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I'm a recent college graduate and because I have been mainly a full time student with little job experience ( and because I need the money) I decided to apply for a part time job until I could find a job related to the degree I have.
Part of the reason I have little job experience is because when I began college, I was working as a nanny for my brother to his two kids. Can I put that under the 'Employment History" section on the job application? Or does it look bad because I worked for family?
I'm not trying to use this family member as a reference ( that's a whole other section), I just want to know if I can/should account for my time by listing this nanny work.
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I'm a recent college graduate and because I have been mainly a full time student with little job experience ( and because I need the money) I decided to apply for a part time job until I could find a job related to the degree I have.
Part of the reason I have little job experience is because when I began college, I was working as a nanny for my brother to his two kids. Can I put that under the 'Employment History" section on the job application? Or does it look bad because I worked for family?
I'm not trying to use this family member as a reference ( that's a whole other section), I just want to know if I can/should account for my time by listing this nanny work.
applications work-experience part-time employment-gaps
edited Sep 26 '14 at 10:54
gnat
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asked Sep 26 '14 at 5:49
LisW
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Is the experience (or skilled gained thereof) relevant to the position you're applying to in your opinion?
– kolossus
Sep 26 '14 at 15:32
I think so. I had to be organized, multi-tasking was something I had to learn. Patience, work ethic. I would think all those skills would be relevant to this job( really almost any job).
– LisW
Sep 27 '14 at 3:04
If those skills are completely generic (generic does not mean less important) then I would argue they are actually relevant for a specific position. Since virtually every job you want will require you to be organized, patient and an ethical person.
– Areks
Sep 27 '14 at 5:53
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I'm a recent college graduate and because I have been mainly a full time student with little job experience ( and because I need the money) I decided to apply for a part time job until I could find a job related to the degree I have.
Part of the reason I have little job experience is because when I began college, I was working as a nanny for my brother to his two kids. Can I put that under the 'Employment History" section on the job application? Or does it look bad because I worked for family?
I'm not trying to use this family member as a reference ( that's a whole other section), I just want to know if I can/should account for my time by listing this nanny work.
applications work-experience part-time employment-gaps
edited Sep 26 '14 at 10:54
gnat
3,23273066
asked Sep 26 '14 at 5:49
LisW
85
I'm a recent college graduate and because I have been mainly a full time student with little job experience ( and because I need the money) I decided to apply for a part time job until I could find a job related to the degree I have.
Part of the reason I have little job experience is because when I began college, I was working as a nanny for my brother to his two kids. Can I put that under the 'Employment History" section on the job application? Or does it look bad because I worked for family?
I'm not trying to use this family member as a reference ( that's a whole other section), I just want to know if I can/should account for my time by listing this nanny work.
applications work-experience part-time employment-gaps
edited Sep 26 '14 at 10:54
gnat
3,23273066
asked Sep 26 '14 at 5:49
LisW
85
edited Sep 26 '14 at 10:54
gnat
3,23273066
edited Sep 26 '14 at 10:54
gnat
3,23273066
edited Sep 26 '14 at 10:54
gnat
3,23273066
3,23273066
asked Sep 26 '14 at 5:49
LisW
85
asked Sep 26 '14 at 5:49
LisW
85
asked Sep 26 '14 at 5:49
LisW
85
85
Is the experience (or skilled gained thereof) relevant to the position you're applying to in your opinion?
– kolossus
Sep 26 '14 at 15:32
I think so. I had to be organized, multi-tasking was something I had to learn. Patience, work ethic. I would think all those skills would be relevant to this job( really almost any job).
– LisW
Sep 27 '14 at 3:04
If those skills are completely generic (generic does not mean less important) then I would argue they are actually relevant for a specific position. Since virtually every job you want will require you to be organized, patient and an ethical person.
– Areks
Sep 27 '14 at 5:53
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Is the experience (or skilled gained thereof) relevant to the position you're applying to in your opinion?
– kolossus
Sep 26 '14 at 15:32
I think so. I had to be organized, multi-tasking was something I had to learn. Patience, work ethic. I would think all those skills would be relevant to this job( really almost any job).
– LisW
Sep 27 '14 at 3:04
If those skills are completely generic (generic does not mean less important) then I would argue they are actually relevant for a specific position. Since virtually every job you want will require you to be organized, patient and an ethical person.
– Areks
Sep 27 '14 at 5:53
Is the experience (or skilled gained thereof) relevant to the position you're applying to in your opinion?
– kolossus
Sep 26 '14 at 15:32
Is the experience (or skilled gained thereof) relevant to the position you're applying to in your opinion?
– kolossus
Sep 26 '14 at 15:32
I think so. I had to be organized, multi-tasking was something I had to learn. Patience, work ethic. I would think all those skills would be relevant to this job( really almost any job).
