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Prefix for older people in English
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I am Thai genetically pure Chinese and grown up in Chinese communities with western educations. Now I am started to have western friends. Many of them are older than me or even my dad! I know them from Software Engineering events in Bangkok
In Asian culture I normally call older people with prefix.
Cases:
1. I call older people, but his age is younger than my dad
2. I call older people, and his age is older or equal to my dad
As is I normally wai them and add prefix Khun when I call his name. But I feel uncomfortable since Khun in Thai. It means he/she is the same age as mine.
Questions:
How to express my politeness with prefix to them?
Context is I see them at an event and I would like to say hello to them. And start talking.
prefixes
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I am Thai genetically pure Chinese and grown up in Chinese communities with western educations. Now I am started to have western friends. Many of them are older than me or even my dad! I know them from Software Engineering events in Bangkok
In Asian culture I normally call older people with prefix.
Cases:
1. I call older people, but his age is younger than my dad
2. I call older people, and his age is older or equal to my dad
As is I normally wai them and add prefix Khun when I call his name. But I feel uncomfortable since Khun in Thai. It means he/she is the same age as mine.
Questions:
How to express my politeness with prefix to them?
Context is I see them at an event and I would like to say hello to them. And start talking.
prefixes
edited Aug 14 at 9:10
J.R.♦
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asked Aug 13 at 18:57
Sarit
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We have nothing like those prefixes in English. Your friend "Bill" is just "Bill" whether he is older than you, younger than you, older than your dad, etc.
– stangdon
Aug 13 at 18:59
Could you add some examples that would use such "old person" word or phrase? Context is important for indicating what quality of the "older person" you are trying to describe, and whether you are talking about someone or to someone.
– user3169
Aug 13 at 19:18
Sometimes "Mr." (or "Ms.") can be used as a prefix to someone's first name when there is an age gap – but that's typically reserved for children. For example, when my son was under the age of ten, he referred to an elderly neighbor as "Mr. Gene." I'm leaving this only as a comment, though, because this isn't an applicable practice in the workplace, which is what your question is about.
– J.R.♦
Aug 13 at 20:58
@user3169 Context is I found them in the event and I would like to say hello to them. And start talking.
– Sarit
Aug 14 at 4:50
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I am Thai genetically pure Chinese and grown up in Chinese communities with western educations. Now I am started to have western friends. Many of them are older than me or even my dad! I know them from Software Engineering events in Bangkok
In Asian culture I normally call older people with prefix.
Cases:
1. I call older people, but his age is younger than my dad
2. I call older people, and his age is older or equal to my dad
As is I normally wai them and add prefix Khun when I call his name. But I feel uncomfortable since Khun in Thai. It means he/she is the same age as mine.
Questions:
How to express my politeness with prefix to them?
Context is I see them at an event and I would like to say hello to them. And start talking.
prefixes
edited Aug 14 at 9:10
J.R.♦
94.5k7121236
asked Aug 13 at 18:57
Sarit
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I am Thai genetically pure Chinese and grown up in Chinese communities with western educations. Now I am started to have western friends. Many of them are older than me or even my dad! I know them from Software Engineering events in Bangkok
In Asian culture I normally call older people with prefix.
Cases:
1. I call older people, but his age is younger than my dad
2. I call older people, and his age is older or equal to my dad
As is I normally wai them and add prefix Khun when I call his name. But I feel uncomfortable since Khun in Thai. It means he/she is the same age as mine.
Questions:
How to express my politeness with prefix to them?
Context is I see them at an event and I would like to say hello to them. And start talking.
prefixes
edited Aug 14 at 9:10
J.R.♦
94.5k7121236
asked Aug 13 at 18:57
Sarit
1135
edited Aug 14 at 9:10
J.R.♦
94.5k7121236
edited Aug 14 at 9:10
J.R.♦
94.5k7121236
edited Aug 14 at 9:10
J.R.♦
94.5k7121236
94.5k7121236
asked Aug 13 at 18:57
Sarit
1135
asked Aug 13 at 18:57
Sarit
1135
asked Aug 13 at 18:57
Sarit
1135
1135
2
We have nothing like those prefixes in English. Your friend "Bill" is just "Bill" whether he is older than you, younger than you, older than your dad, etc.
