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A friend of mine works as a management consultant. On a previous project she was working closely with a Fortune 500 client's team. One of the team members and her had chemistry, but they maintained professional standards and didn't act on their feelings for the duration of the project.
The project wrapped up, and she was assigned to a new project with a different work group, in a different industry.
- Is it unprofessional and/or unethical for her to pursue this relationship at this time?
- Would it prove problematic given that the other person was technically a former client?
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A friend of mine works as a management consultant. On a previous project she was working closely with a Fortune 500 client's team. One of the team members and her had chemistry, but they maintained professional standards and didn't act on their feelings for the duration of the project.
The project wrapped up, and she was assigned to a new project with a different work group, in a different industry.
- Is it unprofessional and/or unethical for her to pursue this relationship at this time?
- Would it prove problematic given that the other person was technically a former client?
relationships professionalism
edited May 9 '16 at 1:49
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asked Apr 10 '12 at 19:43
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A friend of yours, eh???? ;-)
– Adam Rackis
Apr 10 '12 at 19:49
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I'd like to stress that this is genuinely not applicable to me. For one, I don't have clients.
– Aarthi
Apr 10 '12 at 19:54
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I believe you, and I wouldn't lose an ounce of respect if this actually was you.
– Adam Rackis
Apr 10 '12 at 19:57
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@AdamRackis - Of course its not her. Its always the friend that has problems :) Its an online forum and she is probably using her real name and real photo. Cut her some slack :)
– Borat Sagdiyev
Jun 22 '14 at 17:46
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@Aarthi - If this is truly you, then I suggest that you make another account for questions like these. Why do you think I call myself Borat Sagdiyev ?
– Borat Sagdiyev
Jun 22 '14 at 17:47
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A friend of mine works as a management consultant. On a previous project she was working closely with a Fortune 500 client's team. One of the team members and her had chemistry, but they maintained professional standards and didn't act on their feelings for the duration of the project.
The project wrapped up, and she was assigned to a new project with a different work group, in a different industry.
- Is it unprofessional and/or unethical for her to pursue this relationship at this time?
- Would it prove problematic given that the other person was technically a former client?
relationships professionalism
edited May 9 '16 at 1:49
Marc.2377
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asked Apr 10 '12 at 19:43
Aarthi
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A friend of mine works as a management consultant. On a previous project she was working closely with a Fortune 500 client's team. One of the team members and her had chemistry, but they maintained professional standards and didn't act on their feelings for the duration of the project.
The project wrapped up, and she was assigned to a new project with a different work group, in a different industry.
- Is it unprofessional and/or unethical for her to pursue this relationship at this time?
- Would it prove problematic given that the other person was technically a former client?
relationships professionalism
edited May 9 '16 at 1:49
Marc.2377
18117
asked Apr 10 '12 at 19:43
Aarthi
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edited May 9 '16 at 1:49
Marc.2377
18117
edited May 9 '16 at 1:49
Marc.2377
18117
edited May 9 '16 at 1:49
Marc.2377
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18117
asked Apr 10 '12 at 19:43
Aarthi
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asked Apr 10 '12 at 19:43
Aarthi
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A friend of yours, eh???? ;-)
– Adam Rackis
Apr 10 '12 at 19:49
7
I'd like to stress that this is genuinely not applicable to me. For one, I don't have clients.
– Aarthi
Apr 10 '12 at 19:54
18
I believe you, and I wouldn't lose an ounce of respect if this actually was you.
– Adam Rackis
Apr 10 '12 at 19:57
2
@AdamRackis - Of course its not her. Its always the friend that has problems :) Its an online forum and she is probably using her real name and real photo. Cut her some slack :)
– Borat Sagdiyev
Jun 22 '14 at 17:46
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@Aarthi - If this is truly you, then I suggest that you make another account for questions like these. Why do you think I call myself Borat Sagdiyev ?
