Is it misleading to ask a former co-worker if his company is hiring?

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So I asked a former coworker if his current company had any intention of hiring just because I am interesting in working in that particular industry, but not for that particular company?



Is this misleading and could this hurt me in any way?



Edit: Used for work at that company, so I am a little interested in how they are doing










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    "Do you have any grapes?" "Over in aisle 3" "Ok, thanks, I'll go buy some somewhere else".
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  • Why would you do this? To get a general feeling of the state of the industry? Seems there are better ways to do that.
    – Philip Kendall
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  • wondering how that guy is doing that's all. Just out of curiosity. I know it's a bit unusual and how the business is going.
    – GrandFleet
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  • @GrandFleet so, you want to ask your former coworker this because it would give you some sense on how the industry is?
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  • Jobs tend to be publicly posted in the US. You don't need to ask your former co-worker to get information about job openings. Why not just asking your coworker how his company is doing? What he thinks about the outlook of the industry?
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So I asked a former coworker if his current company had any intention of hiring just because I am interesting in working in that particular industry, but not for that particular company?



Is this misleading and could this hurt me in any way?



Edit: Used for work at that company, so I am a little interested in how they are doing










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    "Do you have any grapes?" "Over in aisle 3" "Ok, thanks, I'll go buy some somewhere else".
    – Dukeling
    1 hour ago










  • Why would you do this? To get a general feeling of the state of the industry? Seems there are better ways to do that.
    – Philip Kendall
    1 hour ago










  • wondering how that guy is doing that's all. Just out of curiosity. I know it's a bit unusual and how the business is going.
    – GrandFleet
    1 hour ago











  • @GrandFleet so, you want to ask your former coworker this because it would give you some sense on how the industry is?
    – DarkCygnus
    1 hour ago











  • Jobs tend to be publicly posted in the US. You don't need to ask your former co-worker to get information about job openings. Why not just asking your coworker how his company is doing? What he thinks about the outlook of the industry?
    – jcmack
    1 hour ago













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So I asked a former coworker if his current company had any intention of hiring just because I am interesting in working in that particular industry, but not for that particular company?



Is this misleading and could this hurt me in any way?



Edit: Used for work at that company, so I am a little interested in how they are doing










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So I asked a former coworker if his current company had any intention of hiring just because I am interesting in working in that particular industry, but not for that particular company?



Is this misleading and could this hurt me in any way?



Edit: Used for work at that company, so I am a little interested in how they are doing







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    "Do you have any grapes?" "Over in aisle 3" "Ok, thanks, I'll go buy some somewhere else".
    – Dukeling
    1 hour ago










  • Why would you do this? To get a general feeling of the state of the industry? Seems there are better ways to do that.
    – Philip Kendall
    1 hour ago










  • wondering how that guy is doing that's all. Just out of curiosity. I know it's a bit unusual and how the business is going.
    – GrandFleet
    1 hour ago











  • @GrandFleet so, you want to ask your former coworker this because it would give you some sense on how the industry is?
    – DarkCygnus
    1 hour ago











  • Jobs tend to be publicly posted in the US. You don't need to ask your former co-worker to get information about job openings. Why not just asking your coworker how his company is doing? What he thinks about the outlook of the industry?
    – jcmack
    1 hour ago













  • 4




    "Do you have any grapes?" "Over in aisle 3" "Ok, thanks, I'll go buy some somewhere else".
    – Dukeling
    1 hour ago










  • Why would you do this? To get a general feeling of the state of the industry? Seems there are better ways to do that.
    – Philip Kendall
    1 hour ago










  • wondering how that guy is doing that's all. Just out of curiosity. I know it's a bit unusual and how the business is going.
    – GrandFleet
    1 hour ago











  • @GrandFleet so, you want to ask your former coworker this because it would give you some sense on how the industry is?
    – DarkCygnus
    1 hour ago











  • Jobs tend to be publicly posted in the US. You don't need to ask your former co-worker to get information about job openings. Why not just asking your coworker how his company is doing? What he thinks about the outlook of the industry?
    – jcmack
    1 hour ago








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"Do you have any grapes?" "Over in aisle 3" "Ok, thanks, I'll go buy some somewhere else".
– Dukeling
1 hour ago




