Stealing my own property back?

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I have a guitar that I let my friend Joe borrow on the consensus that he would return it in a couple of days. Joe is a mutual friend of my ex Bob.



Bob stole the guitar from Joe once he found out it was mine, and is now not allowing either me or Joe to get it back.



Since I know Bob's family, they would gladly allow me inside their house. If I were to go to Bob's house while he was at work (for my own safety as Bob is aggressive,) knock on their door and ask his family if they would allow me to retrieve my guitar.



Would there be anything illegal about that situation?



I wouldn't be breaking and entering, and from what I have read there are no laws against taking your own property back as long as you do not commit another crime such as trespassing/breaking and entering while doing so.







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    I'm worried about Bob being aggressive, you may want to look for advice against his possible backfire before doing this.
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    Sep 6 at 6:35






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    Possible duplicate of If someone steals something of mine, is it legal to steal it back?
    – Nij
    Sep 6 at 7:01






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    Which country do you live in? Laws vary by location.
    – Angelo Fuchs
    Sep 6 at 11:02






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    The answer depends on jurisdiction. For instance, in Sweden, this would be illegal and the crime would be labeled självtäkt. There would however be an exception if the stolen property was retaken within 24 hours of the theft.
    – jkej
    Sep 6 at 16:01






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    Is asking the parents to hand over the stolen goods not an option? In case they give it back, the question whether it's legal or not to steal it back doesn't even arise.
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I have a guitar that I let my friend Joe borrow on the consensus that he would return it in a couple of days. Joe is a mutual friend of my ex Bob.



Bob stole the guitar from Joe once he found out it was mine, and is now not allowing either me or Joe to get it back.



Since I know Bob's family, they would gladly allow me inside their house. If I were to go to Bob's house while he was at work (for my own safety as Bob is aggressive,) knock on their door and ask his family if they would allow me to retrieve my guitar.



Would there be anything illegal about that situation?



I wouldn't be breaking and entering, and from what I have read there are no laws against taking your own property back as long as you do not commit another crime such as trespassing/breaking and entering while doing so.







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    I'm worried about Bob being aggressive, you may want to look for advice against his possible backfire before doing this.
    – Bernat
    Sep 6 at 6:35






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    Possible duplicate of If someone steals something of mine, is it legal to steal it back?
    – Nij
    Sep 6 at 7:01






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    Which country do you live in? Laws vary by location.
    – Angelo Fuchs
    Sep 6 at 11:02






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    The answer depends on jurisdiction. For instance, in Sweden, this would be illegal and the crime would be labeled självtäkt. There would however be an exception if the stolen property was retaken within 24 hours of the theft.
    – jkej
    Sep 6 at 16:01






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    Is asking the parents to hand over the stolen goods not an option? In case they give it back, the question whether it's legal or not to steal it back doesn't even arise.
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    Sep 7 at 20:32












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I have a guitar that I let my friend Joe borrow on the consensus that he would return it in a couple of days. Joe is a mutual friend of my ex Bob.



Bob stole the guitar from Joe once he found out it was mine, and is now not allowing either me or Joe to get it back.



Since I know Bob's family, they would gladly allow me inside their house. If I were to go to Bob's house while he was at work (for my own safety as Bob is aggressive,) knock on their door and ask his family if they would allow me to retrieve my guitar.



Would there be anything illegal about that situation?



I wouldn't be breaking and entering, and from what I have read there are no laws against taking your own property back as long as you do not commit another crime such as trespassing/breaking and entering while doing so.







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I have a guitar that I let my friend Joe borrow on the consensus that he would return it in a couple of days. Joe is a mutual friend of my ex Bob.



Bob stole the guitar from Joe once he found out it was mine, and is now not allowing either me or Joe to get it back.



Since I know Bob's family, they would gladly allow me inside their house. If I were to go to Bob's house while he was at work (for my own safety as Bob is aggressive,) knock on their door and ask his family if they would allow me to retrieve my guitar.



Would there be anything illegal about that situation?



I wouldn't be breaking and entering, and from what I have read there are no laws against taking your own property back as long as you do not commit another crime such as trespassing/breaking and entering while doing so.









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  • 54




    I'm worried about Bob being aggressive, you may want to look for advice against his possible backfire before doing this.
    – Bernat
    Sep 6 at 6:35






  • 9




    Possible duplicate of If someone steals something of mine, is it legal to steal it back?
    – Nij
    Sep 6 at 7:01






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    Which country do you live in? Laws vary by location.
    – Angelo Fuchs
    Sep 6 at 11:02






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    The answer depends on jurisdiction. For instance, in Sweden, this would be illegal and the crime would be labeled självtäkt. There would however be an exception if the stolen property was retaken within 24 hours of the theft.
    – jkej
    Sep 6 at 16:01






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    Is asking the parents to hand over the stolen goods not an option? In case they give it back, the question whether it's legal or not to steal it back doesn't even arise.
    – Damon
    Sep 7 at 20:32












  • 54




    I'm worried about Bob being aggressive, you may want to look for advice against his possible backfire before doing this.
    – Bernat
    Sep 6 at 6:35






  • 9




    Possible duplicate of If someone steals something of mine, is it legal to steal it back?
    – Nij
    Sep 6 at 7:01






  • 20




    Which country do you live in? Laws vary by location.
    – Angelo Fuchs
    Sep 6 at 11:02






  • 13




    The answer depends on jurisdiction. For instance, in Sweden, this would be illegal and the crime would be labeled självtäkt. There would however be an exception if the stolen property was retaken within 24 hours of the theft.
    – jkej
    Sep 6 at 16:01






  • 7




    Is asking the parents to hand over the stolen goods not an option? In case they give it back, the question whether it's legal or not to steal it back doesn't even arise.
    – Damon
    Sep 7 at 20:32







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I'm worried about Bob being aggressive, you may want to look for advice against his possible backfire before doing this.
– Bernat
Sep 6 at 6:35




I'm worried about Bob being aggressive, you may want to look for advice against his possible backfire before doing this.
– Bernat
Sep 6 at 6:35




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Possible duplicate of If someone steals something of mine, is it legal to steal it back?
– Nij
Sep 6 at 7:01




Possible duplicate of If someone steals something of mine, is it legal to steal it back?
– Nij
Sep 6 at 7:01