– Borat Sagdiyev
Jun 22 '14 at 17:47
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A friend of yours, eh???? ;-)
– Adam Rackis
Apr 10 '12 at 19:49
7
I'd like to stress that this is genuinely not applicable to me. For one, I don't have clients.
– Aarthi
Apr 10 '12 at 19:54
18
I believe you, and I wouldn't lose an ounce of respect if this actually was you.
– Adam Rackis
Apr 10 '12 at 19:57
2
@AdamRackis - Of course its not her. Its always the friend that has problems :) Its an online forum and she is probably using her real name and real photo. Cut her some slack :)
– Borat Sagdiyev
Jun 22 '14 at 17:46
2
@Aarthi - If this is truly you, then I suggest that you make another account for questions like these. Why do you think I call myself Borat Sagdiyev ?
– Borat Sagdiyev
Jun 22 '14 at 17:47
66
66
A friend of yours, eh???? ;-)
– Adam Rackis
Apr 10 '12 at 19:49
A friend of yours, eh???? ;-)
– Adam Rackis
Apr 10 '12 at 19:49
7
7
I'd like to stress that this is genuinely not applicable to me. For one, I don't have clients.
– Aarthi
Apr 10 '12 at 19:54
I'd like to stress that this is genuinely not applicable to me. For one, I don't have clients.
– Aarthi
Apr 10 '12 at 19:54
18
18
I believe you, and I wouldn't lose an ounce of respect if this actually was you.
– Adam Rackis
Apr 10 '12 at 19:57
I believe you, and I wouldn't lose an ounce of respect if this actually was you.
– Adam Rackis
Apr 10 '12 at 19:57
2
2
@AdamRackis - Of course its not her. Its always the friend that has problems :) Its an online forum and she is probably using her real name and real photo. Cut her some slack :)
– Borat Sagdiyev
Jun 22 '14 at 17:46
@AdamRackis - Of course its not her. Its always the friend that has problems :) Its an online forum and she is probably using her real name and real photo. Cut her some slack :)
– Borat Sagdiyev
Jun 22 '14 at 17:46
2
2
@Aarthi - If this is truly you, then I suggest that you make another account for questions like these. Why do you think I call myself Borat Sagdiyev ?
– Borat Sagdiyev
Jun 22 '14 at 17:47
@Aarthi - If this is truly you, then I suggest that you make another account for questions like these. Why do you think I call myself Borat Sagdiyev ?
– Borat Sagdiyev
Jun 22 '14 at 17:47
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Is it unprofessional and/or unethical for her to pursue this relationship? Would it prove problematic given that the other person was technically a former client?
I believe it depends on two factors:
- Whether there is a likelihood of that client being accepted for new work again.
- The industry you are in.
To explain - whilst on the project, the two individuals will have had equal access to any discussed intellectual property and sensitive material. If that's the only project undertaking, then I cannot see an issue.
However, it gets technical if for example the company deals in intellectual property belonging to multiple partners and there is a likelihood of the customer being signed up again. In this case, the relationship could be construed as inside information - and discussing work at home might potentially give away other companies' intellectual property.
If you're having trouble visualising that, let's take an example. Fred works for a big airline, IFly. He really likes Jill, who works for GoodEngines. IFly contract GoodEngines to make some engines, they do, all done, Fred and Jill start dating and so on. Then, IFly want some more engines making. GreatEngines submit some IP as part of their bid. Fred reviews the bid, but has a stressful day and goes home ranting to Jill about it. Over chicken fajitas, to which he's partial, he accidentally lets slip that GreatEngines are using SuperFuel to Jill. Whoops.
Usually, this sort of thing can be managed as with any conflict of interest. I would suggest the following action be taken:
- What does your contract say about it? Ultimately, it may be a breach of your T&Cs of employment to even engage in the relationship.
- What do management/HR say about it? I am not suggesting asking permission - however, assuming you are not barred from having said relationship, covering your bases by raising a potential conflict of interest would be a legitimate thing to talk to HR about.