"Do you have any grapes?" "Over in aisle 3" "Ok, thanks, I'll go buy some somewhere else".
– Dukeling
1 hour ago












Why would you do this? To get a general feeling of the state of the industry? Seems there are better ways to do that.
– Philip Kendall
1 hour ago




Why would you do this? To get a general feeling of the state of the industry? Seems there are better ways to do that.
– Philip Kendall
1 hour ago












wondering how that guy is doing that's all. Just out of curiosity. I know it's a bit unusual and how the business is going.
– GrandFleet
1 hour ago





wondering how that guy is doing that's all. Just out of curiosity. I know it's a bit unusual and how the business is going.
– GrandFleet
1 hour ago













@GrandFleet so, you want to ask your former coworker this because it would give you some sense on how the industry is?
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago





@GrandFleet so, you want to ask your former coworker this because it would give you some sense on how the industry is?
– DarkCygnus
1 hour ago













Jobs tend to be publicly posted in the US. You don't need to ask your former co-worker to get information about job openings. Why not just asking your coworker how his company is doing? What he thinks about the outlook of the industry?
– jcmack
1 hour ago





Jobs tend to be publicly posted in the US. You don't need to ask your former co-worker to get information about job openings. Why not just asking your coworker how his company is doing? What he thinks about the outlook of the industry?
– jcmack
1 hour ago











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If you are curious how they are doing, it is better if you ask it more clearly (that is, explicit). That way you dismiss any chances of it being misleading whatsoever: "Hello Joe, nice to chat with you again. How are you? How are things back at work? I take it you've progressed on the projects you mentioned last time."



Just plain asking him if they are hiring would not be much nice. Also have in mind that this person may not be able to disclose certain job-related things, and asking him this (or about that product you mentioned) could put him in a compromising situation.



If you want to get information on some particular industry, if they are hiring or not, it would be better if you consulted other means instead. There are several tools to find jobs; google news on the industry, look for physical and digital ads announcing jobs available, target companies you like and apply, etc.



That would be better than drawing conclusions on the whole industry based on a single person's statement.






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    It's insulting, if nothing else.



    You may have the best of intentions, but this is how it will come across:



    "Hi Joe, is your company hiring? I don't want to go there, because you guys stink like a week old fish, but I want to use your brain, I hope you don't mind."



    The best way is to be very clear while talking to him that you are not looking to go back.



    "Hi Joe, I'm thinking about getting back into the X industry, and I wonder if you could give me a few minutes some time and I'd like your input about the industry in general. Can we get together some time?"






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    • i never put it that way, I just asked if they were hiring, that's all.
      – GrandFleet
      1 hour ago










    • @GrandFleet That's how it would be interpreted, even if it's not how you'd put it.
      – Richard U
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    • I think the guy interpreted it as wanting to work there again. Did I mention I used to work there?
      – GrandFleet
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    I asked a former coworker if his current company had any intention of hiring




    Jobs tend to be publicly posted in the US. You don't need to ask your former co-worker to get information about job openings at the company. Furthermore, job openings aren't a great indicator of growth. The startup I worked at had a lot of turnover and we were always hiring.



    I recommend asking your former coworker to catch up with you, because you're interested in joining the same industry. You could then ask your coworker how his company is doing? What he thinks about the outlook of the industry? Etc. Talk to multiple people at different companies and to get a broad view. I usually recommend face-to-face conversation or at least a phone call.






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      If you are curious how they are doing, it is better if you ask it more clearly (that is, explicit). That way you dismiss any chances of it being misleading whatsoever: "Hello Joe, nice to chat with you again. How are you? How are things back at work? I take it you've progressed on the projects you mentioned last time."



      Just plain asking him if they are hiring would not be much nice. Also have in mind that this person may not be able to disclose certain job-related things, and asking him this (or about that product you mentioned) could put him in a compromising situation.



      If you want to get information on some particular industry, if they are hiring or not, it would be better if you consulted other means instead. There are several tools to find jobs; google news on the industry, look for physical and digital ads announcing jobs available, target companies you like and apply, etc.



      That would be better than drawing conclusions on the whole industry based on a single person's statement.






