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My daughter is 8 in grade 3 now
she is so cute and quiet kid
She is not sporty
the problem is that at school no kids want to play with her
this has been since grade 1
when she start playing with a kid just for a day or 2 then they go play with other kids and not with her.
she told me that she asks other kids she wants to play with them but they refuse.
I am sure (sadly) she does not have the personality that other kids might like as she is not talkative or sporty but she is a very nice sweet kid that want to enjoy playing with other kids.
we spoke to the school teachers and they asked other kids to play with her but that only last for couple of days, then they go play with other kids with out her.
and i am really worried she will get bullied when she is a bit older.
not sure what to do.
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My daughter is 8 in grade 3 now
she is so cute and quiet kid
She is not sporty
the problem is that at school no kids want to play with her
this has been since grade 1
when she start playing with a kid just for a day or 2 then they go play with other kids and not with her.
she told me that she asks other kids she wants to play with them but they refuse.
I am sure (sadly) she does not have the personality that other kids might like as she is not talkative or sporty but she is a very nice sweet kid that want to enjoy playing with other kids.
we spoke to the school teachers and they asked other kids to play with her but that only last for couple of days, then they go play with other kids with out her.
and i am really worried she will get bullied when she is a bit older.
not sure what to do.
primary-schooler social-development personality
asked 4 hours ago
asmgx
1815
Proper sentences would be nice.
– paparazzo
2 hours ago
@paparazzo pardon?!
– asmgx
2 hours ago
SVP, pardonnez notre paparrazo. Some community members (some more than others) place a high value on grammar (you know, periods, capital letters, etc.) I myself like your writing, it reminds me of your daughter. Quiet and unassuming. :)
– anongoodnurse♦
17 mins ago
@anongoodnurse maybe if there is actually re-incarnation, i will come back as native English speaker and will write proper grammar, tell then, any help in my daughters situation?!
– asmgx
12 mins ago
Oui, I think the answer below is much the one I'd give. Je te souhaite le meilleur. If I come back, I'm fairly certain I will be demoted to a dog. My hope is to come as a Golden Retriever in a middle class US family. :)
– anongoodnurse♦
5 mins ago
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My daughter is 8 in grade 3 now
she is so cute and quiet kid
She is not sporty
the problem is that at school no kids want to play with her
this has been since grade 1
when she start playing with a kid just for a day or 2 then they go play with other kids and not with her.
she told me that she asks other kids she wants to play with them but they refuse.
I am sure (sadly) she does not have the personality that other kids might like as she is not talkative or sporty but she is a very nice sweet kid that want to enjoy playing with other kids.
we spoke to the school teachers and they asked other kids to play with her but that only last for couple of days, then they go play with other kids with out her.
and i am really worried she will get bullied when she is a bit older.
not sure what to do.
primary-schooler social-development personality
asked 4 hours ago
asmgx
1815
My daughter is 8 in grade 3 now
she is so cute and quiet kid
She is not sporty
the problem is that at school no kids want to play with her
this has been since grade 1
when she start playing with a kid just for a day or 2 then they go play with other kids and not with her.
she told me that she asks other kids she wants to play with them but they refuse.
I am sure (sadly) she does not have the personality that other kids might like as she is not talkative or sporty but she is a very nice sweet kid that want to enjoy playing with other kids.
we spoke to the school teachers and they asked other kids to play with her but that only last for couple of days, then they go play with other kids with out her.
and i am really worried she will get bullied when she is a bit older.
not sure what to do.
primary-schooler social-development personality
primary-schooler social-development personality
asked 4 hours ago
asmgx
1815
asked 4 hours ago
asmgx
1815
asked 4 hours ago
asmgx
1815
asked 4 hours ago
asmgx
1815
asked 4 hours ago
asmgx
1815
1815
Proper sentences would be nice.
– paparazzo
2 hours ago
@paparazzo pardon?!
– asmgx
2 hours ago
SVP, pardonnez notre paparrazo. Some community members (some more than others) place a high value on grammar (you know, periods, capital letters, etc.) I myself like your writing, it reminds me of your daughter. Quiet and unassuming. :)
– anongoodnurse♦
17 mins ago
@anongoodnurse maybe if there is actually re-incarnation, i will come back as native English speaker and will write proper grammar, tell then, any help in my daughters situation?!
