How to ask a recruiter not to take reference at my current employer?

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I'm contacted by a recruiter and she asks for references. I don't want her to take reference at my current employer, as I don't want to undermine my further job opportunities there. They need explicit permission in writing to contact references but, I know, sometimes they still do. How can I explicitly but politely ask the recruiter not to take reference at my current employer? I just can't come up with a good, clear sentence.







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    I'm contacted by a recruiter and she asks for references. I don't want her to take reference at my current employer, as I don't want to undermine my further job opportunities there. They need explicit permission in writing to contact references but, I know, sometimes they still do. How can I explicitly but politely ask the recruiter not to take reference at my current employer? I just can't come up with a good, clear sentence.







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      I'm contacted by a recruiter and she asks for references. I don't want her to take reference at my current employer, as I don't want to undermine my further job opportunities there. They need explicit permission in writing to contact references but, I know, sometimes they still do. How can I explicitly but politely ask the recruiter not to take reference at my current employer? I just can't come up with a good, clear sentence.







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      I'm contacted by a recruiter and she asks for references. I don't want her to take reference at my current employer, as I don't want to undermine my further job opportunities there. They need explicit permission in writing to contact references but, I know, sometimes they still do. How can I explicitly but politely ask the recruiter not to take reference at my current employer? I just can't come up with a good, clear sentence.









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          It would be extremely unlikely and unprofessional for a recruiter to do this, however you can say something like this if you are concerned:




          Do not contact my current employer for references as this will jeopardise my job which would be very detrimental to both my career and personal situation. Please ask me for explicit permission before doing so.




          You are trying to impress on them that they are risking your job security.






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          • Based on my personal relation with an IT recruiter I know for a fact that , although highly unprofessional, they do this systematically. Thank you for your advice, I got a clear statement formulated.
            – RobSeg
            Jul 6 '15 at 9:04






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            If you have a recruiter that does this, you need to end your relationship with them. This behaviour is not ok and they do not deserve your business.
            – Jane S♦
            Jul 6 '15 at 9:08






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            @JaneS - completely agree but from my experience (UK), they do this quite frequently and damn the consequences for the person. Recruiters still seem to be a necessary evil in this world and it is always more a case of you WANT the role they have rather than choosing to do business with them.
            – Mike
            Jul 6 '15 at 10:10






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            @Mike If you know of recruiters that do this, then slightly modify the above to say (in writing), "I do not give you permission to contact my current employer as this can jeopardise my job and be detrimental to my career and personal life." The trick here is to put it in writing, and if they do it against your express wishes, you have possible grounds to take legal action.
            – Jane S♦
            Jul 6 '15 at 10:18

















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          Most recruiters are asking for references for one reason - contact building. It has nothing to do with you, your job or any potential job. All they're concerned about is getting another name and number of a (what they presume is) a hiring manager in their database. Plus, they know that they'll be looking soon, when you leave..!



          My advice is to simply advise that references will be available upon a job offer being made.



          There's absolutely no need to provide references prior to this point. Be aware that many recruiters will lie through their teeth to tell you otherwise - excuses such as We need to check your references before we put you forward. or The client demands references up front for all applicants. but you need to hold firm.



          As you've already discovered, the recruitment industry is not a hotbed of ethics and the only safe approach is to guard information.






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            It would be extremely unlikely and unprofessional for a recruiter to do this, however you can say something like this if you are concerned:




            Do not contact my current employer for references as this will jeopardise my job which would be very detrimental to both my career and personal situation. Please ask me for explicit permission before doing so.




            You are trying to impress on them that they are risking your job security.






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            • Based on my personal relation with an IT recruiter I know for a fact that , although highly unprofessional, they do this systematically. Thank you for your advice, I got a clear statement formulated.
              – RobSeg
              Jul 6 '15 at 9:04






            • 4




              If you have a recruiter that does this, you need to end your relationship with them. This behaviour is not ok and they do not deserve your business.
              – Jane S♦
              Jul 6 '15 at 9:08






            • 1




              @JaneS - completely agree but from my experience (UK), they do this quite frequently and damn the consequences for the person. Recruiters still seem to be a necessary evil in this world and it is always more a case of you WANT the role they have rather than choosing to do business with them.
              – Mike
              Jul 6 '15 at 10:10






            • 4




              @Mike If you know of recruiters that do this, then slightly modify the above to say (in writing), "I do not give you permission to contact my current employer as this can jeopardise my job and be detrimental to my career and personal life." The trick here is to put it in writing, and if they do it against your express wishes, you have possible grounds to take legal action.
              – Jane S♦
              Jul 6 '15 at 10:18














            up vote
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            accepted










            It would be extremely unlikely and unprofessional for a recruiter to do this, however you can say something like this if you are concerned:




            Do not contact my current employer for references as this will jeopardise my job which would be very detrimental to both my career and personal situation. Please ask me for explicit permission before doing so.




