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I just got a new job in a different city in a state with at-will employment at a very small company.
My first day at work, a colleague who is close to my boss messages me suggesting a sublet/room that only lasts for two months. I was looking for places for the long run.



Is it possible that is an indirect signal from my boss that I could get fired if my performance is not to their liking? Or am I reading into this too much?







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closed as off-topic by Jim G., gnat, Chris E, Rory Alsop, Lilienthal♦ Jun 28 '16 at 9:45


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  • Or you could reply "How do you mean? What's the advantage?"
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    In a city you don't know, a short let is a great ideal as it gives to time to get to know the city before committing.
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I just got a new job in a different city in a state with at-will employment at a very small company.
My first day at work, a colleague who is close to my boss messages me suggesting a sublet/room that only lasts for two months. I was looking for places for the long run.



Is it possible that is an indirect signal from my boss that I could get fired if my performance is not to their liking? Or am I reading into this too much?







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closed as off-topic by Jim G., gnat, Chris E, Rory Alsop, Lilienthal♦ Jun 28 '16 at 9:45


This question appears to be off-topic. The users who voted to close gave this specific reason:


  • "Questions seeking advice on company-specific regulations, agreements, or policies should be directed to your manager or HR department. Questions that address only a specific company or position are of limited use to future visitors. Questions seeking legal advice should be directed to legal professionals. For more information, click here." – Jim G., gnat, Chris E, Rory Alsop, Lilienthal
If this question can be reworded to fit the rules in the help center, please edit the question.












  • Or you could reply "How do you mean? What's the advantage?"
    – Stephan Bijzitter
    Jun 28 '16 at 9:15






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    In a city you don't know, a short let is a great ideal as it gives to time to get to know the city before committing.
    – Ian
    Jun 28 '16 at 9:26












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up vote
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I just got a new job in a different city in a state with at-will employment at a very small company.
My first day at work, a colleague who is close to my boss messages me suggesting a sublet/room that only lasts for two months. I was looking for places for the long run.



Is it possible that is an indirect signal from my boss that I could get fired if my performance is not to their liking? Or am I reading into this too much?







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I just got a new job in a different city in a state with at-will employment at a very small company.
My first day at work, a colleague who is close to my boss messages me suggesting a sublet/room that only lasts for two months. I was looking for places for the long run.



Is it possible that is an indirect signal from my boss that I could get fired if my performance is not to their liking? Or am I reading into this too much?









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closed as off-topic by Jim G., gnat, Chris E, Rory Alsop, Lilienthal♦ Jun 28 '16 at 9:45


This question appears to be off-topic. The users who voted to close gave this specific reason:


  • "Questions seeking advice on company-specific regulations, agreements, or policies should be directed to your manager or HR department. Questions that address only a specific company or position are of limited use to future visitors. Questions seeking legal advice should be directed to legal professionals. For more information, click here." – Jim G., gnat, Chris E, Rory Alsop, Lilienthal
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closed as off-topic by Jim G., gnat, Chris E, Rory Alsop, Lilienthal♦ Jun 28 '16 at 9:45


This question appears to be off-topic. The users who voted to close gave this specific reason:


  • "Questions seeking advice on company-specific regulations, agreements, or policies should be directed to your manager or HR department. Questions that address only a specific company or position are of limited use to future visitors. Questions seeking legal advice should be directed to legal professionals. For more information, click here." – Jim G., gnat, Chris E, Rory Alsop, Lilienthal
If this question can be reworded to fit the rules in the help center, please edit the question.











  • Or you could reply "How do you mean? What's the advantage?"
    – Stephan Bijzitter
    Jun 28 '16 at 9:15






  • 1




    In a city you don't know, a short let is a great ideal as it gives to time to get to know the city before committing.
    – Ian
    Jun 28 '16 at 9:26
















  • Or you could reply "How do you mean? What's the advantage?"
    – Stephan Bijzitter
    Jun 28 '16 at 9:15






  • 1




    In a city you don't know, a short let is a great ideal as it gives to time to get to know the city before committing.
    – Ian
    Jun 28 '16 at 9:26















Or you could reply "How do you mean? What's the advantage?"
– Stephan Bijzitter
Jun 28 '16 at 9:15




Or you could reply "How do you mean? What's the advantage?"
– Stephan Bijzitter
Jun 28 '16 at 9:15




1




1




In a city you don't know, a short let is a great ideal as it gives to time to get to know the city before committing.
– Ian
Jun 28 '16 at 9:26




In a city you don't know, a short let is a great ideal as it gives to time to get to know the city before committing.
– Ian
Jun 28 '16 at 9:26










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This is just a guess, but I think you're reading way too much into this.



A two month sublet might be an excellent place to stay while you look for your real home.



Finding the best house/apartment/condo/whatever is not something done over night.






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    If anything I think that is a good sign. People don't try to help out people or get involved in their living arrangement if they don't like the person or think the person would get fired.



    It is very natural to scope an area out for a month or two before signing a long-term lease or buying something. It sounds to me like boss's friend is hooking you up. You can read more into it but that is how I would read it.






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    • I'd take it as a good sign as well.
      – Kilisi
      Jun 28 '16 at 0:35

















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    I think your reading to much into it.



    Buying a house takes months, maybe years, depending on "things".



    Finding a good apartment to rent can take even longer. I was waiting 3 years to get into my dream apartment.



    A short lease is a good first step. You don't want to be tied to a 12 month lease when your dream house comes on market.



