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I'm an immigrant, I moved a year ago to live in the UK. I also struggle with a combination of mental health disorders: BPD, depression and dissociation.
Today I had my first job interview, and it was disaster! I was 20 minutes late because it was a long journey by bus, and then I needed to walk. However, I apologised and they let me in.
After I began filling out the forms, I started have negative thoughts. When the interviewer started the interview, I moved towards his colleague's table and said:
I'm sorry. I give up the application for the position, I didn't fill
so many details.
Then the interviewer asked me "You're not interested any more?". I said I'm interested. "Do you struggle with English? " he asked. "Yes" I replied.
But it wasn't the true reason. It was a panic attack. I stopped medication months ago and was depressed over the last few weeks.
I need your help to write an apology letter for the mess I did.
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I'm an immigrant, I moved a year ago to live in the UK. I also struggle with a combination of mental health disorders: BPD, depression and dissociation.
Today I had my first job interview, and it was disaster! I was 20 minutes late because it was a long journey by bus, and then I needed to walk. However, I apologised and they let me in.
After I began filling out the forms, I started have negative thoughts. When the interviewer started the interview, I moved towards his colleague's table and said:
I'm sorry. I give up the application for the position, I didn't fill
so many details.
Then the interviewer asked me "You're not interested any more?". I said I'm interested. "Do you struggle with English? " he asked. "Yes" I replied.
But it wasn't the true reason. It was a panic attack. I stopped medication months ago and was depressed over the last few weeks.
I need your help to write an apology letter for the mess I did.
interviewing mental-health
edited 27 secs ago
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asked 1 hour ago
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In theory, this seems a better fit for the Interpersonal Skill SE; alas, in my experience and observation many of the folks there need to improve their interpersonal skills!
– GreenMatt
57 mins ago
@GreenMatt: Well, this is not about apologizing in general, but specifically about apologizing for a problematic situation in the workplace, so I'd say it is more on-topic here than on IPS.
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I'm an immigrant, I moved a year ago to live in the UK. I also struggle with a combination of mental health disorders: BPD, depression and dissociation.
Today I had my first job interview, and it was disaster! I was 20 minutes late because it was a long journey by bus, and then I needed to walk. However, I apologised and they let me in.
After I began filling out the forms, I started have negative thoughts. When the interviewer started the interview, I moved towards his colleague's table and said:
I'm sorry. I give up the application for the position, I didn't fill
so many details.
Then the interviewer asked me "You're not interested any more?". I said I'm interested. "Do you struggle with English? " he asked. "Yes" I replied.
But it wasn't the true reason. It was a panic attack. I stopped medication months ago and was depressed over the last few weeks.
I need your help to write an apology letter for the mess I did.
interviewing mental-health
edited 27 secs ago
sleske
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asked 1 hour ago
Rowan Mohamed
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Rowan Mohamed is a new contributor to this site. Take care in asking for clarification, commenting, and answering.
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I'm an immigrant, I moved a year ago to live in the UK. I also struggle with a combination of mental health disorders: BPD, depression and dissociation.
Today I had my first job interview, and it was disaster! I was 20 minutes late because it was a long journey by bus, and then I needed to walk. However, I apologised and they let me in.
After I began filling out the forms, I started have negative thoughts. When the interviewer started the interview, I moved towards his colleague's table and said:
I'm sorry. I give up the application for the position, I didn't fill
so many details.
Then the interviewer asked me "You're not interested any more?". I said I'm interested. "Do you struggle with English? " he asked. "Yes" I replied.
But it wasn't the true reason. It was a panic attack. I stopped medication months ago and was depressed over the last few weeks.
I need your help to write an apology letter for the mess I did.
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In theory, this seems a better fit for the Interpersonal Skill SE; alas, in my experience and observation many of the folks there need to improve their interpersonal skills!
– GreenMatt
57 mins ago
@GreenMatt: Well, this is not about apologizing in general, but specifically about apologizing for a problematic situation in the workplace, so I'd say it is more on-topic here than on IPS.
– sleske
7 mins ago
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In theory, this seems a better fit for the Interpersonal Skill SE; alas, in my experience and observation many of the folks there need to improve their interpersonal skills!
