Contacting a sick employee (to not risk dampening their satisfaction)

The name of the pictureThe name of the pictureThe name of the pictureClash Royale CLAN TAG#URR8PPP





.everyoneloves__top-leaderboard:empty,.everyoneloves__mid-leaderboard:empty margin-bottom:0;







up vote
1
down vote

favorite












I am interested in whether (and if yes, how?) you would go about contacting an employee on sick leave in this very specific situation:



There are three people involved: CEO Carl, Manager Mike and Employee Eric.



Eric calls in sick on Monday. Mike and Carl have good reason to believe Eric is not really sick but rather venting off anger originating from a dispute with Carl.



Eric is scheduled to attend a conference on tuesday. Eric did not mention whether he'll be back on tuesday to attend the conference. So Carl and Mike have to assume that he'll not attend and thus have a conference ticket to spare.



Before Carl and Mike give the conference ticket to someone else: do they contact Eric to find out whether he'll be attending the conference? Note that this conference is one of the yearly highlights for Eric; Mike is aware of that.



Specifically in german legislation: how would they have to phrase the question so that they don't get in conflict with the law?










share|improve this question





























    up vote
    1
    down vote

    favorite












    I am interested in whether (and if yes, how?) you would go about contacting an employee on sick leave in this very specific situation:



    There are three people involved: CEO Carl, Manager Mike and Employee Eric.



    Eric calls in sick on Monday. Mike and Carl have good reason to believe Eric is not really sick but rather venting off anger originating from a dispute with Carl.



    Eric is scheduled to attend a conference on tuesday. Eric did not mention whether he'll be back on tuesday to attend the conference. So Carl and Mike have to assume that he'll not attend and thus have a conference ticket to spare.



    Before Carl and Mike give the conference ticket to someone else: do they contact Eric to find out whether he'll be attending the conference? Note that this conference is one of the yearly highlights for Eric; Mike is aware of that.



    Specifically in german legislation: how would they have to phrase the question so that they don't get in conflict with the law?










    share|improve this question

























      up vote
      1
      down vote

      favorite









      up vote
      1
      down vote

      favorite











      I am interested in whether (and if yes, how?) you would go about contacting an employee on sick leave in this very specific situation:



      There are three people involved: CEO Carl, Manager Mike and Employee Eric.



      Eric calls in sick on Monday. Mike and Carl have good reason to believe Eric is not really sick but rather venting off anger originating from a dispute with Carl.



      Eric is scheduled to attend a conference on tuesday. Eric did not mention whether he'll be back on tuesday to attend the conference. So Carl and Mike have to assume that he'll not attend and thus have a conference ticket to spare.



      Before Carl and Mike give the conference ticket to someone else: do they contact Eric to find out whether he'll be attending the conference? Note that this conference is one of the yearly highlights for Eric; Mike is aware of that.



      Specifically in german legislation: how would they have to phrase the question so that they don't get in conflict with the law?










      share|improve this question















      I am interested in whether (and if yes, how?) you would go about contacting an employee on sick leave in this very specific situation:



      There are three people involved: CEO Carl, Manager Mike and Employee Eric.



      Eric calls in sick on Monday. Mike and Carl have good reason to believe Eric is not really sick but rather venting off anger originating from a dispute with Carl.



      Eric is scheduled to attend a conference on tuesday. Eric did not mention whether he'll be back on tuesday to attend the conference. So Carl and Mike have to assume that he'll not attend and thus have a conference ticket to spare.



      Before Carl and Mike give the conference ticket to someone else: do they contact Eric to find out whether he'll be attending the conference? Note that this conference is one of the yearly highlights for Eric; Mike is aware of that.



      Specifically in german legislation: how would they have to phrase the question so that they don't get in conflict with the law?







      germany legal job-satisfaction






      share|improve this question















      share|improve this question













      share|improve this question




      share|improve this question








      edited 2 mins ago

























      asked 11 mins ago









      marstato

      1264




      1264




















          2 Answers
          2






          active

          oldest

          votes

















          up vote
          1
          down vote













          IANAL and I am not German.



          If Mike and/or Carl have Eric's contact information, then they could just call him and ask: "Hey, we heard you're sick, are you going to make it to the conference?" In my estimation, the "we heard that" does not violate privacy laws; if a person is away from the office on unscheduled vacation, the common thing to hear (at least in my experience) is that the person is sick. Using company-usual contact methods (company email, internal chat, etc) is preferable if it is reasonable to believe that Eric will access those things while sick.