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        If you are curious how they are doing, it is better if you ask it more clearly (that is, explicit). That way you dismiss any chances of it being misleading whatsoever: "Hello Joe, nice to chat with you again. How are you? How are things back at work? I take it you've progressed on the projects you mentioned last time."



        Just plain asking him if they are hiring would not be much nice. Also have in mind that this person may not be able to disclose certain job-related things, and asking him this (or about that product you mentioned) could put him in a compromising situation.



        If you want to get information on some particular industry, if they are hiring or not, it would be better if you consulted other means instead. There are several tools to find jobs; google news on the industry, look for physical and digital ads announcing jobs available, target companies you like and apply, etc.



        That would be better than drawing conclusions on the whole industry based on a single person's statement.






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          If you are curious how they are doing, it is better if you ask it more clearly (that is, explicit). That way you dismiss any chances of it being misleading whatsoever: "Hello Joe, nice to chat with you again. How are you? How are things back at work? I take it you've progressed on the projects you mentioned last time."



          Just plain asking him if they are hiring would not be much nice. Also have in mind that this person may not be able to disclose certain job-related things, and asking him this (or about that product you mentioned) could put him in a compromising situation.



          If you want to get information on some particular industry, if they are hiring or not, it would be better if you consulted other means instead. There are several tools to find jobs; google news on the industry, look for physical and digital ads announcing jobs available, target companies you like and apply, etc.



          That would be better than drawing conclusions on the whole industry based on a single person's statement.






          share|improve this answer












          If you are curious how they are doing, it is better if you ask it more clearly (that is, explicit). That way you dismiss any chances of it being misleading whatsoever: "Hello Joe, nice to chat with you again. How are you? How are things back at work? I take it you've progressed on the projects you mentioned last time."



          Just plain asking him if they are hiring would not be much nice. Also have in mind that this person may not be able to disclose certain job-related things, and asking him this (or about that product you mentioned) could put him in a compromising situation.



          If you want to get information on some particular industry, if they are hiring or not, it would be better if you consulted other means instead. There are several tools to find jobs; google news on the industry, look for physical and digital ads announcing jobs available, target companies you like and apply, etc.



          That would be better than drawing conclusions on the whole industry based on a single person's statement.







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              It's insulting, if nothing else.



              You may have the best of intentions, but this is how it will come across:



              "Hi Joe, is your company hiring? I don't want to go there, because you guys stink like a week old fish, but I want to use your brain, I hope you don't mind."



              The best way is to be very clear while talking to him that you are not looking to go back.



              "Hi Joe, I'm thinking about getting back into the X industry, and I wonder if you could give me a few minutes some time and I'd like your input about the industry in general. Can we get together some time?"






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              • i never put it that way, I just asked if they were hiring, that's all.
                – GrandFleet
                1 hour ago










              • @GrandFleet That's how it would be interpreted, even if it's not how you'd put it.
                – Richard U
                1 hour ago











              • I think the guy interpreted it as wanting to work there again. Did I mention I used to work there?
                – GrandFleet
                1 hour ago















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              It's insulting, if nothing else.



              You may have the best of intentions, but this is how it will come across:



              "Hi Joe, is your company hiring? I don't want to go there, because you guys stink like a week old fish, but I want to use your brain, I hope you don't mind."



              The best way is to be very clear while talking to him that you are not looking to go back.



              "Hi Joe, I'm thinking about getting back into the X industry, and I wonder if you could give me a few minutes some time and I'd like your input about the industry in general. Can we get together some time?"






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              • i never put it that way, I just asked if they were hiring, that's all.
                – GrandFleet
                1 hour ago










              • @GrandFleet That's how it would be interpreted, even if it's not how you'd put it.
                – Richard U
                1 hour ago











              • I think the guy interpreted it as wanting to work there again. Did I mention I used to work there?
                – GrandFleet
                1 hour ago













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              It's insulting, if nothing else.



              You may have the best of intentions, but this is how it will come across:



              "Hi Joe, is your company hiring? I don't want to go there, because you guys stink like a week old fish, but I want to use your brain, I hope you don't mind."



              The best way is to be very clear while talking to him that you are not looking to go back.