– GreenMatt
57 mins ago
@GreenMatt: Well, this is not about apologizing in general, but specifically about apologizing for a problematic situation in the workplace, so I'd say it is more on-topic here than on IPS.
– sleske
7 mins ago
2
2
In theory, this seems a better fit for the Interpersonal Skill SE; alas, in my experience and observation many of the folks there need to improve their interpersonal skills!
– GreenMatt
57 mins ago
In theory, this seems a better fit for the Interpersonal Skill SE; alas, in my experience and observation many of the folks there need to improve their interpersonal skills!
– GreenMatt
57 mins ago
@GreenMatt: Well, this is not about apologizing in general, but specifically about apologizing for a problematic situation in the workplace, so I'd say it is more on-topic here than on IPS.
– sleske
7 mins ago
@GreenMatt: Well, this is not about apologizing in general, but specifically about apologizing for a problematic situation in the workplace, so I'd say it is more on-topic here than on IPS.
– sleske
7 mins ago
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Don't bother with the apology letter, try and move forward onto other opportunities instead.
As a priority, you need to work with your doctor on your health/medication issues and get your health and well-being resolved. When you've done that, you'll have a better platform from which to look for work.
Unless you get your health sorted out, you're likely to run into this same issue again and again and again.
answered 1 hour ago
Snow♦
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"Don't bother with the apology letter" is a bit too strong IMHO, as OP apparently feels the need to write one. Wouldn't it be better to just explain why it is not necessary? (Namely: While an apology letter is a nice gesture, it is mostly likely neither expected, nor likely to change the employers perspective.)
– sleske
3 mins ago
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As @snow indicated, a letter of apology isn't absolutely necessary here. That said, it would be a nice gesture and may make you feel more at ease with yourself. If that's the case, such a letter could be very short and simple:
Dear Interviewer:
Thank you for meeting with me on (the date) to discuss the employment opportunity. Unfortunately, I could not complete the process. I apologize for that. It is my hope that you have good fortune in filling the position.
Sincerely,
Your name
You'll want to change the italicized parts appropriately. Also, tailoring this to better fit your own writing style and the particulars of the situation would be good.
The above is assuming you're not going to pursue this job. There is no guarantee that they would re-consider hiring you, but if you want to try, a modified approach would be in order. In such a case, it might look more like:
Dear Interviewer:
Thank you for meeting with me on the date to discuss the employment opportunity. Unfortunately, I experienced a panic attack and thus could not complete the process. I apologize for that.
If the position is still available, I am still interested. If you would be so kind as to re-consider hiring me, I would like to come in for another interview. Would you be available on (dates when you're available)?
Sincerely,
Your name
To be honest, the odds may not be very good for you to be re-considered, so please don't get your hopes up too much. Of course, if they do call you in, you'll need to be able to complete the process.
As @snow said, taking care of yourself is necessary here, as you'll need to be able to function at work once you get a job (this one or another), and - more importantly - for your own well-being.
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2 Answers
2
active
oldest
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active
oldest
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active
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up vote
7
down vote
Don't bother with the apology letter, try and move forward onto other opportunities instead.
As a priority, you need to work with your doctor on your health/medication issues and get your health and well-being resolved. When you've done that, you'll have a better platform from which to look for work.
Unless you get your health sorted out, you're likely to run into this same issue again and again and again.
answered 1 hour ago
Snow♦
55.2k47178225
"Don't bother with the apology letter" is a bit too strong IMHO, as OP apparently feels the need to write one. Wouldn't it be better to just explain why it is not necessary? (Namely: While an apology letter is a nice gesture, it is mostly likely neither expected, nor likely to change the employers perspective.)
– sleske
3 mins ago
add a comment |Â
up vote
7
down vote
Don't bother with the apology letter, try and move forward onto other opportunities instead.
As a priority, you need to work with your doctor on your health/medication issues and get your health and well-being resolved. When you've done that, you'll have a better platform from which to look for work.
Unless you get your health sorted out, you're likely to run into this same issue again and again and again.
answered 1 hour ago
Snow♦
55.2k47178225
"Don't bother with the apology letter" is a bit too strong IMHO, as OP apparently feels the need to write one. Wouldn't it be better to just explain why it is not necessary? (Namely: While an apology letter is a nice gesture, it is mostly likely neither expected, nor likely to change the employers perspective.)