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Which country do you live in? Laws vary by location.
– Angelo Fuchs
Sep 6 at 11:02




Which country do you live in? Laws vary by location.
– Angelo Fuchs
Sep 6 at 11:02




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The answer depends on jurisdiction. For instance, in Sweden, this would be illegal and the crime would be labeled självtäkt. There would however be an exception if the stolen property was retaken within 24 hours of the theft.
– jkej
Sep 6 at 16:01




The answer depends on jurisdiction. For instance, in Sweden, this would be illegal and the crime would be labeled självtäkt. There would however be an exception if the stolen property was retaken within 24 hours of the theft.
– jkej
Sep 6 at 16:01




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Is asking the parents to hand over the stolen goods not an option? In case they give it back, the question whether it's legal or not to steal it back doesn't even arise.
– Damon
Sep 7 at 20:32




Is asking the parents to hand over the stolen goods not an option? In case they give it back, the question whether it's legal or not to steal it back doesn't even arise.
– Damon
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No. This would not be illegal.



You are not trespassing or breaking and entering since you have permission to be on the premises, and you are the rightful owner of the guitar so you are not depriving him of property that belongs to him.



If you did this with the assistance of a law enforcement officer, rather than Bob's family, without a court order describing the property to be retrieved, this would be called a "civil assist".



If the guitar were collateral for a loan, it would be a self-help "repossession" (a.k.a. "repo") authorized by the Uniform Commercial Code if it could be accomplished without a breach of the peace, and it would not require a court order.



If you did this pursuant to a court order the case you brought to retrieve the guitar would be called a "replevin action" and you would also need to obtain a "writ of assistance" to authorize a trespass in the presence of law enforcement to retrieve the guitar.



Also, Bob would still be be guilty of the crime of theft of the guitar, even though you got it back, because he took it with an intent to permanently deprive you, its owner, of the property that belongs to you. You could also probably sue him for conversion or "civil theft" in some jurisdictions, but your damages would be nominal except for punitive or statutory damages under a civil theft statute, because you ultimately got the guitar back and so you suffered only minimal economic harm.






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    Is the word "permanently" important in the last paragraph? Say Bob was planning on giving the guitar back in 20 years for example.
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    @DavidMulder It might be technically possible, but it would require Bob to prove that the return was going to happen and that the time he was keeping it for was reasonable. In practise that's not going to happen.
    – Graham
    Sep 6 at 7:49






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    @Flater In the UK there are specific laws covering theft of a motorvehicle because of the joyride situation. I am not a lawyer but my understanding is that standard theft laws wouldn't cover it for this exact reason.
    – Tim B
    Sep 6 at 15:13






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    Make sure you can demonstrate ownership, perhaps through a receipt or witness testimony, in case Bob goes crazy and accuses you of theft. He may even have taken photos of him playing it to present as evidence that he is the owner. This isn't a problem with autos because they have titles.
    – Chloe
    Sep 6 at 17:38






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    "If you did this with the assistance of a law enforcement officer..." Well, that seems like a really good idea.
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Ohwilleke's answer is good, but there is a further point to consider.



You say that Bob is your ex. Are there grounds for him thinking that this guitar was a joint purchase while you were a couple, and hence that he has a right to it? If it could be a joint purchase, you would not be stealing it back - but nor is he. You could potentially end up being sued for possession of the guitar. If it was a joint purchase, you might consider paying him for his half.



This should be a question that Bob's family will ask you anyway. Can you show that the guitar is genuinely yours? If you can, or if they know the guitar is yours, then great. If not, you'll hopefully need to convince them before they'll hand it over. (I say "hopefully" because they'd be stupidly naive not to.) There's also a risk they'll phone Bob to check, of course.



If there's dispute over who owns the guitar, you could sue him. This isn't necessarily as painful as it sounds - in England we have the Small Claims Court which is designed for cases like this, with minimal cost to both sides, but your country may vary.






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    I've never heard of a partition action involving personal property.
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    Community property is a good point.
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In England and Wales, it is possible that you could be found guilty of theft. The "property belonging to another" includes where somebody has "posession and control" over somebody else's property.



This was shown in R v Turner (No 2) [1971] 1 WLR 901, where a defendant was convicted of stealing his own car from a garage where he had left it for a service. It was considered that, since the car was in the control of the garage, it was property belonging to them for the purposes of s1 Theft Act 1968.






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    According to this site lawteacher.net/cases/r-v-turner-no-2.php he was trying to avoid paying the garage and "... it was essential for the prosecution to show that T had acted dishonestly ...". It seems the questioner is not behaving dishonestly though and has the right to deprive Bob of the guitar so 2(1)(a) would apply in this case.
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    Sep 6 at 16:21






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    But the garage case is fundamentally different because the car was given away voluntarily. You haven't made any argument why it applies here too.
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    Sep 6 at 16:25






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    Also, the garage would have a lien for its services in the car, which is a property interest of its own.
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    Sep 6 at 17:07






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    I'm not from the U.K. but I'd ask them to go get it and hand it to me standing outside.
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    Sep 6 at 17:49






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    I don't think the car is a comparable case. In the US, when you take your car to a mechanic, they have a "mechanic's lien" on the car, i.e. the right to keep the car until you pay the repair bill. If you took it back without paying the bill, that's theft both legally and morally. If you paid the bill and they refused to give the car back, that would be different, but you'd be better to go to court to resolve that than take the matter into your own hands. (Assuming you can get to the court house without your car!)
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In Germany, this would most likely be illegal, pursuant to Art. 858 BGB:




(1) A person who, against the will of the possessor, deprives the
possessor of possession or interferes with the possessor’s possession acts, except where the deprivation or the interference is permitted by law, unlawfully (unlawful interference with possession).




The next section does not give the owner an exception to reclaim the property from the actual owner, because the item was not taken by unlawful interference.