    Most apartments in this area will not even rent to you unless you have been at your current job for several months, and have good history. If you have a bad history or are new in the area, then your not going to get a good apartment.



    I would see this as someone trying to help out, and nothing more.






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      This is just a guess, but I think you're reading way too much into this.



      A two month sublet might be an excellent place to stay while you look for your real home.



      Finding the best house/apartment/condo/whatever is not something done over night.






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        up vote
        24
        down vote



        accepted










        This is just a guess, but I think you're reading way too much into this.



        A two month sublet might be an excellent place to stay while you look for your real home.



        Finding the best house/apartment/condo/whatever is not something done over night.






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          up vote
          24
          down vote



          accepted







          up vote
          24
          down vote



          accepted






          This is just a guess, but I think you're reading way too much into this.



          A two month sublet might be an excellent place to stay while you look for your real home.



          Finding the best house/apartment/condo/whatever is not something done over night.






          share|improve this answer













          This is just a guess, but I think you're reading way too much into this.



          A two month sublet might be an excellent place to stay while you look for your real home.



          Finding the best house/apartment/condo/whatever is not something done over night.







          share|improve this answer













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          answered Jun 27 '16 at 20:58









          Dan Pichelman

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              If anything I think that is a good sign. People don't try to help out people or get involved in their living arrangement if they don't like the person or think the person would get fired.



              It is very natural to scope an area out for a month or two before signing a long-term lease or buying something. It sounds to me like boss's friend is hooking you up. You can read more into it but that is how I would read it.






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              • I'd take it as a good sign as well.
                – Kilisi
                Jun 28 '16 at 0:35














              up vote
              14
              down vote













              If anything I think that is a good sign. People don't try to help out people or get involved in their living arrangement if they don't like the person or think the person would get fired.



              It is very natural to scope an area out for a month or two before signing a long-term lease or buying something. It sounds to me like boss's friend is hooking you up. You can read more into it but that is how I would read it.






              share|improve this answer





















              • I'd take it as a good sign as well.
                – Kilisi
                Jun 28 '16 at 0:35












              up vote
              14
              down vote










              up vote
              14
              down vote









              If anything I think that is a good sign. People don't try to help out people or get involved in their living arrangement if they don't like the person or think the person would get fired.



              It is very natural to scope an area out for a month or two before signing a long-term lease or buying something. It sounds to me like boss's friend is hooking you up. You can read more into it but that is how I would read it.






              share|improve this answer













              If anything I think that is a good sign. People don't try to help out people or get involved in their living arrangement if they don't like the person or think the person would get fired.



              It is very natural to scope an area out for a month or two before signing a long-term lease or buying something. It sounds to me like boss's friend is hooking you up. You can read more into it but that is how I would read it.







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              answered Jun 27 '16 at 21:12









              blankip

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              • I'd take it as a good sign as well.
                – Kilisi
                Jun 28 '16 at 0:35
















              • I'd take it as a good sign as well.
                – Kilisi
                Jun 28 '16 at 0:35















              I'd take it as a good sign as well.
              – Kilisi
              Jun 28 '16 at 0:35




              I'd take it as a good sign as well.
              – Kilisi
              Jun 28 '16 at 0:35










              up vote
              4
              down vote













              I think your reading to much into it.



              Buying a house takes months, maybe years, depending on "things".



              Finding a good apartment to rent can take even longer. I was waiting 3 years to get into my dream apartment.



              A short lease is a good first step. You don't want to be tied to a 12 month lease when your dream house comes on market.



              Most apartments in this area will not even rent to you unless you have been at your current job for several months, and have good history. If you have a bad history or are new in the area, then your not going to get a good apartment.



              I would see this as someone trying to help out, and nothing more.






              share|improve this answer

























                up vote
                4
                down vote













                I think your reading to much into it.



                Buying a house takes months, maybe years, depending on "things".



                Finding a good apartment to rent can take even longer. I was waiting 3 years to get into my dream apartment.



                A short lease is a good first step. You don't want to be tied to a 12 month lease when your dream house comes on market.



                Most apartments in this area will not even rent to you unless you have been at your current job for several months, and have good history. If you have a bad history or are new in the area, then your not going to get a good apartment.



                I would see this as someone trying to help out, and nothing more.






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                  up vote
                  4
                  down vote










                  up vote
                  4
                  down vote









                  I think your reading to much into it.



                  Buying a house takes months, maybe years, depending on "things".



                  Finding a good apartment to rent can take even longer. I was waiting 3 years to get into my dream apartment.



                  A short lease is a good first step. You don't want to be tied to a 12 month lease when your dream house comes on market.



                  Most apartments in this area will not even rent to you unless you have been at your current job for several months, and have good history. If you have a bad history or are new in the area, then your not going to get a good apartment.



                  I would see this as someone trying to help out, and nothing more.






                  share|improve this answer













                  I think your reading to much into it.



                  Buying a house takes months, maybe years, depending on "things".



                  Finding a good apartment to rent can take even longer. I was waiting 3 years to get into my dream apartment.



                  A short lease is a good first step. You don't want to be tied to a 12 month lease when your dream house comes on market.



                  Most apartments in this area will not even rent to you unless you have been at your current job for several months, and have good history. If you have a bad history or are new in the area, then your not going to get a good apartment.



                  I would see this as someone trying to help out, and nothing more.







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                  answered Jun 27 '16 at 23:51









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