– asmgx
12 mins ago
Oui, I think the answer below is much the one I'd give. Je te souhaite le meilleur. If I come back, I'm fairly certain I will be demoted to a dog. My hope is to come as a Golden Retriever in a middle class US family. :)
– anongoodnurse♦
5 mins ago
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Proper sentences would be nice.
– paparazzo
2 hours ago
@paparazzo pardon?!
– asmgx
2 hours ago
SVP, pardonnez notre paparrazo. Some community members (some more than others) place a high value on grammar (you know, periods, capital letters, etc.) I myself like your writing, it reminds me of your daughter. Quiet and unassuming. :)
– anongoodnurse♦
17 mins ago
@anongoodnurse maybe if there is actually re-incarnation, i will come back as native English speaker and will write proper grammar, tell then, any help in my daughters situation?!
– asmgx
12 mins ago
Oui, I think the answer below is much the one I'd give. Je te souhaite le meilleur. If I come back, I'm fairly certain I will be demoted to a dog. My hope is to come as a Golden Retriever in a middle class US family. :)
– anongoodnurse♦
5 mins ago
Proper sentences would be nice.
– paparazzo
2 hours ago
Proper sentences would be nice.
– paparazzo
2 hours ago
@paparazzo pardon?!
– asmgx
2 hours ago
@paparazzo pardon?!
– asmgx
2 hours ago
SVP, pardonnez notre paparrazo. Some community members (some more than others) place a high value on grammar (you know, periods, capital letters, etc.) I myself like your writing, it reminds me of your daughter. Quiet and unassuming. :)
– anongoodnurse♦
17 mins ago
SVP, pardonnez notre paparrazo. Some community members (some more than others) place a high value on grammar (you know, periods, capital letters, etc.) I myself like your writing, it reminds me of your daughter. Quiet and unassuming. :)
– anongoodnurse♦
17 mins ago
@anongoodnurse maybe if there is actually re-incarnation, i will come back as native English speaker and will write proper grammar, tell then, any help in my daughters situation?!
– asmgx
12 mins ago
@anongoodnurse maybe if there is actually re-incarnation, i will come back as native English speaker and will write proper grammar, tell then, any help in my daughters situation?!
– asmgx
12 mins ago
Oui, I think the answer below is much the one I'd give. Je te souhaite le meilleur. If I come back, I'm fairly certain I will be demoted to a dog. My hope is to come as a Golden Retriever in a middle class US family. :)
– anongoodnurse♦
5 mins ago
Oui, I think the answer below is much the one I'd give. Je te souhaite le meilleur. If I come back, I'm fairly certain I will be demoted to a dog. My hope is to come as a Golden Retriever in a middle class US family. :)
– anongoodnurse♦
5 mins ago
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This is a very distressing problem to encounter. Unfortunately kids can be kind of cruel, and traits like sweet and nice unfortunately don't necessarily make a child popular.
Trying to get other kids to play with her I don't think will help. A child who isn't welcome in the game is very likely to be bullied.
What I would recommend, would be to try to help her to become more resilient, and help her learn to cope better when other kids refuse to play with her.
Also you could look for other opportunities for her to socialise away from her normal school group. You could look for extracurricular activities she might like. Dance, or art, or music etc. She might be able to find people outside her school who have a similar personality, and won't be bothered that she's not talkative or sporty..
answered 3 hours ago
user1751825
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This is pretty much what I'd have answered (without the bullying part. Who knows what causes that!) Also, arrange for one-on-one play dates.
– anongoodnurse♦
15 mins ago
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oldest
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1 Answer
1
active
oldest
votes
active
oldest
votes
active
oldest
votes
up vote
3
down vote
This is a very distressing problem to encounter. Unfortunately kids can be kind of cruel, and traits like sweet and nice unfortunately don't necessarily make a child popular.
Trying to get other kids to play with her I don't think will help. A child who isn't welcome in the game is very likely to be bullied.
What I would recommend, would be to try to help her to become more resilient, and help her learn to cope better when other kids refuse to play with her.