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    @Nij It's not messed up if you take the line that "taking justice into your own hands" is generally not legal. If somebody steals from you, the correct course of action is to sue, not to steal it back.
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    Sep 7 at 11:28







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    @xLeitix : and the usual response of police in cases of stolen property of relatively small value is to tell you to not waste their time with such trivialities.
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    Sep 7 at 11:53






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    @Nij I'm not sure the conclusion on this case is correct, because art. 858 bgb (2) should apply making the possession erroneous as it was obtained in bad faith which makes 858 (1) not apply. The difference between possession and ownership applies for lending etc and is just to be able to differentiate in wording
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    @DonQuiKong: Your distinction between Besitz and Eigentum is correct, but BGB 858 explicitly states Besitz, which admittedly sounds absurd. However, it's not as bad as one may think, it also states "durch verbotene Eigenmacht erlangter Besitz ist fehlerhaft" which means that Bob's possession which happened via theft isn't valid (and thus arguably not subject to sentence 1). So basically, had you given the guitar (making it legitimate possession), you wouldn't be allowed to take it against Bob's will.
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    @vsz that's why you go to court, not the police ;)
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I would personally suggest asking the family to hand you the guitar - rather than you going in and getting it.



Just tell them that you lent it to him but you need it back. If you describe it, I'm sure they'll be happy to get it and hand it to you.



That way there can be no argument that you entered and stole the property; or did anything unlawful; as it's now them handing you the item on the pretence that it was yours to start with.



It sounds though, like the law isn't the part you need to worry about - but this guy who tends to be aggressive.






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  • And the downvote is because....?
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  • This seems even more reasonable, since the OP won't be asking permission to access the premises. It's just one single request: handing back what's rightfully owned by the OP.
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  • @UKMonkey The downvote wasn't mine but my guess would be that it's because your post says nothing about the law. Your post seems to be more of an interpersonal skills answer than a law answer.
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No. This would not be illegal.



You are not trespassing or breaking and entering since you have permission to be on the premises, and you are the rightful owner of the guitar so you are not depriving him of property that belongs to him.



If you did this with the assistance of a law enforcement officer, rather than Bob's family, without a court order describing the property to be retrieved, this would be called a "civil assist".



If the guitar were collateral for a loan, it would be a self-help "repossession" (a.k.a. "repo") authorized by the Uniform Commercial Code if it could be accomplished without a breach of the peace, and it would not require a court order.



If you did this pursuant to a court order the case you brought to retrieve the guitar would be called a "replevin action" and you would also need to obtain a "writ of assistance" to authorize a trespass in the presence of law enforcement to retrieve the guitar.



Also, Bob would still be be guilty of the crime of theft of the guitar, even though you got it back, because he took it with an intent to permanently deprive you, its owner, of the property that belongs to you. You could also probably sue him for conversion or "civil theft" in some jurisdictions, but your damages would be nominal except for punitive or statutory damages under a civil theft statute, because you ultimately got the guitar back and so you suffered only minimal economic harm.






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    Is the word "permanently" important in the last paragraph? Say Bob was planning on giving the guitar back in 20 years for example.
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    @DavidMulder It might be technically possible, but it would require Bob to prove that the return was going to happen and that the time he was keeping it for was reasonable. In practise that's not going to happen.
    – Graham
    Sep 6 at 7:49






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    @Flater In the UK there are specific laws covering theft of a motorvehicle because of the joyride situation. I am not a lawyer but my understanding is that standard theft laws wouldn't cover it for this exact reason.
    – Tim B
    Sep 6 at 15:13






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    Make sure you can demonstrate ownership, perhaps through a receipt or witness testimony, in case Bob goes crazy and accuses you of theft. He may even have taken photos of him playing it to present as evidence that he is the owner. This isn't a problem with autos because they have titles.
    – Chloe
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    "If you did this with the assistance of a law enforcement officer..." Well, that seems like a really good idea.
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No. This would not be illegal.



You are not trespassing or breaking and entering since you have permission to be on the premises, and you are the rightful owner of the guitar so you are not depriving him of property that belongs to him.



If you did this with the assistance of a law enforcement officer, rather than Bob's family, without a court order describing the property to be retrieved, this would be called a "civil assist".



If the guitar were collateral for a loan, it would be a self-help "repossession" (a.k.a. "repo") authorized by the Uniform Commercial Code if it could be accomplished without a breach of the peace, and it would not require a court order.



If you did this pursuant to a court order the case you brought to retrieve the guitar would be called a "replevin action" and you would also need to obtain a "writ of assistance" to authorize a trespass in the presence of law enforcement to retrieve the guitar.



Also, Bob would still be be guilty of the crime of theft of the guitar, even though you got it back, because he took it with an intent to permanently deprive you, its owner, of the property that belongs to you. You could also probably sue him for conversion or "civil theft" in some jurisdictions, but your damages would be nominal except for punitive or statutory damages under a civil theft statute, because you ultimately got the guitar back and so you suffered only minimal economic harm.






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    Is the word "permanently" important in the last paragraph? Say Bob was planning on giving the guitar back in 20 years for example.
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    Sep 6 at 6:23






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    @DavidMulder It might be technically possible, but it would require Bob to prove that the return was going to happen and that the time he was keeping it for was reasonable. In practise that's not going to happen.
    – Graham
    Sep 6 at 7:49






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    @Flater In the UK there are specific laws covering theft of a motorvehicle because of the joyride situation. I am not a lawyer but my understanding is that standard theft laws wouldn't cover it for this exact reason.
    – Tim B
    Sep 6 at 15:13






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    Make sure you can demonstrate ownership, perhaps through a receipt or witness testimony, in case Bob goes crazy and accuses you of theft. He may even have taken photos of him playing it to present as evidence that he is the owner. This isn't a problem with autos because they have titles.
    – Chloe
    Sep 6 at 17:38






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    "If you did this with the assistance of a law enforcement officer..." Well, that seems like a really good idea.
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    Sep 6 at 18:20












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No. This would not be illegal.



You are not trespassing or breaking and entering since you have permission to be on the premises, and you are the rightful owner of the guitar so you are not depriving him of property that belongs to him.



If you did this with the assistance of a law enforcement officer, rather than Bob's family, without a court order describing the property to be retrieved, this would be called a "civil assist".



If the guitar were collateral for a loan, it would be a self-help "repossession" (a.k.a. "repo") authorized by the Uniform Commercial Code if it could be accomplished without a breach of the peace, and it would not require a court order.



If you did this pursuant to a court order the case you brought to retrieve the guitar would be called a "replevin action" and you would also need to obtain a "writ of assistance" to authorize a trespass in the presence of law enforcement to retrieve the guitar.



Also, Bob would still be be guilty of the crime of theft of the guitar, even though you got it back, because he took it with an intent to permanently deprive you, its owner, of the property that belongs to you. You could also probably sue him for conversion or "civil theft" in some jurisdictions, but your damages would be nominal except for punitive or statutory damages under a civil theft statute, because you ultimately got the guitar back and so you suffered only minimal economic harm.