– stangdon
Aug 13 at 18:59
Could you add some examples that would use such "old person" word or phrase? Context is important for indicating what quality of the "older person" you are trying to describe, and whether you are talking about someone or to someone.
– user3169
Aug 13 at 19:18
Sometimes "Mr." (or "Ms.") can be used as a prefix to someone's first name when there is an age gap – but that's typically reserved for children. For example, when my son was under the age of ten, he referred to an elderly neighbor as "Mr. Gene." I'm leaving this only as a comment, though, because this isn't an applicable practice in the workplace, which is what your question is about.
– J.R.♦
Aug 13 at 20:58
@user3169 Context is I found them in the event and I would like to say hello to them. And start talking.
– Sarit
Aug 14 at 4:50
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We have nothing like those prefixes in English. Your friend "Bill" is just "Bill" whether he is older than you, younger than you, older than your dad, etc.
– stangdon
Aug 13 at 18:59
Could you add some examples that would use such "old person" word or phrase? Context is important for indicating what quality of the "older person" you are trying to describe, and whether you are talking about someone or to someone.
– user3169
Aug 13 at 19:18
Sometimes "Mr." (or "Ms.") can be used as a prefix to someone's first name when there is an age gap – but that's typically reserved for children. For example, when my son was under the age of ten, he referred to an elderly neighbor as "Mr. Gene." I'm leaving this only as a comment, though, because this isn't an applicable practice in the workplace, which is what your question is about.
– J.R.♦
Aug 13 at 20:58
@user3169 Context is I found them in the event and I would like to say hello to them. And start talking.
– Sarit
Aug 14 at 4:50
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2
We have nothing like those prefixes in English. Your friend "Bill" is just "Bill" whether he is older than you, younger than you, older than your dad, etc.
– stangdon
Aug 13 at 18:59
We have nothing like those prefixes in English. Your friend "Bill" is just "Bill" whether he is older than you, younger than you, older than your dad, etc.
– stangdon
Aug 13 at 18:59
Could you add some examples that would use such "old person" word or phrase? Context is important for indicating what quality of the "older person" you are trying to describe, and whether you are talking about someone or to someone.
– user3169
Aug 13 at 19:18
Could you add some examples that would use such "old person" word or phrase? Context is important for indicating what quality of the "older person" you are trying to describe, and whether you are talking about someone or to someone.
– user3169
Aug 13 at 19:18
Sometimes "Mr." (or "Ms.") can be used as a prefix to someone's first name when there is an age gap – but that's typically reserved for children. For example, when my son was under the age of ten, he referred to an elderly neighbor as "Mr. Gene." I'm leaving this only as a comment, though, because this isn't an applicable practice in the workplace, which is what your question is about.
– J.R.♦
Aug 13 at 20:58
Sometimes "Mr." (or "Ms.") can be used as a prefix to someone's first name when there is an age gap – but that's typically reserved for children. For example, when my son was under the age of ten, he referred to an elderly neighbor as "Mr. Gene." I'm leaving this only as a comment, though, because this isn't an applicable practice in the workplace, which is what your question is about.
– J.R.♦
Aug 13 at 20:58
@user3169 Context is I found them in the event and I would like to say hello to them. And start talking.
– Sarit
Aug 14 at 4:50
@user3169 Context is I found them in the event and I would like to say hello to them. And start talking.
– Sarit
Aug 14 at 4:50
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You don't.
English politeness is complex and hard to learn. However we don't use suffixes for names. We rarely use the "Mr" or "Mrs" prefixes, except in formal, written use.
So If I know an older person and his name is Robert Smith, I call him "Robert". If I know him better I might know his nickname, in which case I call him "Bob" when talking to him or with joint friends
In some formal situations, I might use "Robert Smith", or even "Mr Smith". But never "Mr Robert".
Age doesn't come into it. I would expect Robert to use my name exactly as I use his.
