it would not be much relevant and even perhaps give a bad impression or raise questions (like it is happening to you).
Now, regarding the not landing a job, you have to keep searching. Job-hunting is not usually successful at the first tries.
I would also say that if it bothers you to be asked technical questions during interviews then you could have a problem there, as in all interview processes I've been (both sides) there was almost always a part of technical questions.
Now, If it is something that bothers you, and you can't get over, I suggest you toughen up at least for the interview and "endure" those questions. Otherwise it will be quite hard to land a job, moment in which you will not have to endure more technical questions on interviews.
answered 1 hour ago
DarkCygnus
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If i dont show this experience then most of the employers will pay me like $200 because there is no value for engineers and i need atleast $1000 to sustain myself or live on a street in such a big city.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
Why do you say this will happen? Why do you think you need this brief experience? If you stayed longer perhaps it would have been worthy to include.
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
I did learn a lot even if it was brief experience.I did worked on Golang and Jenkins and now know them.Otherwise new employer ask how you know Golang or Jenkins
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
I think you are assuming many things here. That you are only worth X money because you have known Go and Jenkins for 3 months (surely you have other skills). That they will ask you how you know Go and Jenkins (probably may ask technical questions, or show them some projects you can disclose, but how you learned it doesn't matter much). One can always learn things on their own. In fact, I am sure that you learned Go and Jenkins mostly on your own (googling, SO, etc.) while on that company, rather than taking a course on Go.
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
Yeah i have worked on Nodejs And ReactJS also.I took a course on Udemy.I can make some projects on Github and contribute some to opensource but Indians are very mean.For them a experience certificate from a well renowned company means a lot more than actual skills.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
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1 Answer
1
active
oldest
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active
oldest
votes
active
oldest
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up vote
3
down vote
Personally, I wouldn't list such a brief job experience in my resume, as it would not be much relevant and even perhaps give a bad impression or raise questions (like it is happening to you).
Now, regarding the not landing a job, you have to keep searching. Job-hunting is not usually successful at the first tries.
I would also say that if it bothers you to be asked technical questions during interviews then you could have a problem there, as in all interview processes I've been (both sides) there was almost always a part of technical questions.
Now, If it is something that bothers you, and you can't get over, I suggest you toughen up at least for the interview and "endure" those questions. Otherwise it will be quite hard to land a job, moment in which you will not have to endure more technical questions on interviews.
answered 1 hour ago
DarkCygnus
30.5k1358133
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If i dont show this experience then most of the employers will pay me like $200 because there is no value for engineers and i need atleast $1000 to sustain myself or live on a street in such a big city.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
Why do you say this will happen? Why do you think you need this brief experience? If you stayed longer perhaps it would have been worthy to include.
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
I did learn a lot even if it was brief experience.I did worked on Golang and Jenkins and now know them.Otherwise new employer ask how you know Golang or Jenkins
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
I think you are assuming many things here. That you are only worth X money because you have known Go and Jenkins for 3 months (surely you have other skills). That they will ask you how you know Go and Jenkins (probably may ask technical questions, or show them some projects you can disclose, but how you learned it doesn't matter much). One can always learn things on their own. In fact, I am sure that you learned Go and Jenkins mostly on your own (googling, SO, etc.) while on that company, rather than taking a course on Go.
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
Yeah i have worked on Nodejs And ReactJS also.I took a course on Udemy.I can make some projects on Github and contribute some to opensource but Indians are very mean.For them a experience certificate from a well renowned company means a lot more than actual skills.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
add a comment |Â
up vote
3
down vote
Personally, I wouldn't list such a brief job experience in my resume, as it would not be much relevant and even perhaps give a bad impression or raise questions (like it is happening to you).
Now, regarding the not landing a job, you have to keep searching. Job-hunting is not usually successful at the first tries.
I would also say that if it bothers you to be asked technical questions during interviews then you could have a problem there, as in all interview processes I've been (both sides) there was almost always a part of technical questions.