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No. This would not be illegal.



You are not trespassing or breaking and entering since you have permission to be on the premises, and you are the rightful owner of the guitar so you are not depriving him of property that belongs to him.



If you did this with the assistance of a law enforcement officer, rather than Bob's family, without a court order describing the property to be retrieved, this would be called a "civil assist".



If the guitar were collateral for a loan, it would be a self-help "repossession" (a.k.a. "repo") authorized by the Uniform Commercial Code if it could be accomplished without a breach of the peace, and it would not require a court order.



If you did this pursuant to a court order the case you brought to retrieve the guitar would be called a "replevin action" and you would also need to obtain a "writ of assistance" to authorize a trespass in the presence of law enforcement to retrieve the guitar.



Also, Bob would still be be guilty of the crime of theft of the guitar, even though you got it back, because he took it with an intent to permanently deprive you, its owner, of the property that belongs to you. You could also probably sue him for conversion or "civil theft" in some jurisdictions, but your damages would be nominal except for punitive or statutory damages under a civil theft statute, because you ultimately got the guitar back and so you suffered only minimal economic harm.







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    Is the word "permanently" important in the last paragraph? Say Bob was planning on giving the guitar back in 20 years for example.
    – David Mulder
    Sep 6 at 6:23






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    @DavidMulder It might be technically possible, but it would require Bob to prove that the return was going to happen and that the time he was keeping it for was reasonable. In practise that's not going to happen.
    – Graham
    Sep 6 at 7:49






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    @Flater In the UK there are specific laws covering theft of a motorvehicle because of the joyride situation. I am not a lawyer but my understanding is that standard theft laws wouldn't cover it for this exact reason.
    – Tim B
    Sep 6 at 15:13






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    Make sure you can demonstrate ownership, perhaps through a receipt or witness testimony, in case Bob goes crazy and accuses you of theft. He may even have taken photos of him playing it to present as evidence that he is the owner. This isn't a problem with autos because they have titles.
    – Chloe
    Sep 6 at 17:38






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    "If you did this with the assistance of a law enforcement officer..." Well, that seems like a really good idea.
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    Is the word "permanently" important in the last paragraph? Say Bob was planning on giving the guitar back in 20 years for example.
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    Sep 6 at 6:23






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    @DavidMulder It might be technically possible, but it would require Bob to prove that the return was going to happen and that the time he was keeping it for was reasonable. In practise that's not going to happen.
    – Graham
    Sep 6 at 7:49






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    @Flater In the UK there are specific laws covering theft of a motorvehicle because of the joyride situation. I am not a lawyer but my understanding is that standard theft laws wouldn't cover it for this exact reason.
    – Tim B
    Sep 6 at 15:13






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    Make sure you can demonstrate ownership, perhaps through a receipt or witness testimony, in case Bob goes crazy and accuses you of theft. He may even have taken photos of him playing it to present as evidence that he is the owner. This isn't a problem with autos because they have titles.
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    "If you did this with the assistance of a law enforcement officer..." Well, that seems like a really good idea.
    – Don Branson
    Sep 6 at 18:20







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Is the word "permanently" important in the last paragraph? Say Bob was planning on giving the guitar back in 20 years for example.
– David Mulder
Sep 6 at 6:23




Is the word "permanently" important in the last paragraph? Say Bob was planning on giving the guitar back in 20 years for example.
– David Mulder
Sep 6 at 6:23




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@DavidMulder It might be technically possible, but it would require Bob to prove that the return was going to happen and that the time he was keeping it for was reasonable. In practise that's not going to happen.
– Graham
Sep 6 at 7:49




@DavidMulder It might be technically possible, but it would require Bob to prove that the return was going to happen and that the time he was keeping it for was reasonable. In practise that's not going to happen.
– Graham
Sep 6 at 7:49




1




1




@Flater In the UK there are specific laws covering theft of a motorvehicle because of the joyride situation. I am not a lawyer but my understanding is that standard theft laws wouldn't cover it for this exact reason.
– Tim B
Sep 6 at 15:13




@Flater In the UK there are specific laws covering theft of a motorvehicle because of the joyride situation. I am not a lawyer but my understanding is that standard theft laws wouldn't cover it for this exact reason.
– Tim B
Sep 6 at 15:13




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8




Make sure you can demonstrate ownership, perhaps through a receipt or witness testimony, in case Bob goes crazy and accuses you of theft. He may even have taken photos of him playing it to present as evidence that he is the owner. This isn't a problem with autos because they have titles.
– Chloe
Sep 6 at 17:38




Make sure you can demonstrate ownership, perhaps through a receipt or witness testimony, in case Bob goes crazy and accuses you of theft. He may even have taken photos of him playing it to present as evidence that he is the owner. This isn't a problem with autos because they have titles.
– Chloe
Sep 6 at 17:38




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"If you did this with the assistance of a law enforcement officer..." Well, that seems like a really good idea.
– Don Branson
Sep 6 at 18:20




"If you did this with the assistance of a law enforcement officer..." Well, that seems like a really good idea.
– Don Branson
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Ohwilleke's answer is good, but there is a further point to consider.



You say that Bob is your ex. Are there grounds for him thinking that this guitar was a joint purchase while you were a couple, and hence that he has a right to it? If it could be a joint purchase, you would not be stealing it back - but nor is he. You could potentially end up being sued for possession of the guitar. If it was a joint purchase, you might consider paying him for his half.



This should be a question that Bob's family will ask you anyway. Can you show that the guitar is genuinely yours? If you can, or if they know the guitar is yours, then great. If not, you'll hopefully need to convince them before they'll hand it over. (I say "hopefully" because they'd be stupidly naive not to.) There's also a risk they'll phone Bob to check, of course.



If there's dispute over who owns the guitar, you could sue him. This isn't necessarily as painful as it sounds - in England we have the Small Claims Court which is designed for cases like this, with minimal cost to both sides, but your country may vary.






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    I've never heard of a partition action involving personal property.
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    Community property is a good point.
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Ohwilleke's answer is good, but there is a further point to consider.