If you are speaking Thai, then do whatever is expected in Thai, if that is "Robert-wai" or "Robert-khun" that is what you say. I can't speak Thai.
answered Aug 13 at 19:20
James K
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Many older members of Western societies would find it very impolite for people to draw attention to their age. I am 66 and I would certainly be annoyed by people calling me, in effect, "Old Man".
– Michael Harvey
Aug 13 at 19:56
"We don't use suffixes for names." The question is about a prefix to a name, not a suffix.
– Weather Vane
Aug 13 at 20:36
@WeatherVane it's obviously a typo. Feel free to edit the answer yourself instead of commenting.
– ell
Aug 13 at 20:55
@ell I posted my own answer, so I would not edit another answer. Did you mean "edit the question?" I don't know Thai. Where exactly is the typo? This answer's "Robert-wai" looks like a suffix to me, and "Mr Robert is a prefix. Feel free to post your own answer.
– Weather Vane
Aug 13 at 21:25
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There are a few cases where Mr Robert and like forms would be used, however, usually in situations where the speaker must balance familiarity and cordiality against a high level of social distance. Nowadays, Mr X is probably limited to children in the American South; however, growing up in California, we did regularly refer to the school chaplains as, e.g. Father Patty instead of Father Murphy in this vein. I have likewise heard clerical staff in medical practices address the doctors in this way, i.e. Doctor Joe.
– choster
Aug 14 at 1:25
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Titles such as "Doctor Bob" or "Sergeant Ben" are typically earned through achievements or qualifications, and are only really used in the context of the profession to which they apply. You wouldn't expect to meet a medical practitioner on holiday and have to call him/her "Doctor X"; you would just call them "X".
Prefixes such as "Sir" or "Lord" are reserved for people who have been granted those titles, and are used more frequently than titles such as "Doctor" or "Nurse" as a mark of respect. This isn't essential, however in a formal situation it would be expected (such as in a formal interview or in a letter).
"Mr", "Mrs", "Miss", etc. are normally reserved either for formal occasions such as in en email or if you do not know a person very well - if I didn't know Fred White very well, I would likely refer to him as Mr White in an email and maybe in person. You also refer to teachers by "Mr/Mrs/Miss surname" at school, though this doesn't always carry through to university. It is a mark of respect to someone you do not know very well, and a way to make conversation more impersonal.
On the whole though, prefixes and suffixes are rarely used in English. There are no real prefixes or suffixes used to denote age which cannot be misconstrued as insulting (see "Baby James" or "Old Man Bob"). This applies to social hierarchy too, though you might refer to your superior at work as "Boss" in the right scenario (such as as a nickname or if they request it of you).
Titles are typically earned in most English-speaking places. You don't usually just get a prefix or suffix for being old or rich; you get a title based on your achievements (or in rare cases, the achievements of your relatives such as "Prince Harry" or "First Lady").
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You don't.
English politeness is complex and hard to learn. However we don't use suffixes for names. We rarely use the "Mr" or "Mrs" prefixes, except in formal, written use.
So If I know an older person and his name is Robert Smith, I call him "Robert". If I know him better I might know his nickname, in which case I call him "Bob" when talking to him or with joint friends
In some formal situations, I might use "Robert Smith", or even "Mr Smith". But never "Mr Robert".
Age doesn't come into it. I would expect Robert to use my name exactly as I use his.
If you are speaking Thai, then do whatever is expected in Thai, if that is "Robert-wai" or "Robert-khun" that is what you say. I can't speak Thai.
answered Aug 13 at 19:20
James K
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Many older members of Western societies would find it very impolite for people to draw attention to their age. I am 66 and I would certainly be annoyed by people calling me, in effect, "Old Man".
– Michael Harvey
Aug 13 at 19:56
"We don't use suffixes for names." The question is about a prefix to a name, not a suffix.
– Weather Vane
Aug 13 at 20:36
@WeatherVane it's obviously a typo. Feel free to edit the answer yourself instead of commenting.