Now, If it is something that bothers you, and you can't get over, I suggest you toughen up at least for the interview and "endure" those questions. Otherwise it will be quite hard to land a job, moment in which you will not have to endure more technical questions on interviews.
answered 1 hour ago
DarkCygnus
30.5k1358133
1
If i dont show this experience then most of the employers will pay me like $200 because there is no value for engineers and i need atleast $1000 to sustain myself or live on a street in such a big city.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
Why do you say this will happen? Why do you think you need this brief experience? If you stayed longer perhaps it would have been worthy to include.
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
I did learn a lot even if it was brief experience.I did worked on Golang and Jenkins and now know them.Otherwise new employer ask how you know Golang or Jenkins
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
I think you are assuming many things here. That you are only worth X money because you have known Go and Jenkins for 3 months (surely you have other skills). That they will ask you how you know Go and Jenkins (probably may ask technical questions, or show them some projects you can disclose, but how you learned it doesn't matter much). One can always learn things on their own. In fact, I am sure that you learned Go and Jenkins mostly on your own (googling, SO, etc.) while on that company, rather than taking a course on Go.
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
Yeah i have worked on Nodejs And ReactJS also.I took a course on Udemy.I can make some projects on Github and contribute some to opensource but Indians are very mean.For them a experience certificate from a well renowned company means a lot more than actual skills.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
add a comment |Â
up vote
3
down vote
up vote
3
down vote
Personally, I wouldn't list such a brief job experience in my resume, as it would not be much relevant and even perhaps give a bad impression or raise questions (like it is happening to you).
Now, regarding the not landing a job, you have to keep searching. Job-hunting is not usually successful at the first tries.
I would also say that if it bothers you to be asked technical questions during interviews then you could have a problem there, as in all interview processes I've been (both sides) there was almost always a part of technical questions.
Now, If it is something that bothers you, and you can't get over, I suggest you toughen up at least for the interview and "endure" those questions. Otherwise it will be quite hard to land a job, moment in which you will not have to endure more technical questions on interviews.
answered 1 hour ago
DarkCygnus
30.5k1358133
Personally, I wouldn't list such a brief job experience in my resume, as it would not be much relevant and even perhaps give a bad impression or raise questions (like it is happening to you).
Now, regarding the not landing a job, you have to keep searching. Job-hunting is not usually successful at the first tries.
I would also say that if it bothers you to be asked technical questions during interviews then you could have a problem there, as in all interview processes I've been (both sides) there was almost always a part of technical questions.
Now, If it is something that bothers you, and you can't get over, I suggest you toughen up at least for the interview and "endure" those questions. Otherwise it will be quite hard to land a job, moment in which you will not have to endure more technical questions on interviews.
answered 1 hour ago
DarkCygnus
30.5k1358133
answered 1 hour ago
DarkCygnus
30.5k1358133
answered 1 hour ago
DarkCygnus
30.5k1358133
answered 1 hour ago
DarkCygnus
30.5k1358133
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If i dont show this experience then most of the employers will pay me like $200 because there is no value for engineers and i need atleast $1000 to sustain myself or live on a street in such a big city.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
Why do you say this will happen? Why do you think you need this brief experience? If you stayed longer perhaps it would have been worthy to include.
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
I did learn a lot even if it was brief experience.I did worked on Golang and Jenkins and now know them.Otherwise new employer ask how you know Golang or Jenkins
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
I think you are assuming many things here. That you are only worth X money because you have known Go and Jenkins for 3 months (surely you have other skills). That they will ask you how you know Go and Jenkins (probably may ask technical questions, or show them some projects you can disclose, but how you learned it doesn't matter much). One can always learn things on their own. In fact, I am sure that you learned Go and Jenkins mostly on your own (googling, SO, etc.) while on that company, rather than taking a course on Go.
