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I feel that my interpersonal skills could use some work. What methods or resources do you use to brush up on your interpersonal skills if you're not a natural social butterfly?
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I feel that my interpersonal skills could use some work. What methods or resources do you use to brush up on your interpersonal skills if you're not a natural social butterfly?
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closed as off-topic by gnat, Masked Man♦, paparazzo, MelBurslan, DJClayworth May 25 '16 at 15:09
This question appears to be off-topic. The users who voted to close gave this specific reason:
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With all due respect, I suspect that you overestimated your "finesse with dealing with people" that you supposedly had previously.
– Masked Man♦
May 25 '16 at 13:55
No offense, but this question is off topic for the site. You will find a number of useful resources for building your interpersonal skills online.
– Lumberjack
May 25 '16 at 14:23
allbusiness.com/slideshow/…
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I feel that my interpersonal skills could use some work. What methods or resources do you use to brush up on your interpersonal skills if you're not a natural social butterfly?
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I feel that my interpersonal skills could use some work. What methods or resources do you use to brush up on your interpersonal skills if you're not a natural social butterfly?
communication skills
asked May 25 '16 at 12:25
Peryhelion
262
edited May 25 '16 at 19:20
asked May 25 '16 at 12:25
Peryhelion
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asked May 25 '16 at 12:25
Peryhelion
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asked May 25 '16 at 12:25
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closed as off-topic by gnat, Masked Man♦, paparazzo, MelBurslan, DJClayworth May 25 '16 at 15:09
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- "Real questions have answers. Rather than explaining why your situation is terrible, or why your boss/coworker makes you unhappy, explain what you want to do to make it better. For more information, click here." – gnat, Masked Man, paparazzo, MelBurslan, DJClayworth
closed as off-topic by gnat, Masked Man♦, paparazzo, MelBurslan, DJClayworth May 25 '16 at 15:09
This question appears to be off-topic. The users who voted to close gave this specific reason:
- "Real questions have answers. Rather than explaining why your situation is terrible, or why your boss/coworker makes you unhappy, explain what you want to do to make it better. For more information, click here." – gnat, Masked Man, paparazzo, MelBurslan, DJClayworth
With all due respect, I suspect that you overestimated your "finesse with dealing with people" that you supposedly had previously.
– Masked Man♦
May 25 '16 at 13:55
No offense, but this question is off topic for the site. You will find a number of useful resources for building your interpersonal skills online.
– Lumberjack
May 25 '16 at 14:23
allbusiness.com/slideshow/…
– Lumberjack
May 25 '16 at 14:24
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With all due respect, I suspect that you overestimated your "finesse with dealing with people" that you supposedly had previously.
– Masked Man♦
May 25 '16 at 13:55
No offense, but this question is off topic for the site. You will find a number of useful resources for building your interpersonal skills online.
– Lumberjack
May 25 '16 at 14:23
allbusiness.com/slideshow/…
– Lumberjack
May 25 '16 at 14:24
With all due respect, I suspect that you overestimated your "finesse with dealing with people" that you supposedly had previously.
– Masked Man♦
May 25 '16 at 13:55
With all due respect, I suspect that you overestimated your "finesse with dealing with people" that you supposedly had previously.
– Masked Man♦
May 25 '16 at 13:55
No offense, but this question is off topic for the site. You will find a number of useful resources for building your interpersonal skills online.
– Lumberjack
May 25 '16 at 14:23
No offense, but this question is off topic for the site. You will find a number of useful resources for building your interpersonal skills online.
– Lumberjack
May 25 '16 at 14:23
allbusiness.com/slideshow/…
– Lumberjack
May 25 '16 at 14:24
allbusiness.com/slideshow/…
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May 25 '16 at 14:24
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I think you're looking at it the wrong way, if the job became toxic enough for you to quit, then your previous 'finesse' with dealing with people wasn't working too well. The workplace is a totally different environment from college, you need to acquire a different set of people skills particularly as youngster.
Mostly these are about keeping your head down and absorbing as much as you can. Dealing with arrogance and a lack of interest in your issues and lack of faith in your abilities is sometimes par for the course..
answered May 25 '16 at 13:53
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Not getting to far into detail, my last job was extended to me when oil was $100 a barrel and then a month after the price crashed. Every single person hired in my class (10 people) felt it was toxic enough to leave as not a single one of them is still in that role. I will admit that my 'finesse' previously probably wasn't that good, but I would like to know what resources or exercises people have found to be helpful in building up their soft skills. Googling listicles about 'interpersonal skills' don't help.
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I think you're looking at it the wrong way, if the job became toxic enough for you to quit, then your previous 'finesse' with dealing with people wasn't working too well. The workplace is a totally different environment from college, you need to acquire a different set of people skills particularly as youngster.
