How to deal with a Manager/Boss who often avoids giving a definite answer to questions? [duplicate]

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I work at a small company. We have a pretty flat hierarchy and a lot of freedom. I have two bosses that lead the company and are my direct superiors.



One of these bosses has the habit of not giving a definite answer to a question, sometimes one really has to pry an answer out of him, even for simple yes/no questions.



Examples:



  • Should I prepare and take over the moderation for the retrospective meeting?

  • Can we get a Windows 10 License for this workstation?

  • Will you be in the office tomorrow?

His strategies include ignoring the question, giving an indefinite answer, or putting of the decision to the future, even for such simple ad hoc decisions.



What can I do to mitigate this behaviour? I do not want to nag all the time for such tiny issues, so often they are ignored and turn into problems - e.g. there is no prepared moderator for the retrospective meeting.







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  • does the other boss deal with other things?
    – Twyxz
    Aug 9 at 11:50






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    Not identical but similar, and responses might give you some clues as to possible reasons and how to handle: workplace.stackexchange.com/questions/117073/…
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  • What is appropriate email follow-up etiquette after no response?

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I work at a small company. We have a pretty flat hierarchy and a lot of freedom. I have two bosses that lead the company and are my direct superiors.



One of these bosses has the habit of not giving a definite answer to a question, sometimes one really has to pry an answer out of him, even for simple yes/no questions.



Examples:



  • Should I prepare and take over the moderation for the retrospective meeting?

  • Can we get a Windows 10 License for this workstation?

  • Will you be in the office tomorrow?

His strategies include ignoring the question, giving an indefinite answer, or putting of the decision to the future, even for such simple ad hoc decisions.



What can I do to mitigate this behaviour? I do not want to nag all the time for such tiny issues, so often they are ignored and turn into problems - e.g. there is no prepared moderator for the retrospective meeting.







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marked as duplicate by gnat, Community♦ Aug 10 at 12:44


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  • does the other boss deal with other things?
    – Twyxz
    Aug 9 at 11:50






  • 2




    Not identical but similar, and responses might give you some clues as to possible reasons and how to handle: workplace.stackexchange.com/questions/117073/…
    – A.S
    Aug 9 at 13:29













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  • What is appropriate email follow-up etiquette after no response?

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I work at a small company. We have a pretty flat hierarchy and a lot of freedom. I have two bosses that lead the company and are my direct superiors.



One of these bosses has the habit of not giving a definite answer to a question, sometimes one really has to pry an answer out of him, even for simple yes/no questions.



Examples:



  • Should I prepare and take over the moderation for the retrospective meeting?

  • Can we get a Windows 10 License for this workstation?

  • Will you be in the office tomorrow?

His strategies include ignoring the question, giving an indefinite answer, or putting of the decision to the future, even for such simple ad hoc decisions.



What can I do to mitigate this behaviour? I do not want to nag all the time for such tiny issues, so often they are ignored and turn into problems - e.g. there is no prepared moderator for the retrospective meeting.







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  • What is appropriate email follow-up etiquette after no response?

    6 answers



I work at a small company. We have a pretty flat hierarchy and a lot of freedom. I have two bosses that lead the company and are my direct superiors.



One of these bosses has the habit of not giving a definite answer to a question, sometimes one really has to pry an answer out of him, even for simple yes/no questions.



Examples:



  • Should I prepare and take over the moderation for the retrospective meeting?

  • Can we get a Windows 10 License for this workstation?

  • Will you be in the office tomorrow?

His strategies include ignoring the question, giving an indefinite answer, or putting of the decision to the future, even for such simple ad hoc decisions.



What can I do to mitigate this behaviour? I do not want to nag all the time for such tiny issues, so often they are ignored and turn into problems - e.g. there is no prepared moderator for the retrospective meeting.





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marked as duplicate by gnat, Community♦ Aug 10 at 12:44


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marked as duplicate by gnat, Community♦ Aug 10 at 12:44


This question has been asked before and already has an answer. If those answers do not fully address your question, please ask a new question.