– ell
Aug 13 at 20:55
@ell I posted my own answer, so I would not edit another answer. Did you mean "edit the question?" I don't know Thai. Where exactly is the typo? This answer's "Robert-wai" looks like a suffix to me, and "Mr Robert is a prefix. Feel free to post your own answer.
– Weather Vane
Aug 13 at 21:25
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There are a few cases where Mr Robert and like forms would be used, however, usually in situations where the speaker must balance familiarity and cordiality against a high level of social distance. Nowadays, Mr X is probably limited to children in the American South; however, growing up in California, we did regularly refer to the school chaplains as, e.g. Father Patty instead of Father Murphy in this vein. I have likewise heard clerical staff in medical practices address the doctors in this way, i.e. Doctor Joe.
– choster
Aug 14 at 1:25
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up vote
10
down vote
accepted
You don't.
English politeness is complex and hard to learn. However we don't use suffixes for names. We rarely use the "Mr" or "Mrs" prefixes, except in formal, written use.
So If I know an older person and his name is Robert Smith, I call him "Robert". If I know him better I might know his nickname, in which case I call him "Bob" when talking to him or with joint friends
In some formal situations, I might use "Robert Smith", or even "Mr Smith". But never "Mr Robert".
Age doesn't come into it. I would expect Robert to use my name exactly as I use his.
If you are speaking Thai, then do whatever is expected in Thai, if that is "Robert-wai" or "Robert-khun" that is what you say. I can't speak Thai.
answered Aug 13 at 19:20
James K
28.7k13480
2
Many older members of Western societies would find it very impolite for people to draw attention to their age. I am 66 and I would certainly be annoyed by people calling me, in effect, "Old Man".
– Michael Harvey
Aug 13 at 19:56
"We don't use suffixes for names." The question is about a prefix to a name, not a suffix.
– Weather Vane
Aug 13 at 20:36
@WeatherVane it's obviously a typo. Feel free to edit the answer yourself instead of commenting.
– ell
Aug 13 at 20:55
@ell I posted my own answer, so I would not edit another answer. Did you mean "edit the question?" I don't know Thai. Where exactly is the typo? This answer's "Robert-wai" looks like a suffix to me, and "Mr Robert is a prefix. Feel free to post your own answer.
– Weather Vane
Aug 13 at 21:25
1
There are a few cases where Mr Robert and like forms would be used, however, usually in situations where the speaker must balance familiarity and cordiality against a high level of social distance. Nowadays, Mr X is probably limited to children in the American South; however, growing up in California, we did regularly refer to the school chaplains as, e.g. Father Patty instead of Father Murphy in this vein. I have likewise heard clerical staff in medical practices address the doctors in this way, i.e. Doctor Joe.
– choster
Aug 14 at 1:25
 |Â
show 3 more comments
up vote
10
down vote
accepted
up vote
10
down vote
accepted
You don't.
English politeness is complex and hard to learn. However we don't use suffixes for names. We rarely use the "Mr" or "Mrs" prefixes, except in formal, written use.
So If I know an older person and his name is Robert Smith, I call him "Robert". If I know him better I might know his nickname, in which case I call him "Bob" when talking to him or with joint friends
In some formal situations, I might use "Robert Smith", or even "Mr Smith". But never "Mr Robert".
Age doesn't come into it. I would expect Robert to use my name exactly as I use his.
If you are speaking Thai, then do whatever is expected in Thai, if that is "Robert-wai" or "Robert-khun" that is what you say. I can't speak Thai.
answered Aug 13 at 19:20
James K
28.7k13480
You don't.
English politeness is complex and hard to learn. However we don't use suffixes for names. We rarely use the "Mr" or "Mrs" prefixes, except in formal, written use.
So If I know an older person and his name is Robert Smith, I call him "Robert". If I know him better I might know his nickname, in which case I call him "Bob" when talking to him or with joint friends
In some formal situations, I might use "Robert Smith", or even "Mr Smith". But never "Mr Robert".
Age doesn't come into it. I would expect Robert to use my name exactly as I use his.