You say that Bob is your ex. Are there grounds for him thinking that this guitar was a joint purchase while you were a couple, and hence that he has a right to it? If it could be a joint purchase, you would not be stealing it back - but nor is he. You could potentially end up being sued for possession of the guitar. If it was a joint purchase, you might consider paying him for his half.



This should be a question that Bob's family will ask you anyway. Can you show that the guitar is genuinely yours? If you can, or if they know the guitar is yours, then great. If not, you'll hopefully need to convince them before they'll hand it over. (I say "hopefully" because they'd be stupidly naive not to.) There's also a risk they'll phone Bob to check, of course.



If there's dispute over who owns the guitar, you could sue him. This isn't necessarily as painful as it sounds - in England we have the Small Claims Court which is designed for cases like this, with minimal cost to both sides, but your country may vary.






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    I've never heard of a partition action involving personal property.
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    Community property is a good point.
    – Eric
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up vote
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Ohwilleke's answer is good, but there is a further point to consider.



You say that Bob is your ex. Are there grounds for him thinking that this guitar was a joint purchase while you were a couple, and hence that he has a right to it? If it could be a joint purchase, you would not be stealing it back - but nor is he. You could potentially end up being sued for possession of the guitar. If it was a joint purchase, you might consider paying him for his half.



This should be a question that Bob's family will ask you anyway. Can you show that the guitar is genuinely yours? If you can, or if they know the guitar is yours, then great. If not, you'll hopefully need to convince them before they'll hand it over. (I say "hopefully" because they'd be stupidly naive not to.) There's also a risk they'll phone Bob to check, of course.



If there's dispute over who owns the guitar, you could sue him. This isn't necessarily as painful as it sounds - in England we have the Small Claims Court which is designed for cases like this, with minimal cost to both sides, but your country may vary.






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Ohwilleke's answer is good, but there is a further point to consider.



You say that Bob is your ex. Are there grounds for him thinking that this guitar was a joint purchase while you were a couple, and hence that he has a right to it? If it could be a joint purchase, you would not be stealing it back - but nor is he. You could potentially end up being sued for possession of the guitar. If it was a joint purchase, you might consider paying him for his half.



This should be a question that Bob's family will ask you anyway. Can you show that the guitar is genuinely yours? If you can, or if they know the guitar is yours, then great. If not, you'll hopefully need to convince them before they'll hand it over. (I say "hopefully" because they'd be stupidly naive not to.) There's also a risk they'll phone Bob to check, of course.



If there's dispute over who owns the guitar, you could sue him. This isn't necessarily as painful as it sounds - in England we have the Small Claims Court which is designed for cases like this, with minimal cost to both sides, but your country may vary.







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    I've never heard of a partition action involving personal property.
    – ohwilleke
    Sep 6 at 17:09






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    Community property is a good point.
    – Eric
    Sep 7 at 15:42












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    I've never heard of a partition action involving personal property.
    – ohwilleke
    Sep 6 at 17:09






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    Community property is a good point.
    – Eric
    Sep 7 at 15:42







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I've never heard of a partition action involving personal property.
– ohwilleke
Sep 6 at 17:09




I've never heard of a partition action involving personal property.
– ohwilleke
Sep 6 at 17:09




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Community property is a good point.
– Eric
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Community property is a good point.
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In England and Wales, it is possible that you could be found guilty of theft. The "property belonging to another" includes where somebody has "posession and control" over somebody else's property.



This was shown in R v Turner (No 2) [1971] 1 WLR 901, where a defendant was convicted of stealing his own car from a garage where he had left it for a service. It was considered that, since the car was in the control of the garage, it was property belonging to them for the purposes of s1 Theft Act 1968.






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    According to this site lawteacher.net/cases/r-v-turner-no-2.php he was trying to avoid paying the garage and "... it was essential for the prosecution to show that T had acted dishonestly ...". It seems the questioner is not behaving dishonestly though and has the right to deprive Bob of the guitar so 2(1)(a) would apply in this case.
    – patstew
    Sep 6 at 16:21






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    But the garage case is fundamentally different because the car was given away voluntarily. You haven't made any argument why it applies here too.
    – DonQuiKong
    Sep 6 at 16:25






  • 3




    Also, the garage would have a lien for its services in the car, which is a property interest of its own.
    – ohwilleke
    Sep 6 at 17:07






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    I'm not from the U.K. but I'd ask them to go get it and hand it to me standing outside.
    – Mazura
    Sep 6 at 17:49






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    I don't think the car is a comparable case. In the US, when you take your car to a mechanic, they have a "mechanic's lien" on the car, i.e. the right to keep the car until you pay the repair bill. If you took it back without paying the bill, that's theft both legally and morally. If you paid the bill and they refused to give the car back, that would be different, but you'd be better to go to court to resolve that than take the matter into your own hands. (Assuming you can get to the court house without your car!)
    – Jay
    Sep 8 at 22:19














up vote
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In England and Wales, it is possible that you could be found guilty of theft. The "property belonging to another" includes where somebody has "posession and control" over somebody else's property.



This was shown in R v Turner (No 2) [1971] 1 WLR 901, where a defendant was convicted of stealing his own car from a garage where he had left it for a service. It was considered that, since the car was in the control of the garage, it was property belonging to them for the purposes of s1 Theft Act 1968.






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    According to this site lawteacher.net/cases/r-v-turner-no-2.php he was trying to avoid paying the garage and "... it was essential for the prosecution to show that T had acted dishonestly ...". It seems the questioner is not behaving dishonestly though and has the right to deprive Bob of the guitar so 2(1)(a) would apply in this case.
    – patstew
    Sep 6 at 16:21






  • 7




    But the garage case is fundamentally different because the car was given away voluntarily. You haven't made any argument why it applies here too.
    – DonQuiKong
    Sep 6 at 16:25






  • 3




    Also, the garage would have a lien for its services in the car, which is a property interest of its own.
    – ohwilleke
    Sep 6 at 17:07






  • 3




    I'm not from the U.K. but I'd ask them to go get it and hand it to me standing outside.
    – Mazura
    Sep 6 at 17:49






  • 3




    I don't think the car is a comparable case. In the US, when you take your car to a mechanic, they have a "mechanic's lien" on the car, i.e. the right to keep the car until you pay the repair bill. If you took it back without paying the bill, that's theft both legally and morally. If you paid the bill and they refused to give the car back, that would be different, but you'd be better to go to court to resolve that than take the matter into your own hands. (Assuming you can get to the court house without your car!)
    – Jay
    Sep 8 at 22:19












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up vote
4
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In England and Wales, it is possible that you could be found guilty of theft. The "property belonging to another" includes where somebody has "posession and control" over somebody else's property.