  • does the other boss deal with other things?
    – Twyxz
    Aug 9 at 11:50






  • 2




    Not identical but similar, and responses might give you some clues as to possible reasons and how to handle: workplace.stackexchange.com/questions/117073/…
    – A.S
    Aug 9 at 13:29

















  • does the other boss deal with other things?
    – Twyxz
    Aug 9 at 11:50






  • 2




    Not identical but similar, and responses might give you some clues as to possible reasons and how to handle: workplace.stackexchange.com/questions/117073/…
    – A.S
    Aug 9 at 13:29
















does the other boss deal with other things?
– Twyxz
Aug 9 at 11:50




does the other boss deal with other things?
– Twyxz
Aug 9 at 11:50




2




2




Not identical but similar, and responses might give you some clues as to possible reasons and how to handle: workplace.stackexchange.com/questions/117073/…
– A.S
Aug 9 at 13:29





Not identical but similar, and responses might give you some clues as to possible reasons and how to handle: workplace.stackexchange.com/questions/117073/…
– A.S
Aug 9 at 13:29











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  • Be Blunt

Simply say to said boss that you require 'x' and 'y' to do 'Z' otherwise its not getting done.



  • Get Support

See if anyone else feels the same way first if so then:



speak to the other boss even if he doesnt deal with the same queries just get a second point of view.






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    Don’t necessarily nag but ensure he is aware of the repercussions of not getting these things done.



    E.g ‘Can we get a windows 10 license for this workstation, otherwise....’






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      Document everything. Email is your friend here.



      Whenever you ask the boss for a decision (if verbal) followup with a email restating the question, when a decision is needed and the consequences if a decision is not made.






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        up vote
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        • Be Blunt

        Simply say to said boss that you require 'x' and 'y' to do 'Z' otherwise its not getting done.



        • Get Support

        See if anyone else feels the same way first if so then:



        speak to the other boss even if he doesnt deal with the same queries just get a second point of view.






        share|improve this answer
























          up vote
          1
          down vote













          • Be Blunt

          Simply say to said boss that you require 'x' and 'y' to do 'Z' otherwise its not getting done.



          • Get Support

          See if anyone else feels the same way first if so then:



          speak to the other boss even if he doesnt deal with the same queries just get a second point of view.






          share|improve this answer






















            up vote
            1
            down vote










            up vote
            1
            down vote









            • Be Blunt

            Simply say to said boss that you require 'x' and 'y' to do 'Z' otherwise its not getting done.



            • Get Support

            See if anyone else feels the same way first if so then:



            speak to the other boss even if he doesnt deal with the same queries just get a second point of view.






            share|improve this answer












            • Be Blunt

            Simply say to said boss that you require 'x' and 'y' to do 'Z' otherwise its not getting done.



            • Get Support

            See if anyone else feels the same way first if so then:



            speak to the other boss even if he doesnt deal with the same queries just get a second point of view.







            share|improve this answer












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            answered Aug 9 at 11:53









            Twyxz

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                Don’t necessarily nag but ensure he is aware of the repercussions of not getting these things done.



                E.g ‘Can we get a windows 10 license for this workstation, otherwise....’






                share|improve this answer
























                  up vote
                  1
                  down vote













                  Don’t necessarily nag but ensure he is aware of the repercussions of not getting these things done.



                  E.g ‘Can we get a windows 10 license for this workstation, otherwise....’






                  share|improve this answer






















                    up vote
                    1
                    down vote










                    up vote
                    1
                    down vote









                    Don’t necessarily nag but ensure he is aware of the repercussions of not getting these things done.



                    E.g ‘Can we get a windows 10 license for this workstation, otherwise....’






                    share|improve this answer












                    Don’t necessarily nag but ensure he is aware of the repercussions of not getting these things done.



                    E.g ‘Can we get a windows 10 license for this workstation, otherwise....’







                    share|improve this answer












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                    answered Aug 9 at 11:55









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                        Document everything. Email is your friend here.



                        Whenever you ask the boss for a decision (if verbal) followup with a email restating the question, when a decision is needed and the consequences if a decision is not made.






                        share|improve this answer
























                          up vote
                          1
                          down vote













                          Document everything. Email is your friend here.



                          Whenever you ask the boss for a decision (if verbal) followup with a email restating the question, when a decision is needed and the consequences if a decision is not made.






                          share|improve this answer






















                            up vote
                            1
                            down vote










                            up vote
                            1
                            down vote









                            Document everything. Email is your friend here.



                            Whenever you ask the boss for a decision (if verbal) followup with a email restating the question, when a decision is needed and the consequences if a decision is not made.






                            share|improve this answer












                            Document everything. Email is your friend here.



                            Whenever you ask the boss for a decision (if verbal) followup with a email restating the question, when a decision is needed and the consequences if a decision is not made.







                            share|improve this answer












                            share|improve this answer



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                            answered Aug 9 at 14:19









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