          If Carl and Mike make a reasonable effort to contact Eric, and there is no response, then (imo) Carl and Mike can give away Eric's ticket. But first Carl and Mike should make their best good-faith effort to contact Eric to check if his illness is going to take him out of commission the day of the conference (sometimes you just don't feel well one day and want to skip work but are not actually "sick"; just because Eric comes in the next day perfectly healthy does not mean he lied about taking a sick day).





          share



























            up vote
            1
            down vote














            So Carl and Mike have to assume that he'll not attend and thus have a conference ticket to spare.




            Don't assume, ask.



            Eric already called in sick, so try contacting him by that same mean. Consider giving him a call in case there is a chance he won't see his email.



            Now, being written or spoken, try something in the lines of:




            Hello Eric. Sorry to hear you feel sick, I hope you get well soon. Just remember that tomorrow is the conference, so tell us if you don't think you will make it.






            share




















              Your Answer








              StackExchange.ready(function()
              var channelOptions =
              tags: "".split(" "),
              id: "423"
              ;
              initTagRenderer("".split(" "), "".split(" "), channelOptions);

              StackExchange.using("externalEditor", function()
              // Have to fire editor after snippets, if snippets enabled
              if (StackExchange.settings.snippets.snippetsEnabled)
              StackExchange.using("snippets", function()
              createEditor();
              );

              else
              createEditor();

              );

              function createEditor()
              StackExchange.prepareEditor(
              heartbeatType: 'answer',
              convertImagesToLinks: false,
              noModals: true,
              showLowRepImageUploadWarning: true,
              reputationToPostImages: null,
              bindNavPrevention: true,
              postfix: "",
              imageUploader:
              brandingHtml: "Powered by u003ca class="icon-imgur-white" href="https://imgur.com/"u003eu003c/au003e",
              contentPolicyHtml: "User contributions licensed under u003ca href="https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0/"u003ecc by-sa 3.0 with attribution requiredu003c/au003e u003ca href="https://stackoverflow.com/legal/content-policy"u003e(content policy)u003c/au003e",
              allowUrls: true
              ,
              noCode: true, onDemand: true,
              discardSelector: ".discard-answer"
              ,immediatelyShowMarkdownHelp:true
              );



              );













               

              draft saved


              draft discarded


















              StackExchange.ready(
              function ()
              StackExchange.openid.initPostLogin('.new-post-login', 'https%3a%2f%2fworkplace.stackexchange.com%2fquestions%2f122209%2fcontacting-a-sick-employee-to-not-risk-dampening-their-satisfaction%23new-answer', 'question_page');

              );

              Post as a guest






























              2 Answers
              2






              active

              oldest

              votes








              2 Answers
              2






              active

              oldest

              votes









              active

              oldest

              votes






              active

              oldest

              votes








              up vote
              1
              down vote













              IANAL and I am not German.



              If Mike and/or Carl have Eric's contact information, then they could just call him and ask: "Hey, we heard you're sick, are you going to make it to the conference?" In my estimation, the "we heard that" does not violate privacy laws; if a person is away from the office on unscheduled vacation, the common thing to hear (at least in my experience) is that the person is sick. Using company-usual contact methods (company email, internal chat, etc) is preferable if it is reasonable to believe that Eric will access those things while sick.



              If Carl and Mike make a reasonable effort to contact Eric, and there is no response, then (imo) Carl and Mike can give away Eric's ticket. But first Carl and Mike should make their best good-faith effort to contact Eric to check if his illness is going to take him out of commission the day of the conference (sometimes you just don't feel well one day and want to skip work but are not actually "sick"; just because Eric comes in the next day perfectly healthy does not mean he lied about taking a sick day).





              share
























                up vote
                1
                down vote













                IANAL and I am not German.



                If Mike and/or Carl have Eric's contact information, then they could just call him and ask: "Hey, we heard you're sick, are you going to make it to the conference?" In my estimation, the "we heard that" does not violate privacy laws; if a person is away from the office on unscheduled vacation, the common thing to hear (at least in my experience) is that the person is sick. Using company-usual contact methods (company email, internal chat, etc) is preferable if it is reasonable to believe that Eric will access those things while sick.



                If Carl and Mike make a reasonable effort to contact Eric, and there is no response, then (imo) Carl and Mike can give away Eric's ticket. But first Carl and Mike should make their best good-faith effort to contact Eric to check if his illness is going to take him out of commission the day of the conference (sometimes you just don't feel well one day and want to skip work but are not actually "sick"; just because Eric comes in the next day perfectly healthy does not mean he lied about taking a sick day).





                share






















                  up vote
                  1
                  down vote










                  up vote
                  1
                  down vote









                  IANAL and I am not German.