This was shown in R v Turner (No 2) [1971] 1 WLR 901, where a defendant was convicted of stealing his own car from a garage where he had left it for a service. It was considered that, since the car was in the control of the garage, it was property belonging to them for the purposes of s1 Theft Act 1968.






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In England and Wales, it is possible that you could be found guilty of theft. The "property belonging to another" includes where somebody has "posession and control" over somebody else's property.



This was shown in R v Turner (No 2) [1971] 1 WLR 901, where a defendant was convicted of stealing his own car from a garage where he had left it for a service. It was considered that, since the car was in the control of the garage, it was property belonging to them for the purposes of s1 Theft Act 1968.







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    According to this site lawteacher.net/cases/r-v-turner-no-2.php he was trying to avoid paying the garage and "... it was essential for the prosecution to show that T had acted dishonestly ...". It seems the questioner is not behaving dishonestly though and has the right to deprive Bob of the guitar so 2(1)(a) would apply in this case.
    – patstew
    Sep 6 at 16:21






  • 7




    But the garage case is fundamentally different because the car was given away voluntarily. You haven't made any argument why it applies here too.
    – DonQuiKong
    Sep 6 at 16:25






  • 3




    Also, the garage would have a lien for its services in the car, which is a property interest of its own.
    – ohwilleke
    Sep 6 at 17:07






  • 3




    I'm not from the U.K. but I'd ask them to go get it and hand it to me standing outside.
    – Mazura
    Sep 6 at 17:49






  • 3




    I don't think the car is a comparable case. In the US, when you take your car to a mechanic, they have a "mechanic's lien" on the car, i.e. the right to keep the car until you pay the repair bill. If you took it back without paying the bill, that's theft both legally and morally. If you paid the bill and they refused to give the car back, that would be different, but you'd be better to go to court to resolve that than take the matter into your own hands. (Assuming you can get to the court house without your car!)
    – Jay
    Sep 8 at 22:19












  • 5




    According to this site lawteacher.net/cases/r-v-turner-no-2.php he was trying to avoid paying the garage and "... it was essential for the prosecution to show that T had acted dishonestly ...". It seems the questioner is not behaving dishonestly though and has the right to deprive Bob of the guitar so 2(1)(a) would apply in this case.
    – patstew
    Sep 6 at 16:21






  • 7




    But the garage case is fundamentally different because the car was given away voluntarily. You haven't made any argument why it applies here too.
    – DonQuiKong
    Sep 6 at 16:25






  • 3




    Also, the garage would have a lien for its services in the car, which is a property interest of its own.
    – ohwilleke
    Sep 6 at 17:07






  • 3




    I'm not from the U.K. but I'd ask them to go get it and hand it to me standing outside.
    – Mazura
    Sep 6 at 17:49






  • 3




    I don't think the car is a comparable case. In the US, when you take your car to a mechanic, they have a "mechanic's lien" on the car, i.e. the right to keep the car until you pay the repair bill. If you took it back without paying the bill, that's theft both legally and morally. If you paid the bill and they refused to give the car back, that would be different, but you'd be better to go to court to resolve that than take the matter into your own hands. (Assuming you can get to the court house without your car!)
    – Jay
    Sep 8 at 22:19







5




5




According to this site lawteacher.net/cases/r-v-turner-no-2.php he was trying to avoid paying the garage and "... it was essential for the prosecution to show that T had acted dishonestly ...". It seems the questioner is not behaving dishonestly though and has the right to deprive Bob of the guitar so 2(1)(a) would apply in this case.
– patstew
Sep 6 at 16:21




According to this site lawteacher.net/cases/r-v-turner-no-2.php he was trying to avoid paying the garage and "... it was essential for the prosecution to show that T had acted dishonestly ...". It seems the questioner is not behaving dishonestly though and has the right to deprive Bob of the guitar so 2(1)(a) would apply in this case.
– patstew
Sep 6 at 16:21




7




7




But the garage case is fundamentally different because the car was given away voluntarily. You haven't made any argument why it applies here too.
– DonQuiKong
Sep 6 at 16:25




But the garage case is fundamentally different because the car was given away voluntarily. You haven't made any argument why it applies here too.
– DonQuiKong
Sep 6 at 16:25




3




3




Also, the garage would have a lien for its services in the car, which is a property interest of its own.
– ohwilleke
Sep 6 at 17:07




Also, the garage would have a lien for its services in the car, which is a property interest of its own.
– ohwilleke
Sep 6 at 17:07




3




3




I'm not from the U.K. but I'd ask them to go get it and hand it to me standing outside.
– Mazura
Sep 6 at 17:49




I'm not from the U.K. but I'd ask them to go get it and hand it to me standing outside.
– Mazura
Sep 6 at 17:49




3




3




I don't think the car is a comparable case. In the US, when you take your car to a mechanic, they have a "mechanic's lien" on the car, i.e. the right to keep the car until you pay the repair bill. If you took it back without paying the bill, that's theft both legally and morally. If you paid the bill and they refused to give the car back, that would be different, but you'd be better to go to court to resolve that than take the matter into your own hands. (Assuming you can get to the court house without your car!)
– Jay
Sep 8 at 22:19




I don't think the car is a comparable case. In the US, when you take your car to a mechanic, they have a "mechanic's lien" on the car, i.e. the right to keep the car until you pay the repair bill. If you took it back without paying the bill, that's theft both legally and morally. If you paid the bill and they refused to give the car back, that would be different, but you'd be better to go to court to resolve that than take the matter into your own hands. (Assuming you can get to the court house without your car!)
– Jay
Sep 8 at 22:19










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In Germany, this would most likely be illegal, pursuant to Art. 858 BGB:




(1) A person who, against the will of the possessor, deprives the
possessor of possession or interferes with the possessor’s possession acts, except where the deprivation or the interference is permitted by law, unlawfully (unlawful interference with possession).




The next section does not give the owner an exception to reclaim the property from the actual owner, because the item was not taken by unlawful interference.