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
Yeah i have worked on Nodejs And ReactJS also.I took a course on Udemy.I can make some projects on Github and contribute some to opensource but Indians are very mean.For them a experience certificate from a well renowned company means a lot more than actual skills.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
add a comment |Â
1
If i dont show this experience then most of the employers will pay me like $200 because there is no value for engineers and i need atleast $1000 to sustain myself or live on a street in such a big city.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
Why do you say this will happen? Why do you think you need this brief experience? If you stayed longer perhaps it would have been worthy to include.
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
I did learn a lot even if it was brief experience.I did worked on Golang and Jenkins and now know them.Otherwise new employer ask how you know Golang or Jenkins
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
I think you are assuming many things here. That you are only worth X money because you have known Go and Jenkins for 3 months (surely you have other skills). That they will ask you how you know Go and Jenkins (probably may ask technical questions, or show them some projects you can disclose, but how you learned it doesn't matter much). One can always learn things on their own. In fact, I am sure that you learned Go and Jenkins mostly on your own (googling, SO, etc.) while on that company, rather than taking a course on Go.
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
Yeah i have worked on Nodejs And ReactJS also.I took a course on Udemy.I can make some projects on Github and contribute some to opensource but Indians are very mean.For them a experience certificate from a well renowned company means a lot more than actual skills.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
1
1
If i dont show this experience then most of the employers will pay me like $200 because there is no value for engineers and i need atleast $1000 to sustain myself or live on a street in such a big city.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
If i dont show this experience then most of the employers will pay me like $200 because there is no value for engineers and i need atleast $1000 to sustain myself or live on a street in such a big city.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
Why do you say this will happen? Why do you think you need this brief experience? If you stayed longer perhaps it would have been worthy to include.
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
Why do you say this will happen? Why do you think you need this brief experience? If you stayed longer perhaps it would have been worthy to include.
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
I did learn a lot even if it was brief experience.I did worked on Golang and Jenkins and now know them.Otherwise new employer ask how you know Golang or Jenkins
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
I did learn a lot even if it was brief experience.I did worked on Golang and Jenkins and now know them.Otherwise new employer ask how you know Golang or Jenkins
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
I think you are assuming many things here. That you are only worth X money because you have known Go and Jenkins for 3 months (surely you have other skills). That they will ask you how you know Go and Jenkins (probably may ask technical questions, or show them some projects you can disclose, but how you learned it doesn't matter much). One can always learn things on their own. In fact, I am sure that you learned Go and Jenkins mostly on your own (googling, SO, etc.) while on that company, rather than taking a course on Go.
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
I think you are assuming many things here. That you are only worth X money because you have known Go and Jenkins for 3 months (surely you have other skills). That they will ask you how you know Go and Jenkins (probably may ask technical questions, or show them some projects you can disclose, but how you learned it doesn't matter much). One can always learn things on their own. In fact, I am sure that you learned Go and Jenkins mostly on your own (googling, SO, etc.) while on that company, rather than taking a course on Go.
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
Yeah i have worked on Nodejs And ReactJS also.I took a course on Udemy.I can make some projects on Github and contribute some to opensource but Indians are very mean.For them a experience certificate from a well renowned company means a lot more than actual skills.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
Yeah i have worked on Nodejs And ReactJS also.I took a course on Udemy.I can make some projects on Github and contribute some to opensource but Indians are very mean.For them a experience certificate from a well renowned company means a lot more than actual skills.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
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3
"I didnt knew that he had a crush on her." - was this just a crush or where they actually in a relationship?
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
Well they talked a lot inside the office but i didnt see them doing anything unprofessional or even give a slightest hint that they were either in relationship or anything like that.
– Ricky Sterling
1 hour ago
So, is that a "yes" to them being in a relationship?
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago
1
@DarkCygnus It doesn't really matter. Two consenting adults and all that.
– ventsyv
1 hour ago
2
@RickySterling I think a lot is getting lost in translation here. A "girlfriend" is when you are dating and in a defined relationship with someone. If you "have a crush" it means that you are interested in someone romantically or think they are cute, but are not actually dating someone. It cannot be both. Which is it?
– David K
1 hour ago