– sleske
3 mins ago
add a comment |Â
up vote
7
down vote
up vote
7
down vote
Don't bother with the apology letter, try and move forward onto other opportunities instead.
As a priority, you need to work with your doctor on your health/medication issues and get your health and well-being resolved. When you've done that, you'll have a better platform from which to look for work.
Unless you get your health sorted out, you're likely to run into this same issue again and again and again.
answered 1 hour ago
Snow♦
55.2k47178225
Don't bother with the apology letter, try and move forward onto other opportunities instead.
As a priority, you need to work with your doctor on your health/medication issues and get your health and well-being resolved. When you've done that, you'll have a better platform from which to look for work.
Unless you get your health sorted out, you're likely to run into this same issue again and again and again.
answered 1 hour ago
Snow♦
55.2k47178225
answered 1 hour ago
Snow♦
55.2k47178225
answered 1 hour ago
Snow♦
55.2k47178225
answered 1 hour ago
Snow♦
55.2k47178225
55.2k47178225
"Don't bother with the apology letter" is a bit too strong IMHO, as OP apparently feels the need to write one. Wouldn't it be better to just explain why it is not necessary? (Namely: While an apology letter is a nice gesture, it is mostly likely neither expected, nor likely to change the employers perspective.)
– sleske
3 mins ago
add a comment |Â
"Don't bother with the apology letter" is a bit too strong IMHO, as OP apparently feels the need to write one. Wouldn't it be better to just explain why it is not necessary? (Namely: While an apology letter is a nice gesture, it is mostly likely neither expected, nor likely to change the employers perspective.)
– sleske
3 mins ago
"Don't bother with the apology letter" is a bit too strong IMHO, as OP apparently feels the need to write one. Wouldn't it be better to just explain why it is not necessary? (Namely: While an apology letter is a nice gesture, it is mostly likely neither expected, nor likely to change the employers perspective.)
– sleske
3 mins ago
"Don't bother with the apology letter" is a bit too strong IMHO, as OP apparently feels the need to write one. Wouldn't it be better to just explain why it is not necessary? (Namely: While an apology letter is a nice gesture, it is mostly likely neither expected, nor likely to change the employers perspective.)
– sleske
3 mins ago
add a comment |Â
up vote
1
down vote
As @snow indicated, a letter of apology isn't absolutely necessary here. That said, it would be a nice gesture and may make you feel more at ease with yourself. If that's the case, such a letter could be very short and simple:
Dear Interviewer:
Thank you for meeting with me on (the date) to discuss the employment opportunity. Unfortunately, I could not complete the process. I apologize for that. It is my hope that you have good fortune in filling the position.
Sincerely,
Your name
You'll want to change the italicized parts appropriately. Also, tailoring this to better fit your own writing style and the particulars of the situation would be good.
The above is assuming you're not going to pursue this job. There is no guarantee that they would re-consider hiring you, but if you want to try, a modified approach would be in order. In such a case, it might look more like:
Dear Interviewer:
Thank you for meeting with me on the date to discuss the employment opportunity. Unfortunately, I experienced a panic attack and thus could not complete the process. I apologize for that.
If the position is still available, I am still interested. If you would be so kind as to re-consider hiring me, I would like to come in for another interview. Would you be available on (dates when you're available)?
Sincerely,
Your name
To be honest, the odds may not be very good for you to be re-considered, so please don't get your hopes up too much. Of course, if they do call you in, you'll need to be able to complete the process.
As @snow said, taking care of yourself is necessary here, as you'll need to be able to function at work once you get a job (this one or another), and - more importantly - for your own well-being.
answered 30 mins ago
GreenMatt
15.7k1465110
add a comment |Â
up vote
1
down vote
As @snow indicated, a letter of apology isn't absolutely necessary here. That said, it would be a nice gesture and may make you feel more at ease with yourself. If that's the case, such a letter could be very short and simple:
Dear Interviewer:
Thank you for meeting with me on (the date) to discuss the employment opportunity. Unfortunately, I could not complete the process. I apologize for that. It is my hope that you have good fortune in filling the position.