            You are trying to impress on them that they are risking your job security.






            share|improve this answer




















            • Based on my personal relation with an IT recruiter I know for a fact that , although highly unprofessional, they do this systematically. Thank you for your advice, I got a clear statement formulated.
              – RobSeg
              Jul 6 '15 at 9:04






            • 4




              If you have a recruiter that does this, you need to end your relationship with them. This behaviour is not ok and they do not deserve your business.
              – Jane S♦
              Jul 6 '15 at 9:08






            • 1




              @JaneS - completely agree but from my experience (UK), they do this quite frequently and damn the consequences for the person. Recruiters still seem to be a necessary evil in this world and it is always more a case of you WANT the role they have rather than choosing to do business with them.
              – Mike
              Jul 6 '15 at 10:10






            • 4




              @Mike If you know of recruiters that do this, then slightly modify the above to say (in writing), "I do not give you permission to contact my current employer as this can jeopardise my job and be detrimental to my career and personal life." The trick here is to put it in writing, and if they do it against your express wishes, you have possible grounds to take legal action.
              – Jane S♦
              Jul 6 '15 at 10:18












            up vote
            9
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            up vote
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            accepted






            It would be extremely unlikely and unprofessional for a recruiter to do this, however you can say something like this if you are concerned:




            Do not contact my current employer for references as this will jeopardise my job which would be very detrimental to both my career and personal situation. Please ask me for explicit permission before doing so.




            You are trying to impress on them that they are risking your job security.






            share|improve this answer












            It would be extremely unlikely and unprofessional for a recruiter to do this, however you can say something like this if you are concerned:




            Do not contact my current employer for references as this will jeopardise my job which would be very detrimental to both my career and personal situation. Please ask me for explicit permission before doing so.




            You are trying to impress on them that they are risking your job security.







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            answered Jul 6 '15 at 8:55









            Jane S♦

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            • Based on my personal relation with an IT recruiter I know for a fact that , although highly unprofessional, they do this systematically. Thank you for your advice, I got a clear statement formulated.
              – RobSeg
              Jul 6 '15 at 9:04






            • 4




              If you have a recruiter that does this, you need to end your relationship with them. This behaviour is not ok and they do not deserve your business.
              – Jane S♦
              Jul 6 '15 at 9:08






            • 1




              @JaneS - completely agree but from my experience (UK), they do this quite frequently and damn the consequences for the person. Recruiters still seem to be a necessary evil in this world and it is always more a case of you WANT the role they have rather than choosing to do business with them.
              – Mike
              Jul 6 '15 at 10:10






            • 4




              @Mike If you know of recruiters that do this, then slightly modify the above to say (in writing), "I do not give you permission to contact my current employer as this can jeopardise my job and be detrimental to my career and personal life." The trick here is to put it in writing, and if they do it against your express wishes, you have possible grounds to take legal action.
              – Jane S♦
              Jul 6 '15 at 10:18
















            • Based on my personal relation with an IT recruiter I know for a fact that , although highly unprofessional, they do this systematically. Thank you for your advice, I got a clear statement formulated.
              – RobSeg
              Jul 6 '15 at 9:04






            • 4




              If you have a recruiter that does this, you need to end your relationship with them. This behaviour is not ok and they do not deserve your business.
              – Jane S♦
              Jul 6 '15 at 9:08






            • 1




              @JaneS - completely agree but from my experience (UK), they do this quite frequently and damn the consequences for the person. Recruiters still seem to be a necessary evil in this world and it is always more a case of you WANT the role they have rather than choosing to do business with them.
              – Mike
              Jul 6 '15 at 10:10






            • 4




              @Mike If you know of recruiters that do this, then slightly modify the above to say (in writing), "I do not give you permission to contact my current employer as this can jeopardise my job and be detrimental to my career and personal life." The trick here is to put it in writing, and if they do it against your express wishes, you have possible grounds to take legal action.
              – Jane S♦
              Jul 6 '15 at 10:18















            Based on my personal relation with an IT recruiter I know for a fact that , although highly unprofessional, they do this systematically. Thank you for your advice, I got a clear statement formulated.
            – RobSeg
            Jul 6 '15 at 9:04