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    @Nij It's not messed up if you take the line that "taking justice into your own hands" is generally not legal. If somebody steals from you, the correct course of action is to sue, not to steal it back.
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    Sep 7 at 11:28







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    @xLeitix : and the usual response of police in cases of stolen property of relatively small value is to tell you to not waste their time with such trivialities.
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    Sep 7 at 11:53






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    @Nij I'm not sure the conclusion on this case is correct, because art. 858 bgb (2) should apply making the possession erroneous as it was obtained in bad faith which makes 858 (1) not apply. The difference between possession and ownership applies for lending etc and is just to be able to differentiate in wording
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    @DonQuiKong: Your distinction between Besitz and Eigentum is correct, but BGB 858 explicitly states Besitz, which admittedly sounds absurd. However, it's not as bad as one may think, it also states "durch verbotene Eigenmacht erlangter Besitz ist fehlerhaft" which means that Bob's possession which happened via theft isn't valid (and thus arguably not subject to sentence 1). So basically, had you given the guitar (making it legitimate possession), you wouldn't be allowed to take it against Bob's will.
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    @vsz that's why you go to court, not the police ;)
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In Germany, this would most likely be illegal, pursuant to Art. 858 BGB:




(1) A person who, against the will of the possessor, deprives the
possessor of possession or interferes with the possessor’s possession acts, except where the deprivation or the interference is permitted by law, unlawfully (unlawful interference with possession).




The next section does not give the owner an exception to reclaim the property from the actual owner, because the item was not taken by unlawful interference.






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    @Nij It's not messed up if you take the line that "taking justice into your own hands" is generally not legal. If somebody steals from you, the correct course of action is to sue, not to steal it back.
    – xLeitix
    Sep 7 at 11:28







  • 3




    @xLeitix : and the usual response of police in cases of stolen property of relatively small value is to tell you to not waste their time with such trivialities.
    – vsz
    Sep 7 at 11:53






  • 3




    @Nij I'm not sure the conclusion on this case is correct, because art. 858 bgb (2) should apply making the possession erroneous as it was obtained in bad faith which makes 858 (1) not apply. The difference between possession and ownership applies for lending etc and is just to be able to differentiate in wording
    – DonQuiKong
    Sep 7 at 12:11






  • 3




    @DonQuiKong: Your distinction between Besitz and Eigentum is correct, but BGB 858 explicitly states Besitz, which admittedly sounds absurd. However, it's not as bad as one may think, it also states "durch verbotene Eigenmacht erlangter Besitz ist fehlerhaft" which means that Bob's possession which happened via theft isn't valid (and thus arguably not subject to sentence 1). So basically, had you given the guitar (making it legitimate possession), you wouldn't be allowed to take it against Bob's will.
    – Damon
    Sep 7 at 20:39







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    @vsz that's why you go to court, not the police ;)
    – DonQuiKong
    Sep 7 at 20:43












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In Germany, this would most likely be illegal, pursuant to Art. 858 BGB:




(1) A person who, against the will of the possessor, deprives the
possessor of possession or interferes with the possessor’s possession acts, except where the deprivation or the interference is permitted by law, unlawfully (unlawful interference with possession).




The next section does not give the owner an exception to reclaim the property from the actual owner, because the item was not taken by unlawful interference.






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In Germany, this would most likely be illegal, pursuant to Art. 858 BGB:




(1) A person who, against the will of the possessor, deprives the
possessor of possession or interferes with the possessor’s possession acts, except where the deprivation or the interference is permitted by law, unlawfully (unlawful interference with possession).




The next section does not give the owner an exception to reclaim the property from the actual owner, because the item was not taken by unlawful interference.







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    @Nij It's not messed up if you take the line that "taking justice into your own hands" is generally not legal. If somebody steals from you, the correct course of action is to sue, not to steal it back.
    – xLeitix
    Sep 7 at 11:28







  • 3




    @xLeitix : and the usual response of police in cases of stolen property of relatively small value is to tell you to not waste their time with such trivialities.
    – vsz
    Sep 7 at 11:53






  • 3




    @Nij I'm not sure the conclusion on this case is correct, because art. 858 bgb (2) should apply making the possession erroneous as it was obtained in bad faith which makes 858 (1) not apply. The difference between possession and ownership applies for lending etc and is just to be able to differentiate in wording
    – DonQuiKong
    Sep 7 at 12:11






  • 3




    @DonQuiKong: Your distinction between Besitz and Eigentum is correct, but BGB 858 explicitly states Besitz, which admittedly sounds absurd. However, it's not as bad as one may think, it also states "durch verbotene Eigenmacht erlangter Besitz ist fehlerhaft" which means that Bob's possession which happened via theft isn't valid (and thus arguably not subject to sentence 1). So basically, had you given the guitar (making it legitimate possession), you wouldn't be allowed to take it against Bob's will.
    – Damon
    Sep 7 at 20:39







  • 2




    @vsz that's why you go to court, not the police ;)
    – DonQuiKong
    Sep 7 at 20:43












  • 6




    @Nij It's not messed up if you take the line that "taking justice into your own hands" is generally not legal. If somebody steals from you, the correct course of action is to sue, not to steal it back.
    – xLeitix
    Sep 7 at 11:28







  • 3




    @xLeitix : and the usual response of police in cases of stolen property of relatively small value is to tell you to not waste their time with such trivialities.
    – vsz
    Sep 7 at 11:53






  • 3




    @Nij I'm not sure the conclusion on this case is correct, because art. 858 bgb (2) should apply making the possession erroneous as it was obtained in bad faith which makes 858 (1) not apply. The difference between possession and ownership applies for lending etc and is just to be able to differentiate in wording
    – DonQuiKong
    Sep 7 at 12:11






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    @DonQuiKong: Your distinction between Besitz and Eigentum is correct, but BGB 858 explicitly states Besitz, which admittedly sounds absurd. However, it's not as bad as one may think, it also states "durch verbotene Eigenmacht erlangter Besitz ist fehlerhaft" which means that Bob's possession which happened via theft isn't valid (and thus arguably not subject to sentence 1). So basically, had you given the guitar (making it legitimate possession), you wouldn't be allowed to take it against Bob's will.
    – Damon
    Sep 7 at 20:39







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    @vsz that's why you go to court, not the police ;)
    – DonQuiKong
    Sep 7 at 20:43







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@Nij It's not messed up if you take the line that "taking justice into your own hands" is generally not legal. If somebody steals from you, the correct course of action is to sue, not to steal it back.
– xLeitix
Sep 7 at 11:28