Of course, this assumes a specific problematic scenario with which I have some experience (not necessarily romantic experience, however). Clearly, if it's just a paper order from your local stationary supplier, that's a bit different!
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Proceed, but with caution. Be discreet for a few months, since it may come to naught. But if your friend sees a future with this person after 3-6 months, she should make a disclosure to her HR department. It's a formality, but an important one, since both people might be asked have to waive certain rights to sue.
edited Apr 10 '12 at 20:02
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answered Apr 10 '12 at 20:01
Scott C Wilson
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Sorry, I don't understand this answer. Why do you think a disclosure is required? And what rights should they waive? And why? Could you add some context?
– sleske
Mar 31 '17 at 10:03
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Here's a pretty good test for questions of the format:
"Is it ethical/professional to _?"
The answer is almost always the same as this question:
"Would you feel uncomfortable telling your boss about _?"
answered Apr 11 '12 at 0:00
JohnFx
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4
Caveat, doesn't work in the case of "My boss just asked me to _, is it ethical?" :)
– Benjol
Apr 11 '12 at 6:32
3
In case of the caveat: "Would you feel comfortable telling your boss's boss?"
– Atif
Apr 12 '12 at 21:21
9
Also doesn't work in the case of "Half my conversations with my boss are uncomfortable regardless of what we're talking about".
– weronika
Apr 24 '12 at 6:21
Then of course if it is unprofessional, and you would feel uncomfortable telling your boss, the question is: Is the relationship worth it? If you tell your grandchildren "I met your grandad when I was a management consultant and he worked at a client, and it was totally unprofessional", that's fine with me and being unprofessional was the right thing to do.
– gnasher729
May 9 '16 at 8:49
This does not answer the question. Plus, it's not always applicable. For example, most people agree that it's ethical to go job hunting while employed, yet most would not tell their boss.
– sleske
Mar 31 '17 at 10:04
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up vote
38
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Is it unprofessional and/or unethical for her to pursue this relationship? Would it prove problematic given that the other person was technically a former client?
I believe it depends on two factors:
- Whether there is a likelihood of that client being accepted for new work again.
- The industry you are in.
To explain - whilst on the project, the two individuals will have had equal access to any discussed intellectual property and sensitive material. If that's the only project undertaking, then I cannot see an issue.
However, it gets technical if for example the company deals in intellectual property belonging to multiple partners and there is a likelihood of the customer being signed up again. In this case, the relationship could be construed as inside information - and discussing work at home might potentially give away other companies' intellectual property.
If you're having trouble visualising that, let's take an example. Fred works for a big airline, IFly. He really likes Jill, who works for GoodEngines. IFly contract GoodEngines to make some engines, they do, all done, Fred and Jill start dating and so on. Then, IFly want some more engines making. GreatEngines submit some IP as part of their bid. Fred reviews the bid, but has a stressful day and goes home ranting to Jill about it. Over chicken fajitas, to which he's partial, he accidentally lets slip that GreatEngines are using SuperFuel to Jill. Whoops.
Usually, this sort of thing can be managed as with any conflict of interest. I would suggest the following action be taken:
- What does your contract say about it? Ultimately, it may be a breach of your T&Cs of employment to even engage in the relationship.
- What do management/HR say about it? I am not suggesting asking permission - however, assuming you are not barred from having said relationship, covering your bases by raising a potential conflict of interest would be a legitimate thing to talk to HR about.
Of course, this assumes a specific problematic scenario with which I have some experience (not necessarily romantic experience, however). Clearly, if it's just a paper order from your local stationary supplier, that's a bit different!
add a comment |Â
up vote
38
down vote
accepted
Is it unprofessional and/or unethical for her to pursue this relationship? Would it prove problematic given that the other person was technically a former client?
I believe it depends on two factors:
- Whether there is a likelihood of that client being accepted for new work again.
- The industry you are in.