– LisW
Sep 27 '14 at 3:04
I think so. I had to be organized, multi-tasking was something I had to learn. Patience, work ethic. I would think all those skills would be relevant to this job( really almost any job).
– LisW
Sep 27 '14 at 3:04
If those skills are completely generic (generic does not mean less important) then I would argue they are actually relevant for a specific position. Since virtually every job you want will require you to be organized, patient and an ethical person.
– Areks
Sep 27 '14 at 5:53
If those skills are completely generic (generic does not mean less important) then I would argue they are actually relevant for a specific position. Since virtually every job you want will require you to be organized, patient and an ethical person.
– Areks
Sep 27 '14 at 5:53
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Being a nanny to your brother's kids counts as being a nanny, and being a nanny counts as a job of being a nanny. You could give your brother as a reference - I personally would prefer his spouse as a reference if she has a different last name, especially if she is not enclined to give you a break for being your brother's sister. If your sister-in-law says that she is especially picky about you because you are a known quantity to her and she does not want to take a chance on somebody else, that's a plus. At the end of the day, it boils down to who is taking best care of her children. If she can can make that point as your reference and drive home that she can't afford the luxury of hiring you as a nanny just because you are her sister-in-law, you're not in bad shape :)
answered Sep 26 '14 at 6:21
Vietnhi Phuvan
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My brother's wife doesn't normally use her maiden name but I guess I could still put it down. The reference section asks for your relationship status though. Should I put that she is my sister in law or should I just put former boss?
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 5:24
@LisW If she would have fired you if you didn't perform, she was your boss. If she says that she is also your sister-in-law, she should add that she was exacting in selecting you as the nanny.
– Vietnhi Phuvan
Oct 3 '14 at 7:33
Okay but should I mention her relation to me first or let her be the one to do it? I just don't want it to seem like I'm attempting to hide anything.
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 7:56
@LisW Let her be the one to do it. Ask her not to volunteer the information but to disclose it if directly asked i.e. "Are you a family relation?", and IMMEDIATELY say that she was tough on you because you are family. Back in Saigon, the ethnic Chinese merchant families used to apprentice their kids with each other. If they apprenticed their kids within the family, they might be too indulgent on the kids - with predictable, negative consequences - or they might be too tough and unnecessarily tough on the kids. I am pretty sure that your sister-in-law was not being indulgent with you :)
– Vietnhi Phuvan
Oct 3 '14 at 8:30
:D It sounds likes you know my sister in law because she has DEFINTELY never been in indulgent with me. Thank you though, I was having a hard time choosing between her as a reference and my academic advisor.
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 19:40
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Being a nanny to your brother's kids counts as being a nanny, and being a nanny counts as a job of being a nanny. You could give your brother as a reference - I personally would prefer his spouse as a reference if she has a different last name, especially if she is not enclined to give you a break for being your brother's sister. If your sister-in-law says that she is especially picky about you because you are a known quantity to her and she does not want to take a chance on somebody else, that's a plus. At the end of the day, it boils down to who is taking best care of her children. If she can can make that point as your reference and drive home that she can't afford the luxury of hiring you as a nanny just because you are her sister-in-law, you're not in bad shape :)
answered Sep 26 '14 at 6:21
Vietnhi Phuvan
68.9k7118254
My brother's wife doesn't normally use her maiden name but I guess I could still put it down. The reference section asks for your relationship status though. Should I put that she is my sister in law or should I just put former boss?
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 5:24
@LisW If she would have fired you if you didn't perform, she was your boss. If she says that she is also your sister-in-law, she should add that she was exacting in selecting you as the nanny.
– Vietnhi Phuvan
Oct 3 '14 at 7:33
Okay but should I mention her relation to me first or let her be the one to do it? I just don't want it to seem like I'm attempting to hide anything.
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 7:56
@LisW Let her be the one to do it. Ask her not to volunteer the information but to disclose it if directly asked i.e. "Are you a family relation?", and IMMEDIATELY say that she was tough on you because you are family. Back in Saigon, the ethnic Chinese merchant families used to apprentice their kids with each other. If they apprenticed their kids within the family, they might be too indulgent on the kids - with predictable, negative consequences - or they might be too tough and unnecessarily tough on the kids. I am pretty sure that your sister-in-law was not being indulgent with you :)
– Vietnhi Phuvan
Oct 3 '14 at 8:30
:D It sounds likes you know my sister in law because she has DEFINTELY never been in indulgent with me. Thank you though, I was having a hard time choosing between her as a reference and my academic advisor.