@Nij It's not messed up if you take the line that "taking justice into your own hands" is generally not legal. If somebody steals from you, the correct course of action is to sue, not to steal it back.
– xLeitix
Sep 7 at 11:28





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@xLeitix : and the usual response of police in cases of stolen property of relatively small value is to tell you to not waste their time with such trivialities.
– vsz
Sep 7 at 11:53




@xLeitix : and the usual response of police in cases of stolen property of relatively small value is to tell you to not waste their time with such trivialities.
– vsz
Sep 7 at 11:53




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@Nij I'm not sure the conclusion on this case is correct, because art. 858 bgb (2) should apply making the possession erroneous as it was obtained in bad faith which makes 858 (1) not apply. The difference between possession and ownership applies for lending etc and is just to be able to differentiate in wording
– DonQuiKong
Sep 7 at 12:11




@Nij I'm not sure the conclusion on this case is correct, because art. 858 bgb (2) should apply making the possession erroneous as it was obtained in bad faith which makes 858 (1) not apply. The difference between possession and ownership applies for lending etc and is just to be able to differentiate in wording
– DonQuiKong
Sep 7 at 12:11




3




3




@DonQuiKong: Your distinction between Besitz and Eigentum is correct, but BGB 858 explicitly states Besitz, which admittedly sounds absurd. However, it's not as bad as one may think, it also states "durch verbotene Eigenmacht erlangter Besitz ist fehlerhaft" which means that Bob's possession which happened via theft isn't valid (and thus arguably not subject to sentence 1). So basically, had you given the guitar (making it legitimate possession), you wouldn't be allowed to take it against Bob's will.
– Damon
Sep 7 at 20:39





@DonQuiKong: Your distinction between Besitz and Eigentum is correct, but BGB 858 explicitly states Besitz, which admittedly sounds absurd. However, it's not as bad as one may think, it also states "durch verbotene Eigenmacht erlangter Besitz ist fehlerhaft" which means that Bob's possession which happened via theft isn't valid (and thus arguably not subject to sentence 1). So basically, had you given the guitar (making it legitimate possession), you wouldn't be allowed to take it against Bob's will.
– Damon
Sep 7 at 20:39





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@vsz that's why you go to court, not the police ;)
– DonQuiKong
Sep 7 at 20:43




@vsz that's why you go to court, not the police ;)
– DonQuiKong
Sep 7 at 20:43










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I would personally suggest asking the family to hand you the guitar - rather than you going in and getting it.



Just tell them that you lent it to him but you need it back. If you describe it, I'm sure they'll be happy to get it and hand it to you.



That way there can be no argument that you entered and stole the property; or did anything unlawful; as it's now them handing you the item on the pretence that it was yours to start with.



It sounds though, like the law isn't the part you need to worry about - but this guy who tends to be aggressive.






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  • This seems even more reasonable, since the OP won't be asking permission to access the premises. It's just one single request: handing back what's rightfully owned by the OP.
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I would personally suggest asking the family to hand you the guitar - rather than you going in and getting it.



Just tell them that you lent it to him but you need it back. If you describe it, I'm sure they'll be happy to get it and hand it to you.



That way there can be no argument that you entered and stole the property; or did anything unlawful; as it's now them handing you the item on the pretence that it was yours to start with.



It sounds though, like the law isn't the part you need to worry about - but this guy who tends to be aggressive.






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  • And the downvote is because....?
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  • This seems even more reasonable, since the OP won't be asking permission to access the premises. It's just one single request: handing back what's rightfully owned by the OP.
    – CPHPython
    yesterday











  • @UKMonkey The downvote wasn't mine but my guess would be that it's because your post says nothing about the law. Your post seems to be more of an interpersonal skills answer than a law answer.
    – David Richerby
    yesterday












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up vote
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I would personally suggest asking the family to hand you the guitar - rather than you going in and getting it.



Just tell them that you lent it to him but you need it back. If you describe it, I'm sure they'll be happy to get it and hand it to you.



That way there can be no argument that you entered and stole the property; or did anything unlawful; as it's now them handing you the item on the pretence that it was yours to start with.



It sounds though, like the law isn't the part you need to worry about - but this guy who tends to be aggressive.






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I would personally suggest asking the family to hand you the guitar - rather than you going in and getting it.



Just tell them that you lent it to him but you need it back. If you describe it, I'm sure they'll be happy to get it and hand it to you.



That way there can be no argument that you entered and stole the property; or did anything unlawful; as it's now them handing you the item on the pretence that it was yours to start with.



It sounds though, like the law isn't the part you need to worry about - but this guy who tends to be aggressive.







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  • And the downvote is because....?
    – UKMonkey
    yesterday










  • This seems even more reasonable, since the OP won't be asking permission to access the premises. It's just one single request: handing back what's rightfully owned by the OP.
    – CPHPython
    yesterday











  • @UKMonkey The downvote wasn't mine but my guess would be that it's because your post says nothing about the law. Your post seems to be more of an interpersonal skills answer than a law answer.
    – David Richerby
    yesterday
















  • And the downvote is because....?
    – UKMonkey
    yesterday










  • This seems even more reasonable, since the OP won't be asking permission to access the premises. It's just one single request: handing back what's rightfully owned by the OP.
    – CPHPython
    yesterday











  • @UKMonkey The downvote wasn't mine but my guess would be that it's because your post says nothing about the law. Your post seems to be more of an interpersonal skills answer than a law answer.
    – David Richerby
    yesterday















And the downvote is because....?
– UKMonkey
yesterday




And the downvote is because....?
– UKMonkey
yesterday












This seems even more reasonable, since the OP won't be asking permission to access the premises. It's just one single request: handing back what's rightfully owned by the OP.
– CPHPython
yesterday





This seems even more reasonable, since the OP won't be asking permission to access the premises. It's just one single request: handing back what's rightfully owned by the OP.
– CPHPython
yesterday













@UKMonkey The downvote wasn't mine but my guess would be that it's because your post says nothing about the law. Your post seems to be more of an interpersonal skills answer than a law answer.
– David Richerby
yesterday




@UKMonkey The downvote wasn't mine but my guess would be that it's because your post says nothing about the law. Your post seems to be more of an interpersonal skills answer than a law answer.
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