To explain - whilst on the project, the two individuals will have had equal access to any discussed intellectual property and sensitive material. If that's the only project undertaking, then I cannot see an issue.
However, it gets technical if for example the company deals in intellectual property belonging to multiple partners and there is a likelihood of the customer being signed up again. In this case, the relationship could be construed as inside information - and discussing work at home might potentially give away other companies' intellectual property.
If you're having trouble visualising that, let's take an example. Fred works for a big airline, IFly. He really likes Jill, who works for GoodEngines. IFly contract GoodEngines to make some engines, they do, all done, Fred and Jill start dating and so on. Then, IFly want some more engines making. GreatEngines submit some IP as part of their bid. Fred reviews the bid, but has a stressful day and goes home ranting to Jill about it. Over chicken fajitas, to which he's partial, he accidentally lets slip that GreatEngines are using SuperFuel to Jill. Whoops.
Usually, this sort of thing can be managed as with any conflict of interest. I would suggest the following action be taken:
- What does your contract say about it? Ultimately, it may be a breach of your T&Cs of employment to even engage in the relationship.
- What do management/HR say about it? I am not suggesting asking permission - however, assuming you are not barred from having said relationship, covering your bases by raising a potential conflict of interest would be a legitimate thing to talk to HR about.
Of course, this assumes a specific problematic scenario with which I have some experience (not necessarily romantic experience, however). Clearly, if it's just a paper order from your local stationary supplier, that's a bit different!
add a comment |Â
up vote
38
down vote
accepted
up vote
38
down vote
accepted
Is it unprofessional and/or unethical for her to pursue this relationship? Would it prove problematic given that the other person was technically a former client?
I believe it depends on two factors:
- Whether there is a likelihood of that client being accepted for new work again.
- The industry you are in.
To explain - whilst on the project, the two individuals will have had equal access to any discussed intellectual property and sensitive material. If that's the only project undertaking, then I cannot see an issue.
However, it gets technical if for example the company deals in intellectual property belonging to multiple partners and there is a likelihood of the customer being signed up again. In this case, the relationship could be construed as inside information - and discussing work at home might potentially give away other companies' intellectual property.
If you're having trouble visualising that, let's take an example. Fred works for a big airline, IFly. He really likes Jill, who works for GoodEngines. IFly contract GoodEngines to make some engines, they do, all done, Fred and Jill start dating and so on. Then, IFly want some more engines making. GreatEngines submit some IP as part of their bid. Fred reviews the bid, but has a stressful day and goes home ranting to Jill about it. Over chicken fajitas, to which he's partial, he accidentally lets slip that GreatEngines are using SuperFuel to Jill. Whoops.
Usually, this sort of thing can be managed as with any conflict of interest. I would suggest the following action be taken:
- What does your contract say about it? Ultimately, it may be a breach of your T&Cs of employment to even engage in the relationship.
- What do management/HR say about it? I am not suggesting asking permission - however, assuming you are not barred from having said relationship, covering your bases by raising a potential conflict of interest would be a legitimate thing to talk to HR about.
Of course, this assumes a specific problematic scenario with which I have some experience (not necessarily romantic experience, however). Clearly, if it's just a paper order from your local stationary supplier, that's a bit different!
Is it unprofessional and/or unethical for her to pursue this relationship? Would it prove problematic given that the other person was technically a former client?
I believe it depends on two factors:
- Whether there is a likelihood of that client being accepted for new work again.
- The industry you are in.
To explain - whilst on the project, the two individuals will have had equal access to any discussed intellectual property and sensitive material. If that's the only project undertaking, then I cannot see an issue.
However, it gets technical if for example the company deals in intellectual property belonging to multiple partners and there is a likelihood of the customer being signed up again. In this case, the relationship could be construed as inside information - and discussing work at home might potentially give away other companies' intellectual property.