Also you could look for other opportunities for her to socialise away from her normal school group. You could look for extracurricular activities she might like. Dance, or art, or music etc. She might be able to find people outside her school who have a similar personality, and won't be bothered that she's not talkative or sporty..
answered 3 hours ago
user1751825
2,917711
This is pretty much what I'd have answered (without the bullying part. Who knows what causes that!) Also, arrange for one-on-one play dates.
– anongoodnurse♦
15 mins ago
add a comment |Â
up vote
3
down vote
This is a very distressing problem to encounter. Unfortunately kids can be kind of cruel, and traits like sweet and nice unfortunately don't necessarily make a child popular.
Trying to get other kids to play with her I don't think will help. A child who isn't welcome in the game is very likely to be bullied.
What I would recommend, would be to try to help her to become more resilient, and help her learn to cope better when other kids refuse to play with her.
Also you could look for other opportunities for her to socialise away from her normal school group. You could look for extracurricular activities she might like. Dance, or art, or music etc. She might be able to find people outside her school who have a similar personality, and won't be bothered that she's not talkative or sporty..
answered 3 hours ago
user1751825
2,917711
This is pretty much what I'd have answered (without the bullying part. Who knows what causes that!) Also, arrange for one-on-one play dates.
– anongoodnurse♦
15 mins ago
add a comment |Â
up vote
3
down vote
up vote
3
down vote
This is a very distressing problem to encounter. Unfortunately kids can be kind of cruel, and traits like sweet and nice unfortunately don't necessarily make a child popular.
Trying to get other kids to play with her I don't think will help. A child who isn't welcome in the game is very likely to be bullied.
What I would recommend, would be to try to help her to become more resilient, and help her learn to cope better when other kids refuse to play with her.
Also you could look for other opportunities for her to socialise away from her normal school group. You could look for extracurricular activities she might like. Dance, or art, or music etc. She might be able to find people outside her school who have a similar personality, and won't be bothered that she's not talkative or sporty..
answered 3 hours ago
user1751825
2,917711
This is a very distressing problem to encounter. Unfortunately kids can be kind of cruel, and traits like sweet and nice unfortunately don't necessarily make a child popular.
Trying to get other kids to play with her I don't think will help. A child who isn't welcome in the game is very likely to be bullied.
What I would recommend, would be to try to help her to become more resilient, and help her learn to cope better when other kids refuse to play with her.
Also you could look for other opportunities for her to socialise away from her normal school group. You could look for extracurricular activities she might like. Dance, or art, or music etc. She might be able to find people outside her school who have a similar personality, and won't be bothered that she's not talkative or sporty..
answered 3 hours ago
user1751825
2,917711
answered 3 hours ago
user1751825
2,917711
answered 3 hours ago
user1751825
2,917711
answered 3 hours ago
user1751825
2,917711
2,917711
This is pretty much what I'd have answered (without the bullying part. Who knows what causes that!) Also, arrange for one-on-one play dates.
– anongoodnurse♦
15 mins ago
add a comment |Â
This is pretty much what I'd have answered (without the bullying part. Who knows what causes that!) Also, arrange for one-on-one play dates.
– anongoodnurse♦
15 mins ago
This is pretty much what I'd have answered (without the bullying part. Who knows what causes that!) Also, arrange for one-on-one play dates.
– anongoodnurse♦
15 mins ago
This is pretty much what I'd have answered (without the bullying part. Who knows what causes that!) Also, arrange for one-on-one play dates.
– anongoodnurse♦
15 mins ago
add a comment |Â
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Proper sentences would be nice.
– paparazzo
2 hours ago
@paparazzo pardon?!
– asmgx
2 hours ago
SVP, pardonnez notre paparrazo. Some community members (some more than others) place a high value on grammar (you know, periods, capital letters, etc.) I myself like your writing, it reminds me of your daughter. Quiet and unassuming. :)
– anongoodnurse♦
17 mins ago
@anongoodnurse maybe if there is actually re-incarnation, i will come back as native English speaker and will write proper grammar, tell then, any help in my daughters situation?!
– asmgx
12 mins ago
Oui, I think the answer below is much the one I'd give. Je te souhaite le meilleur. If I come back, I'm fairly certain I will be demoted to a dog. My hope is to come as a Golden Retriever in a middle class US family. :)
– anongoodnurse♦
5 mins ago