                  If Mike and/or Carl have Eric's contact information, then they could just call him and ask: "Hey, we heard you're sick, are you going to make it to the conference?" In my estimation, the "we heard that" does not violate privacy laws; if a person is away from the office on unscheduled vacation, the common thing to hear (at least in my experience) is that the person is sick. Using company-usual contact methods (company email, internal chat, etc) is preferable if it is reasonable to believe that Eric will access those things while sick.



                  If Carl and Mike make a reasonable effort to contact Eric, and there is no response, then (imo) Carl and Mike can give away Eric's ticket. But first Carl and Mike should make their best good-faith effort to contact Eric to check if his illness is going to take him out of commission the day of the conference (sometimes you just don't feel well one day and want to skip work but are not actually "sick"; just because Eric comes in the next day perfectly healthy does not mean he lied about taking a sick day).





                  share












                  IANAL and I am not German.



                  If Mike and/or Carl have Eric's contact information, then they could just call him and ask: "Hey, we heard you're sick, are you going to make it to the conference?" In my estimation, the "we heard that" does not violate privacy laws; if a person is away from the office on unscheduled vacation, the common thing to hear (at least in my experience) is that the person is sick. Using company-usual contact methods (company email, internal chat, etc) is preferable if it is reasonable to believe that Eric will access those things while sick.



                  If Carl and Mike make a reasonable effort to contact Eric, and there is no response, then (imo) Carl and Mike can give away Eric's ticket. But first Carl and Mike should make their best good-faith effort to contact Eric to check if his illness is going to take him out of commission the day of the conference (sometimes you just don't feel well one day and want to skip work but are not actually "sick"; just because Eric comes in the next day perfectly healthy does not mean he lied about taking a sick day).






                  share











                  share


                  share










                  answered 2 mins ago









                  Ertai87

                  4,462417




                  4,462417






















                      up vote
                      1
                      down vote














                      So Carl and Mike have to assume that he'll not attend and thus have a conference ticket to spare.




                      Don't assume, ask.



                      Eric already called in sick, so try contacting him by that same mean. Consider giving him a call in case there is a chance he won't see his email.



                      Now, being written or spoken, try something in the lines of:




                      Hello Eric. Sorry to hear you feel sick, I hope you get well soon. Just remember that tomorrow is the conference, so tell us if you don't think you will make it.






                      share
























                        up vote
                        1
                        down vote














                        So Carl and Mike have to assume that he'll not attend and thus have a conference ticket to spare.




                        Don't assume, ask.



                        Eric already called in sick, so try contacting him by that same mean. Consider giving him a call in case there is a chance he won't see his email.



                        Now, being written or spoken, try something in the lines of:




                        Hello Eric. Sorry to hear you feel sick, I hope you get well soon. Just remember that tomorrow is the conference, so tell us if you don't think you will make it.






                        share






















                          up vote
                          1
                          down vote










                          up vote
                          1
                          down vote










                          So Carl and Mike have to assume that he'll not attend and thus have a conference ticket to spare.




                          Don't assume, ask.



                          Eric already called in sick, so try contacting him by that same mean. Consider giving him a call in case there is a chance he won't see his email.



                          Now, being written or spoken, try something in the lines of:




                          Hello Eric. Sorry to hear you feel sick, I hope you get well soon. Just remember that tomorrow is the conference, so tell us if you don't think you will make it.






                          share













                          So Carl and Mike have to assume that he'll not attend and thus have a conference ticket to spare.




                          Don't assume, ask.



                          Eric already called in sick, so try contacting him by that same mean. Consider giving him a call in case there is a chance he won't see his email.



                          Now, being written or spoken, try something in the lines of:




                          Hello Eric. Sorry to hear you feel sick, I hope you get well soon. Just remember that tomorrow is the conference, so tell us if you don't think you will make it.







                          share











                          share


                          share










                          answered 59 secs ago









                          DarkCygnus

                          30.9k1359134




                          30.9k1359134



























                               

                              draft saved


                              draft discarded















































                               


                              draft saved


                              draft discarded














                              StackExchange.ready(
                              function ()
                              StackExchange.openid.initPostLogin('.new-post-login', 'https%3a%2f%2fworkplace.stackexchange.com%2fquestions%2f122209%2fcontacting-a-sick-employee-to-not-risk-dampening-their-satisfaction%23new-answer', 'question_page');

                              );

                              Post as a guest













































































                              Comments

                              Popular posts from this blog

                              What does second last employer means? [closed]

                              Installing NextGIS Connect into QGIS 3?

                              One-line joke