If you're having trouble visualising that, let's take an example. Fred works for a big airline, IFly. He really likes Jill, who works for GoodEngines. IFly contract GoodEngines to make some engines, they do, all done, Fred and Jill start dating and so on. Then, IFly want some more engines making. GreatEngines submit some IP as part of their bid. Fred reviews the bid, but has a stressful day and goes home ranting to Jill about it. Over chicken fajitas, to which he's partial, he accidentally lets slip that GreatEngines are using SuperFuel to Jill. Whoops.
Usually, this sort of thing can be managed as with any conflict of interest. I would suggest the following action be taken:
- What does your contract say about it? Ultimately, it may be a breach of your T&Cs of employment to even engage in the relationship.
- What do management/HR say about it? I am not suggesting asking permission - however, assuming you are not barred from having said relationship, covering your bases by raising a potential conflict of interest would be a legitimate thing to talk to HR about.
Of course, this assumes a specific problematic scenario with which I have some experience (not necessarily romantic experience, however). Clearly, if it's just a paper order from your local stationary supplier, that's a bit different!
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Proceed, but with caution. Be discreet for a few months, since it may come to naught. But if your friend sees a future with this person after 3-6 months, she should make a disclosure to her HR department. It's a formality, but an important one, since both people might be asked have to waive certain rights to sue.
edited Apr 10 '12 at 20:02
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answered Apr 10 '12 at 20:01
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Sorry, I don't understand this answer. Why do you think a disclosure is required? And what rights should they waive? And why? Could you add some context?
– sleske
Mar 31 '17 at 10:03
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up vote
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Proceed, but with caution. Be discreet for a few months, since it may come to naught. But if your friend sees a future with this person after 3-6 months, she should make a disclosure to her HR department. It's a formality, but an important one, since both people might be asked have to waive certain rights to sue.
edited Apr 10 '12 at 20:02
Aarthi
1,0241720
answered Apr 10 '12 at 20:01
Scott C Wilson
3,7872028
Sorry, I don't understand this answer. Why do you think a disclosure is required? And what rights should they waive? And why? Could you add some context?
– sleske
Mar 31 '17 at 10:03
add a comment |Â
up vote
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up vote
7
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Proceed, but with caution. Be discreet for a few months, since it may come to naught. But if your friend sees a future with this person after 3-6 months, she should make a disclosure to her HR department. It's a formality, but an important one, since both people might be asked have to waive certain rights to sue.
edited Apr 10 '12 at 20:02
Aarthi
1,0241720
answered Apr 10 '12 at 20:01
Scott C Wilson
3,7872028
Proceed, but with caution. Be discreet for a few months, since it may come to naught. But if your friend sees a future with this person after 3-6 months, she should make a disclosure to her HR department. It's a formality, but an important one, since both people might be asked have to waive certain rights to sue.
edited Apr 10 '12 at 20:02
Aarthi
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answered Apr 10 '12 at 20:01
Scott C Wilson
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edited Apr 10 '12 at 20:02
Aarthi
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edited Apr 10 '12 at 20:02
Aarthi
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edited Apr 10 '12 at 20:02
Aarthi
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answered Apr 10 '12 at 20:01
Scott C Wilson
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answered Apr 10 '12 at 20:01
Scott C Wilson
3,7872028
answered Apr 10 '12 at 20:01
Scott C Wilson
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3,7872028
Sorry, I don't understand this answer. Why do you think a disclosure is required? And what rights should they waive? And why? Could you add some context?
– sleske
Mar 31 '17 at 10:03
add a comment |Â
Sorry, I don't understand this answer. Why do you think a disclosure is required? And what rights should they waive? And why? Could you add some context?
– sleske
Mar 31 '17 at 10:03
Sorry, I don't understand this answer. Why do you think a disclosure is required? And what rights should they waive? And why? Could you add some context?
– sleske
Mar 31 '17 at 10:03
Sorry, I don't understand this answer. Why do you think a disclosure is required? And what rights should they waive? And why? Could you add some context?
– sleske
Mar 31 '17 at 10:03
add a comment |Â
up vote
4
down vote
Here's a pretty good test for questions of the format:
"Is it ethical/professional to _?"
