Juniors backstabbed me

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Currently in my new office, there are two juniors under me both of 1 year experience. In all my career of 4+ years, I have always helped my juniors. In the case of these two juniors, I have always helped them whenever I could. Even when they did mistakes, I never shouted. Just talked calmly and made them understand their mistakes and whenever I had the time, fixed the mistakes myself.



The worst event happened when one of the juniors just wasn't doing what I told him to do. I told him to do a task and then move on to the next one. But he skipped the "boring" task and started doing the "interesting" task first. After I told me not to do it multiple times, he got his friend, the second junior, and in front of everyone, spouted lies after lies to my senior, like how I don't help them at all.



My seniors saw through their lies. But the reason I am writing this question is how fake people can be? They were taking and laughing with me and just when I thought I could trust them, they did this. Whom to trust when these so "good" actors are in this world? Are really all people like this and do I really need to stop being "innocent" and lie and don't help juniors. Because I don't know what I should do.









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    Your senior saw straight through the lies, continue doing your job and help them when you can. Just be wary now that you know.
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  • @Twyxz thanks for your advice. Will keep in mind.
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Currently in my new office, there are two juniors under me both of 1 year experience. In all my career of 4+ years, I have always helped my juniors. In the case of these two juniors, I have always helped them whenever I could. Even when they did mistakes, I never shouted. Just talked calmly and made them understand their mistakes and whenever I had the time, fixed the mistakes myself.



The worst event happened when one of the juniors just wasn't doing what I told him to do. I told him to do a task and then move on to the next one. But he skipped the "boring" task and started doing the "interesting" task first. After I told me not to do it multiple times, he got his friend, the second junior, and in front of everyone, spouted lies after lies to my senior, like how I don't help them at all.



My seniors saw through their lies. But the reason I am writing this question is how fake people can be? They were taking and laughing with me and just when I thought I could trust them, they did this. Whom to trust when these so "good" actors are in this world? Are really all people like this and do I really need to stop being "innocent" and lie and don't help juniors. Because I don't know what I should do.









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    Your senior saw straight through the lies, continue doing your job and help them when you can. Just be wary now that you know.
    – Twyxz
    2 mins ago










  • @Twyxz thanks for your advice. Will keep in mind.
    – debo.stackoverflow
    just now












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Currently in my new office, there are two juniors under me both of 1 year experience. In all my career of 4+ years, I have always helped my juniors. In the case of these two juniors, I have always helped them whenever I could. Even when they did mistakes, I never shouted. Just talked calmly and made them understand their mistakes and whenever I had the time, fixed the mistakes myself.



The worst event happened when one of the juniors just wasn't doing what I told him to do. I told him to do a task and then move on to the next one. But he skipped the "boring" task and started doing the "interesting" task first. After I told me not to do it multiple times, he got his friend, the second junior, and in front of everyone, spouted lies after lies to my senior, like how I don't help them at all.



My seniors saw through their lies. But the reason I am writing this question is how fake people can be? They were taking and laughing with me and just when I thought I could trust them, they did this. Whom to trust when these so "good" actors are in this world? Are really all people like this and do I really need to stop being "innocent" and lie and don't help juniors. Because I don't know what I should do.









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Currently in my new office, there are two juniors under me both of 1 year experience. In all my career of 4+ years, I have always helped my juniors. In the case of these two juniors, I have always helped them whenever I could. Even when they did mistakes, I never shouted. Just talked calmly and made them understand their mistakes and whenever I had the time, fixed the mistakes myself.



The worst event happened when one of the juniors just wasn't doing what I told him to do. I told him to do a task and then move on to the next one. But he skipped the "boring" task and started doing the "interesting" task first. After I told me not to do it multiple times, he got his friend, the second junior, and in front of everyone, spouted lies after lies to my senior, like how I don't help them at all.



My seniors saw through their lies. But the reason I am writing this question is how fake people can be? They were taking and laughing with me and just when I thought I could trust them, they did this. Whom to trust when these so "good" actors are in this world? Are really all people like this and do I really need to stop being "innocent" and lie and don't help juniors. Because I don't know what I should do.







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    Your senior saw straight through the lies, continue doing your job and help them when you can. Just be wary now that you know.
    – Twyxz
    2 mins ago










  • @Twyxz thanks for your advice. Will keep in mind.
    – debo.stackoverflow
    just now












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    Your senior saw straight through the lies, continue doing your job and help them when you can. Just be wary now that you know.
    – Twyxz
    2 mins ago










  • @Twyxz thanks for your advice. Will keep in mind.
    – debo.stackoverflow
    just now







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Your senior saw straight through the lies, continue doing your job and help them when you can. Just be wary now that you know.
– Twyxz
2 mins ago




Your senior saw straight through the lies, continue doing your job and help them when you can. Just be wary now that you know.
– Twyxz
2 mins ago












@Twyxz thanks for your advice. Will keep in mind.
– debo.stackoverflow
just now




@Twyxz thanks for your advice. Will keep in mind.
– debo.stackoverflow
just now















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