Sincerely,
Your name
You'll want to change the italicized parts appropriately. Also, tailoring this to better fit your own writing style and the particulars of the situation would be good.
The above is assuming you're not going to pursue this job. There is no guarantee that they would re-consider hiring you, but if you want to try, a modified approach would be in order. In such a case, it might look more like:
Dear Interviewer:
Thank you for meeting with me on the date to discuss the employment opportunity. Unfortunately, I experienced a panic attack and thus could not complete the process. I apologize for that.
If the position is still available, I am still interested. If you would be so kind as to re-consider hiring me, I would like to come in for another interview. Would you be available on (dates when you're available)?
Sincerely,
Your name
To be honest, the odds may not be very good for you to be re-considered, so please don't get your hopes up too much. Of course, if they do call you in, you'll need to be able to complete the process.
As @snow said, taking care of yourself is necessary here, as you'll need to be able to function at work once you get a job (this one or another), and - more importantly - for your own well-being.
answered 30 mins ago
GreenMatt
15.7k1465110
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up vote
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down vote
up vote
1
down vote
As @snow indicated, a letter of apology isn't absolutely necessary here. That said, it would be a nice gesture and may make you feel more at ease with yourself. If that's the case, such a letter could be very short and simple:
Dear Interviewer:
Thank you for meeting with me on (the date) to discuss the employment opportunity. Unfortunately, I could not complete the process. I apologize for that. It is my hope that you have good fortune in filling the position.
Sincerely,
Your name
You'll want to change the italicized parts appropriately. Also, tailoring this to better fit your own writing style and the particulars of the situation would be good.
The above is assuming you're not going to pursue this job. There is no guarantee that they would re-consider hiring you, but if you want to try, a modified approach would be in order. In such a case, it might look more like:
Dear Interviewer:
Thank you for meeting with me on the date to discuss the employment opportunity. Unfortunately, I experienced a panic attack and thus could not complete the process. I apologize for that.
If the position is still available, I am still interested. If you would be so kind as to re-consider hiring me, I would like to come in for another interview. Would you be available on (dates when you're available)?
Sincerely,
Your name
To be honest, the odds may not be very good for you to be re-considered, so please don't get your hopes up too much. Of course, if they do call you in, you'll need to be able to complete the process.
As @snow said, taking care of yourself is necessary here, as you'll need to be able to function at work once you get a job (this one or another), and - more importantly - for your own well-being.
answered 30 mins ago
GreenMatt
15.7k1465110
As @snow indicated, a letter of apology isn't absolutely necessary here. That said, it would be a nice gesture and may make you feel more at ease with yourself. If that's the case, such a letter could be very short and simple:
Dear Interviewer:
Thank you for meeting with me on (the date) to discuss the employment opportunity. Unfortunately, I could not complete the process. I apologize for that. It is my hope that you have good fortune in filling the position.
Sincerely,
Your name
You'll want to change the italicized parts appropriately. Also, tailoring this to better fit your own writing style and the particulars of the situation would be good.
The above is assuming you're not going to pursue this job. There is no guarantee that they would re-consider hiring you, but if you want to try, a modified approach would be in order. In such a case, it might look more like:
Dear Interviewer:
Thank you for meeting with me on the date to discuss the employment opportunity. Unfortunately, I experienced a panic attack and thus could not complete the process. I apologize for that.
If the position is still available, I am still interested. If you would be so kind as to re-consider hiring me, I would like to come in for another interview. Would you be available on (dates when you're available)?
Sincerely,
Your name
To be honest, the odds may not be very good for you to be re-considered, so please don't get your hopes up too much. Of course, if they do call you in, you'll need to be able to complete the process.
As @snow said, taking care of yourself is necessary here, as you'll need to be able to function at work once you get a job (this one or another), and - more importantly - for your own well-being.
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In theory, this seems a better fit for the Interpersonal Skill SE; alas, in my experience and observation many of the folks there need to improve their interpersonal skills!
– GreenMatt
57 mins ago
@GreenMatt: Well, this is not about apologizing in general, but specifically about apologizing for a problematic situation in the workplace, so I'd say it is more on-topic here than on IPS.
– sleske
7 mins ago