The answer is almost always the same as this question:
"Would you feel uncomfortable telling your boss about _?"
answered Apr 11 '12 at 0:00
JohnFx
3,8302233
4
Caveat, doesn't work in the case of "My boss just asked me to _, is it ethical?" :)
– Benjol
Apr 11 '12 at 6:32
3
In case of the caveat: "Would you feel comfortable telling your boss's boss?"
– Atif
Apr 12 '12 at 21:21
9
Also doesn't work in the case of "Half my conversations with my boss are uncomfortable regardless of what we're talking about".
– weronika
Apr 24 '12 at 6:21
Then of course if it is unprofessional, and you would feel uncomfortable telling your boss, the question is: Is the relationship worth it? If you tell your grandchildren "I met your grandad when I was a management consultant and he worked at a client, and it was totally unprofessional", that's fine with me and being unprofessional was the right thing to do.
– gnasher729
May 9 '16 at 8:49
This does not answer the question. Plus, it's not always applicable. For example, most people agree that it's ethical to go job hunting while employed, yet most would not tell their boss.
– sleske
Mar 31 '17 at 10:04
add a comment |Â
up vote
4
down vote
Here's a pretty good test for questions of the format:
"Is it ethical/professional to _?"
The answer is almost always the same as this question:
"Would you feel uncomfortable telling your boss about _?"
answered Apr 11 '12 at 0:00
JohnFx
3,8302233
4
Caveat, doesn't work in the case of "My boss just asked me to _, is it ethical?" :)
– Benjol
Apr 11 '12 at 6:32
3
In case of the caveat: "Would you feel comfortable telling your boss's boss?"
– Atif
Apr 12 '12 at 21:21
9
Also doesn't work in the case of "Half my conversations with my boss are uncomfortable regardless of what we're talking about".
– weronika
Apr 24 '12 at 6:21
Then of course if it is unprofessional, and you would feel uncomfortable telling your boss, the question is: Is the relationship worth it? If you tell your grandchildren "I met your grandad when I was a management consultant and he worked at a client, and it was totally unprofessional", that's fine with me and being unprofessional was the right thing to do.
– gnasher729
May 9 '16 at 8:49
This does not answer the question. Plus, it's not always applicable. For example, most people agree that it's ethical to go job hunting while employed, yet most would not tell their boss.
– sleske
Mar 31 '17 at 10:04
add a comment |Â
up vote
4
down vote
up vote
4
down vote
Here's a pretty good test for questions of the format:
"Is it ethical/professional to _?"
The answer is almost always the same as this question:
"Would you feel uncomfortable telling your boss about _?"
answered Apr 11 '12 at 0:00
JohnFx
3,8302233
Here's a pretty good test for questions of the format:
"Is it ethical/professional to _?"
The answer is almost always the same as this question:
"Would you feel uncomfortable telling your boss about _?"
answered Apr 11 '12 at 0:00
JohnFx
3,8302233
edited Apr 11 '12 at 12:50
answered Apr 11 '12 at 0:00
JohnFx
3,8302233
answered Apr 11 '12 at 0:00
JohnFx
3,8302233
answered Apr 11 '12 at 0:00
JohnFx
3,8302233
3,8302233
4
Caveat, doesn't work in the case of "My boss just asked me to _, is it ethical?" :)
– Benjol
Apr 11 '12 at 6:32
3
In case of the caveat: "Would you feel comfortable telling your boss's boss?"
– Atif
Apr 12 '12 at 21:21
9
Also doesn't work in the case of "Half my conversations with my boss are uncomfortable regardless of what we're talking about".
– weronika
Apr 24 '12 at 6:21
Then of course if it is unprofessional, and you would feel uncomfortable telling your boss, the question is: Is the relationship worth it? If you tell your grandchildren "I met your grandad when I was a management consultant and he worked at a client, and it was totally unprofessional", that's fine with me and being unprofessional was the right thing to do.