If you are speaking Thai, then do whatever is expected in Thai, if that is "Robert-wai" or "Robert-khun" that is what you say. I can't speak Thai.
answered Aug 13 at 19:20
James K
28.7k13480
edited Aug 14 at 8:03
answered Aug 13 at 19:20
James K
28.7k13480
answered Aug 13 at 19:20
James K
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answered Aug 13 at 19:20
James K
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Many older members of Western societies would find it very impolite for people to draw attention to their age. I am 66 and I would certainly be annoyed by people calling me, in effect, "Old Man".
– Michael Harvey
Aug 13 at 19:56
"We don't use suffixes for names." The question is about a prefix to a name, not a suffix.
– Weather Vane
Aug 13 at 20:36
@WeatherVane it's obviously a typo. Feel free to edit the answer yourself instead of commenting.
– ell
Aug 13 at 20:55
@ell I posted my own answer, so I would not edit another answer. Did you mean "edit the question?" I don't know Thai. Where exactly is the typo? This answer's "Robert-wai" looks like a suffix to me, and "Mr Robert is a prefix. Feel free to post your own answer.
– Weather Vane
Aug 13 at 21:25
1
There are a few cases where Mr Robert and like forms would be used, however, usually in situations where the speaker must balance familiarity and cordiality against a high level of social distance. Nowadays, Mr X is probably limited to children in the American South; however, growing up in California, we did regularly refer to the school chaplains as, e.g. Father Patty instead of Father Murphy in this vein. I have likewise heard clerical staff in medical practices address the doctors in this way, i.e. Doctor Joe.
– choster
Aug 14 at 1:25
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Many older members of Western societies would find it very impolite for people to draw attention to their age. I am 66 and I would certainly be annoyed by people calling me, in effect, "Old Man".
– Michael Harvey
Aug 13 at 19:56
"We don't use suffixes for names." The question is about a prefix to a name, not a suffix.
– Weather Vane
Aug 13 at 20:36
@WeatherVane it's obviously a typo. Feel free to edit the answer yourself instead of commenting.
– ell
Aug 13 at 20:55
@ell I posted my own answer, so I would not edit another answer. Did you mean "edit the question?" I don't know Thai. Where exactly is the typo? This answer's "Robert-wai" looks like a suffix to me, and "Mr Robert is a prefix. Feel free to post your own answer.
– Weather Vane
Aug 13 at 21:25
1
There are a few cases where Mr Robert and like forms would be used, however, usually in situations where the speaker must balance familiarity and cordiality against a high level of social distance. Nowadays, Mr X is probably limited to children in the American South; however, growing up in California, we did regularly refer to the school chaplains as, e.g. Father Patty instead of Father Murphy in this vein. I have likewise heard clerical staff in medical practices address the doctors in this way, i.e. Doctor Joe.
– choster
Aug 14 at 1:25
2
2
Many older members of Western societies would find it very impolite for people to draw attention to their age. I am 66 and I would certainly be annoyed by people calling me, in effect, "Old Man".
– Michael Harvey
Aug 13 at 19:56
Many older members of Western societies would find it very impolite for people to draw attention to their age. I am 66 and I would certainly be annoyed by people calling me, in effect, "Old Man".
– Michael Harvey
Aug 13 at 19:56
"We don't use suffixes for names." The question is about a prefix to a name, not a suffix.
– Weather Vane
Aug 13 at 20:36
"We don't use suffixes for names." The question is about a prefix to a name, not a suffix.
– Weather Vane
Aug 13 at 20:36
@WeatherVane it's obviously a typo. Feel free to edit the answer yourself instead of commenting.
– ell
Aug 13 at 20:55
@WeatherVane it's obviously a typo. Feel free to edit the answer yourself instead of commenting.
– ell
Aug 13 at 20:55
@ell I posted my own answer, so I would not edit another answer. Did you mean "edit the question?" I don't know Thai. Where exactly is the typo? This answer's "Robert-wai" looks like a suffix to me, and "Mr Robert is a prefix. Feel free to post your own answer.