              "Hi Joe, I'm thinking about getting back into the X industry, and I wonder if you could give me a few minutes some time and I'd like your input about the industry in general. Can we get together some time?"






              share|improve this answer














              It's insulting, if nothing else.



              You may have the best of intentions, but this is how it will come across:



              "Hi Joe, is your company hiring? I don't want to go there, because you guys stink like a week old fish, but I want to use your brain, I hope you don't mind."



              The best way is to be very clear while talking to him that you are not looking to go back.



              "Hi Joe, I'm thinking about getting back into the X industry, and I wonder if you could give me a few minutes some time and I'd like your input about the industry in general. Can we get together some time?"







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              • i never put it that way, I just asked if they were hiring, that's all.
                – GrandFleet
                1 hour ago










              • @GrandFleet That's how it would be interpreted, even if it's not how you'd put it.
                – Richard U
                1 hour ago











              • I think the guy interpreted it as wanting to work there again. Did I mention I used to work there?
                – GrandFleet
                1 hour ago

















              • i never put it that way, I just asked if they were hiring, that's all.
                – GrandFleet
                1 hour ago










              • @GrandFleet That's how it would be interpreted, even if it's not how you'd put it.
                – Richard U
                1 hour ago











              • I think the guy interpreted it as wanting to work there again. Did I mention I used to work there?
                – GrandFleet
                1 hour ago
















              i never put it that way, I just asked if they were hiring, that's all.
              – GrandFleet
              1 hour ago




              i never put it that way, I just asked if they were hiring, that's all.
              – GrandFleet
              1 hour ago












              @GrandFleet That's how it would be interpreted, even if it's not how you'd put it.
              – Richard U
              1 hour ago





              @GrandFleet That's how it would be interpreted, even if it's not how you'd put it.
              – Richard U
              1 hour ago













              I think the guy interpreted it as wanting to work there again. Did I mention I used to work there?
              – GrandFleet
              1 hour ago





              I think the guy interpreted it as wanting to work there again. Did I mention I used to work there?
              – GrandFleet
              1 hour ago











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              I asked a former coworker if his current company had any intention of hiring




              Jobs tend to be publicly posted in the US. You don't need to ask your former co-worker to get information about job openings at the company. Furthermore, job openings aren't a great indicator of growth. The startup I worked at had a lot of turnover and we were always hiring.



              I recommend asking your former coworker to catch up with you, because you're interested in joining the same industry. You could then ask your coworker how his company is doing? What he thinks about the outlook of the industry? Etc. Talk to multiple people at different companies and to get a broad view. I usually recommend face-to-face conversation or at least a phone call.






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                I asked a former coworker if his current company had any intention of hiring




                Jobs tend to be publicly posted in the US. You don't need to ask your former co-worker to get information about job openings at the company. Furthermore, job openings aren't a great indicator of growth. The startup I worked at had a lot of turnover and we were always hiring.



                I recommend asking your former coworker to catch up with you, because you're interested in joining the same industry. You could then ask your coworker how his company is doing? What he thinks about the outlook of the industry? Etc. Talk to multiple people at different companies and to get a broad view. I usually recommend face-to-face conversation or at least a phone call.






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                  I asked a former coworker if his current company had any intention of hiring




                  Jobs tend to be publicly posted in the US. You don't need to ask your former co-worker to get information about job openings at the company. Furthermore, job openings aren't a great indicator of growth. The startup I worked at had a lot of turnover and we were always hiring.



                  I recommend asking your former coworker to catch up with you, because you're interested in joining the same industry. You could then ask your coworker how his company is doing? What he thinks about the outlook of the industry? Etc. Talk to multiple people at different companies and to get a broad view. I usually recommend face-to-face conversation or at least a phone call.






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                  I asked a former coworker if his current company had any intention of hiring




                  Jobs tend to be publicly posted in the US. You don't need to ask your former co-worker to get information about job openings at the company. Furthermore, job openings aren't a great indicator of growth. The startup I worked at had a lot of turnover and we were always hiring.



                  I recommend asking your former coworker to catch up with you, because you're interested in joining the same industry. You could then ask your coworker how his company is doing? What he thinks about the outlook of the industry? Etc. Talk to multiple people at different companies and to get a broad view. I usually recommend face-to-face conversation or at least a phone call.







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