            Based on my personal relation with an IT recruiter I know for a fact that , although highly unprofessional, they do this systematically. Thank you for your advice, I got a clear statement formulated.
            – RobSeg
            Jul 6 '15 at 9:04




            4




            4




            If you have a recruiter that does this, you need to end your relationship with them. This behaviour is not ok and they do not deserve your business.
            – Jane S♦
            Jul 6 '15 at 9:08




            If you have a recruiter that does this, you need to end your relationship with them. This behaviour is not ok and they do not deserve your business.
            – Jane S♦
            Jul 6 '15 at 9:08




            1




            1




            @JaneS - completely agree but from my experience (UK), they do this quite frequently and damn the consequences for the person. Recruiters still seem to be a necessary evil in this world and it is always more a case of you WANT the role they have rather than choosing to do business with them.
            – Mike
            Jul 6 '15 at 10:10




            @JaneS - completely agree but from my experience (UK), they do this quite frequently and damn the consequences for the person. Recruiters still seem to be a necessary evil in this world and it is always more a case of you WANT the role they have rather than choosing to do business with them.
            – Mike
            Jul 6 '15 at 10:10




            4




            4




            @Mike If you know of recruiters that do this, then slightly modify the above to say (in writing), "I do not give you permission to contact my current employer as this can jeopardise my job and be detrimental to my career and personal life." The trick here is to put it in writing, and if they do it against your express wishes, you have possible grounds to take legal action.
            – Jane S♦
            Jul 6 '15 at 10:18




            @Mike If you know of recruiters that do this, then slightly modify the above to say (in writing), "I do not give you permission to contact my current employer as this can jeopardise my job and be detrimental to my career and personal life." The trick here is to put it in writing, and if they do it against your express wishes, you have possible grounds to take legal action.
            – Jane S♦
            Jul 6 '15 at 10:18












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            4
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            Most recruiters are asking for references for one reason - contact building. It has nothing to do with you, your job or any potential job. All they're concerned about is getting another name and number of a (what they presume is) a hiring manager in their database. Plus, they know that they'll be looking soon, when you leave..!



            My advice is to simply advise that references will be available upon a job offer being made.



            There's absolutely no need to provide references prior to this point. Be aware that many recruiters will lie through their teeth to tell you otherwise - excuses such as We need to check your references before we put you forward. or The client demands references up front for all applicants. but you need to hold firm.



            As you've already discovered, the recruitment industry is not a hotbed of ethics and the only safe approach is to guard information.






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              up vote
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              Most recruiters are asking for references for one reason - contact building. It has nothing to do with you, your job or any potential job. All they're concerned about is getting another name and number of a (what they presume is) a hiring manager in their database. Plus, they know that they'll be looking soon, when you leave..!



              My advice is to simply advise that references will be available upon a job offer being made.



              There's absolutely no need to provide references prior to this point. Be aware that many recruiters will lie through their teeth to tell you otherwise - excuses such as We need to check your references before we put you forward. or The client demands references up front for all applicants. but you need to hold firm.



              As you've already discovered, the recruitment industry is not a hotbed of ethics and the only safe approach is to guard information.






              share|improve this answer






















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                Most recruiters are asking for references for one reason - contact building. It has nothing to do with you, your job or any potential job. All they're concerned about is getting another name and number of a (what they presume is) a hiring manager in their database. Plus, they know that they'll be looking soon, when you leave..!



                My advice is to simply advise that references will be available upon a job offer being made.



                There's absolutely no need to provide references prior to this point. Be aware that many recruiters will lie through their teeth to tell you otherwise - excuses such as We need to check your references before we put you forward. or The client demands references up front for all applicants. but you need to hold firm.



                As you've already discovered, the recruitment industry is not a hotbed of ethics and the only safe approach is to guard information.






                share|improve this answer












                Most recruiters are asking for references for one reason - contact building. It has nothing to do with you, your job or any potential job. All they're concerned about is getting another name and number of a (what they presume is) a hiring manager in their database. Plus, they know that they'll be looking soon, when you leave..!



                My advice is to simply advise that references will be available upon a job offer being made.



                There's absolutely no need to provide references prior to this point. Be aware that many recruiters will lie through their teeth to tell you otherwise - excuses such as We need to check your references before we put you forward. or The client demands references up front for all applicants. but you need to hold firm.



                As you've already discovered, the recruitment industry is not a hotbed of ethics and the only safe approach is to guard information.







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