Mostly these are about keeping your head down and absorbing as much as you can. Dealing with arrogance and a lack of interest in your issues and lack of faith in your abilities is sometimes par for the course..
answered May 25 '16 at 13:53
Kilisi
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Not getting to far into detail, my last job was extended to me when oil was $100 a barrel and then a month after the price crashed. Every single person hired in my class (10 people) felt it was toxic enough to leave as not a single one of them is still in that role. I will admit that my 'finesse' previously probably wasn't that good, but I would like to know what resources or exercises people have found to be helpful in building up their soft skills. Googling listicles about 'interpersonal skills' don't help.
– Peryhelion
May 25 '16 at 19:15
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I think you're looking at it the wrong way, if the job became toxic enough for you to quit, then your previous 'finesse' with dealing with people wasn't working too well. The workplace is a totally different environment from college, you need to acquire a different set of people skills particularly as youngster.
Mostly these are about keeping your head down and absorbing as much as you can. Dealing with arrogance and a lack of interest in your issues and lack of faith in your abilities is sometimes par for the course..
answered May 25 '16 at 13:53
Kilisi
94.5k50216376
Not getting to far into detail, my last job was extended to me when oil was $100 a barrel and then a month after the price crashed. Every single person hired in my class (10 people) felt it was toxic enough to leave as not a single one of them is still in that role. I will admit that my 'finesse' previously probably wasn't that good, but I would like to know what resources or exercises people have found to be helpful in building up their soft skills. Googling listicles about 'interpersonal skills' don't help.
– Peryhelion
May 25 '16 at 19:15
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up vote
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I think you're looking at it the wrong way, if the job became toxic enough for you to quit, then your previous 'finesse' with dealing with people wasn't working too well. The workplace is a totally different environment from college, you need to acquire a different set of people skills particularly as youngster.
Mostly these are about keeping your head down and absorbing as much as you can. Dealing with arrogance and a lack of interest in your issues and lack of faith in your abilities is sometimes par for the course..
answered May 25 '16 at 13:53
Kilisi
94.5k50216376
I think you're looking at it the wrong way, if the job became toxic enough for you to quit, then your previous 'finesse' with dealing with people wasn't working too well. The workplace is a totally different environment from college, you need to acquire a different set of people skills particularly as youngster.
Mostly these are about keeping your head down and absorbing as much as you can. Dealing with arrogance and a lack of interest in your issues and lack of faith in your abilities is sometimes par for the course..
answered May 25 '16 at 13:53
Kilisi
94.5k50216376
answered May 25 '16 at 13:53
Kilisi
94.5k50216376
answered May 25 '16 at 13:53
Kilisi
94.5k50216376
answered May 25 '16 at 13:53
Kilisi
94.5k50216376
94.5k50216376
Not getting to far into detail, my last job was extended to me when oil was $100 a barrel and then a month after the price crashed. Every single person hired in my class (10 people) felt it was toxic enough to leave as not a single one of them is still in that role. I will admit that my 'finesse' previously probably wasn't that good, but I would like to know what resources or exercises people have found to be helpful in building up their soft skills. Googling listicles about 'interpersonal skills' don't help.
– Peryhelion
May 25 '16 at 19:15
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Not getting to far into detail, my last job was extended to me when oil was $100 a barrel and then a month after the price crashed. Every single person hired in my class (10 people) felt it was toxic enough to leave as not a single one of them is still in that role. I will admit that my 'finesse' previously probably wasn't that good, but I would like to know what resources or exercises people have found to be helpful in building up their soft skills. Googling listicles about 'interpersonal skills' don't help.
– Peryhelion
May 25 '16 at 19:15
Not getting to far into detail, my last job was extended to me when oil was $100 a barrel and then a month after the price crashed. Every single person hired in my class (10 people) felt it was toxic enough to leave as not a single one of them is still in that role. I will admit that my 'finesse' previously probably wasn't that good, but I would like to know what resources or exercises people have found to be helpful in building up their soft skills. Googling listicles about 'interpersonal skills' don't help.
– Peryhelion
May 25 '16 at 19:15
Not getting to far into detail, my last job was extended to me when oil was $100 a barrel and then a month after the price crashed. Every single person hired in my class (10 people) felt it was toxic enough to leave as not a single one of them is still in that role. I will admit that my 'finesse' previously probably wasn't that good, but I would like to know what resources or exercises people have found to be helpful in building up their soft skills. Googling listicles about 'interpersonal skills' don't help.
– Peryhelion
May 25 '16 at 19:15
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With all due respect, I suspect that you overestimated your "finesse with dealing with people" that you supposedly had previously.
– Masked Man♦
May 25 '16 at 13:55
No offense, but this question is off topic for the site. You will find a number of useful resources for building your interpersonal skills online.
– Lumberjack
May 25 '16 at 14:23
allbusiness.com/slideshow/…
– Lumberjack
May 25 '16 at 14:24