– Weather Vane
Aug 13 at 21:25
@ell I posted my own answer, so I would not edit another answer. Did you mean "edit the question?" I don't know Thai. Where exactly is the typo? This answer's "Robert-wai" looks like a suffix to me, and "Mr Robert is a prefix. Feel free to post your own answer.
– Weather Vane
Aug 13 at 21:25
1
1
There are a few cases where Mr Robert and like forms would be used, however, usually in situations where the speaker must balance familiarity and cordiality against a high level of social distance. Nowadays, Mr X is probably limited to children in the American South; however, growing up in California, we did regularly refer to the school chaplains as, e.g. Father Patty instead of Father Murphy in this vein. I have likewise heard clerical staff in medical practices address the doctors in this way, i.e. Doctor Joe.
– choster
Aug 14 at 1:25
There are a few cases where Mr Robert and like forms would be used, however, usually in situations where the speaker must balance familiarity and cordiality against a high level of social distance. Nowadays, Mr X is probably limited to children in the American South; however, growing up in California, we did regularly refer to the school chaplains as, e.g. Father Patty instead of Father Murphy in this vein. I have likewise heard clerical staff in medical practices address the doctors in this way, i.e. Doctor Joe.
– choster
Aug 14 at 1:25
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Titles such as "Doctor Bob" or "Sergeant Ben" are typically earned through achievements or qualifications, and are only really used in the context of the profession to which they apply. You wouldn't expect to meet a medical practitioner on holiday and have to call him/her "Doctor X"; you would just call them "X".
Prefixes such as "Sir" or "Lord" are reserved for people who have been granted those titles, and are used more frequently than titles such as "Doctor" or "Nurse" as a mark of respect. This isn't essential, however in a formal situation it would be expected (such as in a formal interview or in a letter).
"Mr", "Mrs", "Miss", etc. are normally reserved either for formal occasions such as in en email or if you do not know a person very well - if I didn't know Fred White very well, I would likely refer to him as Mr White in an email and maybe in person. You also refer to teachers by "Mr/Mrs/Miss surname" at school, though this doesn't always carry through to university. It is a mark of respect to someone you do not know very well, and a way to make conversation more impersonal.
On the whole though, prefixes and suffixes are rarely used in English. There are no real prefixes or suffixes used to denote age which cannot be misconstrued as insulting (see "Baby James" or "Old Man Bob"). This applies to social hierarchy too, though you might refer to your superior at work as "Boss" in the right scenario (such as as a nickname or if they request it of you).
Titles are typically earned in most English-speaking places. You don't usually just get a prefix or suffix for being old or rich; you get a title based on your achievements (or in rare cases, the achievements of your relatives such as "Prince Harry" or "First Lady").
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Titles such as "Doctor Bob" or "Sergeant Ben" are typically earned through achievements or qualifications, and are only really used in the context of the profession to which they apply. You wouldn't expect to meet a medical practitioner on holiday and have to call him/her "Doctor X"; you would just call them "X".
Prefixes such as "Sir" or "Lord" are reserved for people who have been granted those titles, and are used more frequently than titles such as "Doctor" or "Nurse" as a mark of respect. This isn't essential, however in a formal situation it would be expected (such as in a formal interview or in a letter).
"Mr", "Mrs", "Miss", etc. are normally reserved either for formal occasions such as in en email or if you do not know a person very well - if I didn't know Fred White very well, I would likely refer to him as Mr White in an email and maybe in person. You also refer to teachers by "Mr/Mrs/Miss surname" at school, though this doesn't always carry through to university. It is a mark of respect to someone you do not know very well, and a way to make conversation more impersonal.
On the whole though, prefixes and suffixes are rarely used in English. There are no real prefixes or suffixes used to denote age which cannot be misconstrued as insulting (see "Baby James" or "Old Man Bob"). This applies to social hierarchy too, though you might refer to your superior at work as "Boss" in the right scenario (such as as a nickname or if they request it of you).