– gnasher729
May 9 '16 at 8:49
This does not answer the question. Plus, it's not always applicable. For example, most people agree that it's ethical to go job hunting while employed, yet most would not tell their boss.
– sleske
Mar 31 '17 at 10:04
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Caveat, doesn't work in the case of "My boss just asked me to _, is it ethical?" :)
– Benjol
Apr 11 '12 at 6:32
3
In case of the caveat: "Would you feel comfortable telling your boss's boss?"
– Atif
Apr 12 '12 at 21:21
9
Also doesn't work in the case of "Half my conversations with my boss are uncomfortable regardless of what we're talking about".
– weronika
Apr 24 '12 at 6:21
Then of course if it is unprofessional, and you would feel uncomfortable telling your boss, the question is: Is the relationship worth it? If you tell your grandchildren "I met your grandad when I was a management consultant and he worked at a client, and it was totally unprofessional", that's fine with me and being unprofessional was the right thing to do.
– gnasher729
May 9 '16 at 8:49
This does not answer the question. Plus, it's not always applicable. For example, most people agree that it's ethical to go job hunting while employed, yet most would not tell their boss.
– sleske
Mar 31 '17 at 10:04
4
4
Caveat, doesn't work in the case of "My boss just asked me to _, is it ethical?" :)
– Benjol
Apr 11 '12 at 6:32
Caveat, doesn't work in the case of "My boss just asked me to _, is it ethical?" :)
– Benjol
Apr 11 '12 at 6:32
3
3
In case of the caveat: "Would you feel comfortable telling your boss's boss?"
– Atif
Apr 12 '12 at 21:21
In case of the caveat: "Would you feel comfortable telling your boss's boss?"
– Atif
Apr 12 '12 at 21:21
9
9
Also doesn't work in the case of "Half my conversations with my boss are uncomfortable regardless of what we're talking about".
– weronika
Apr 24 '12 at 6:21
Also doesn't work in the case of "Half my conversations with my boss are uncomfortable regardless of what we're talking about".
– weronika
Apr 24 '12 at 6:21
Then of course if it is unprofessional, and you would feel uncomfortable telling your boss, the question is: Is the relationship worth it? If you tell your grandchildren "I met your grandad when I was a management consultant and he worked at a client, and it was totally unprofessional", that's fine with me and being unprofessional was the right thing to do.
– gnasher729
May 9 '16 at 8:49
Then of course if it is unprofessional, and you would feel uncomfortable telling your boss, the question is: Is the relationship worth it? If you tell your grandchildren "I met your grandad when I was a management consultant and he worked at a client, and it was totally unprofessional", that's fine with me and being unprofessional was the right thing to do.
– gnasher729
May 9 '16 at 8:49
This does not answer the question. Plus, it's not always applicable. For example, most people agree that it's ethical to go job hunting while employed, yet most would not tell their boss.
– sleske
Mar 31 '17 at 10:04
This does not answer the question. Plus, it's not always applicable. For example, most people agree that it's ethical to go job hunting while employed, yet most would not tell their boss.
– sleske
Mar 31 '17 at 10:04
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A friend of yours, eh???? ;-)
– Adam Rackis
Apr 10 '12 at 19:49
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I'd like to stress that this is genuinely not applicable to me. For one, I don't have clients.
– Aarthi
Apr 10 '12 at 19:54
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I believe you, and I wouldn't lose an ounce of respect if this actually was you.
– Adam Rackis
Apr 10 '12 at 19:57
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@AdamRackis - Of course its not her. Its always the friend that has problems :) Its an online forum and she is probably using her real name and real photo. Cut her some slack :)
– Borat Sagdiyev
Jun 22 '14 at 17:46
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@Aarthi - If this is truly you, then I suggest that you make another account for questions like these. Why do you think I call myself Borat Sagdiyev ?
– Borat Sagdiyev
Jun 22 '14 at 17:47