Titles are typically earned in most English-speaking places. You don't usually just get a prefix or suffix for being old or rich; you get a title based on your achievements (or in rare cases, the achievements of your relatives such as "Prince Harry" or "First Lady").
answered Aug 14 at 10:36
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up vote
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Titles such as "Doctor Bob" or "Sergeant Ben" are typically earned through achievements or qualifications, and are only really used in the context of the profession to which they apply. You wouldn't expect to meet a medical practitioner on holiday and have to call him/her "Doctor X"; you would just call them "X".
Prefixes such as "Sir" or "Lord" are reserved for people who have been granted those titles, and are used more frequently than titles such as "Doctor" or "Nurse" as a mark of respect. This isn't essential, however in a formal situation it would be expected (such as in a formal interview or in a letter).
"Mr", "Mrs", "Miss", etc. are normally reserved either for formal occasions such as in en email or if you do not know a person very well - if I didn't know Fred White very well, I would likely refer to him as Mr White in an email and maybe in person. You also refer to teachers by "Mr/Mrs/Miss surname" at school, though this doesn't always carry through to university. It is a mark of respect to someone you do not know very well, and a way to make conversation more impersonal.
On the whole though, prefixes and suffixes are rarely used in English. There are no real prefixes or suffixes used to denote age which cannot be misconstrued as insulting (see "Baby James" or "Old Man Bob"). This applies to social hierarchy too, though you might refer to your superior at work as "Boss" in the right scenario (such as as a nickname or if they request it of you).
Titles are typically earned in most English-speaking places. You don't usually just get a prefix or suffix for being old or rich; you get a title based on your achievements (or in rare cases, the achievements of your relatives such as "Prince Harry" or "First Lady").
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James Whiteley
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Titles such as "Doctor Bob" or "Sergeant Ben" are typically earned through achievements or qualifications, and are only really used in the context of the profession to which they apply. You wouldn't expect to meet a medical practitioner on holiday and have to call him/her "Doctor X"; you would just call them "X".
Prefixes such as "Sir" or "Lord" are reserved for people who have been granted those titles, and are used more frequently than titles such as "Doctor" or "Nurse" as a mark of respect. This isn't essential, however in a formal situation it would be expected (such as in a formal interview or in a letter).
"Mr", "Mrs", "Miss", etc. are normally reserved either for formal occasions such as in en email or if you do not know a person very well - if I didn't know Fred White very well, I would likely refer to him as Mr White in an email and maybe in person. You also refer to teachers by "Mr/Mrs/Miss surname" at school, though this doesn't always carry through to university. It is a mark of respect to someone you do not know very well, and a way to make conversation more impersonal.
On the whole though, prefixes and suffixes are rarely used in English. There are no real prefixes or suffixes used to denote age which cannot be misconstrued as insulting (see "Baby James" or "Old Man Bob"). This applies to social hierarchy too, though you might refer to your superior at work as "Boss" in the right scenario (such as as a nickname or if they request it of you).
Titles are typically earned in most English-speaking places. You don't usually just get a prefix or suffix for being old or rich; you get a title based on your achievements (or in rare cases, the achievements of your relatives such as "Prince Harry" or "First Lady").
answered Aug 14 at 10:36
James Whiteley
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answered Aug 14 at 10:36
James Whiteley
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answered Aug 14 at 10:36
James Whiteley
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answered Aug 14 at 10:36
James Whiteley
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We have nothing like those prefixes in English. Your friend "Bill" is just "Bill" whether he is older than you, younger than you, older than your dad, etc.
– stangdon
Aug 13 at 18:59
Could you add some examples that would use such "old person" word or phrase? Context is important for indicating what quality of the "older person" you are trying to describe, and whether you are talking about someone or to someone.
– user3169
Aug 13 at 19:18
Sometimes "Mr." (or "Ms.") can be used as a prefix to someone's first name when there is an age gap – but that's typically reserved for children. For example, when my son was under the age of ten, he referred to an elderly neighbor as "Mr. Gene." I'm leaving this only as a comment, though, because this isn't an applicable practice in the workplace, which is what your question is about.
– J.R.♦
Aug 13 at 20:58
@user3169 Context is I found them in the event and I would like to say hello to them. And start talking.
– Sarit
Aug 14 at 4:50