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 19:40
 |Â
show 1 more comment
up vote
2
down vote
Being a nanny to your brother's kids counts as being a nanny, and being a nanny counts as a job of being a nanny. You could give your brother as a reference - I personally would prefer his spouse as a reference if she has a different last name, especially if she is not enclined to give you a break for being your brother's sister. If your sister-in-law says that she is especially picky about you because you are a known quantity to her and she does not want to take a chance on somebody else, that's a plus. At the end of the day, it boils down to who is taking best care of her children. If she can can make that point as your reference and drive home that she can't afford the luxury of hiring you as a nanny just because you are her sister-in-law, you're not in bad shape :)
answered Sep 26 '14 at 6:21
Vietnhi Phuvan
68.9k7118254
My brother's wife doesn't normally use her maiden name but I guess I could still put it down. The reference section asks for your relationship status though. Should I put that she is my sister in law or should I just put former boss?
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 5:24
@LisW If she would have fired you if you didn't perform, she was your boss. If she says that she is also your sister-in-law, she should add that she was exacting in selecting you as the nanny.
– Vietnhi Phuvan
Oct 3 '14 at 7:33
Okay but should I mention her relation to me first or let her be the one to do it? I just don't want it to seem like I'm attempting to hide anything.
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 7:56
@LisW Let her be the one to do it. Ask her not to volunteer the information but to disclose it if directly asked i.e. "Are you a family relation?", and IMMEDIATELY say that she was tough on you because you are family. Back in Saigon, the ethnic Chinese merchant families used to apprentice their kids with each other. If they apprenticed their kids within the family, they might be too indulgent on the kids - with predictable, negative consequences - or they might be too tough and unnecessarily tough on the kids. I am pretty sure that your sister-in-law was not being indulgent with you :)
– Vietnhi Phuvan
Oct 3 '14 at 8:30
:D It sounds likes you know my sister in law because she has DEFINTELY never been in indulgent with me. Thank you though, I was having a hard time choosing between her as a reference and my academic advisor.
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 19:40
 |Â
show 1 more comment
up vote
2
down vote
up vote
2
down vote
Being a nanny to your brother's kids counts as being a nanny, and being a nanny counts as a job of being a nanny. You could give your brother as a reference - I personally would prefer his spouse as a reference if she has a different last name, especially if she is not enclined to give you a break for being your brother's sister. If your sister-in-law says that she is especially picky about you because you are a known quantity to her and she does not want to take a chance on somebody else, that's a plus. At the end of the day, it boils down to who is taking best care of her children. If she can can make that point as your reference and drive home that she can't afford the luxury of hiring you as a nanny just because you are her sister-in-law, you're not in bad shape :)
answered Sep 26 '14 at 6:21
Vietnhi Phuvan
68.9k7118254
Being a nanny to your brother's kids counts as being a nanny, and being a nanny counts as a job of being a nanny. You could give your brother as a reference - I personally would prefer his spouse as a reference if she has a different last name, especially if she is not enclined to give you a break for being your brother's sister. If your sister-in-law says that she is especially picky about you because you are a known quantity to her and she does not want to take a chance on somebody else, that's a plus. At the end of the day, it boils down to who is taking best care of her children. If she can can make that point as your reference and drive home that she can't afford the luxury of hiring you as a nanny just because you are her sister-in-law, you're not in bad shape :)
answered Sep 26 '14 at 6:21
Vietnhi Phuvan
68.9k7118254
edited Sep 26 '14 at 11:58
answered Sep 26 '14 at 6:21
Vietnhi Phuvan
68.9k7118254
answered Sep 26 '14 at 6:21
Vietnhi Phuvan
68.9k7118254
answered Sep 26 '14 at 6:21
Vietnhi Phuvan
68.9k7118254
68.9k7118254
My brother's wife doesn't normally use her maiden name but I guess I could still put it down. The reference section asks for your relationship status though. Should I put that she is my sister in law or should I just put former boss?
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 5:24
@LisW If she would have fired you if you didn't perform, she was your boss. If she says that she is also your sister-in-law, she should add that she was exacting in selecting you as the nanny.
– Vietnhi Phuvan
Oct 3 '14 at 7:33
Okay but should I mention her relation to me first or let her be the one to do it? I just don't want it to seem like I'm attempting to hide anything.
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 7:56
@LisW Let her be the one to do it. Ask her not to volunteer the information but to disclose it if directly asked i.e. "Are you a family relation?", and IMMEDIATELY say that she was tough on you because you are family. Back in Saigon, the ethnic Chinese merchant families used to apprentice their kids with each other. If they apprenticed their kids within the family, they might be too indulgent on the kids - with predictable, negative consequences - or they might be too tough and unnecessarily tough on the kids. I am pretty sure that your sister-in-law was not being indulgent with you :)
– Vietnhi Phuvan
Oct 3 '14 at 8:30
:D It sounds likes you know my sister in law because she has DEFINTELY never been in indulgent with me. Thank you though, I was having a hard time choosing between her as a reference and my academic advisor.
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 19:40
 |Â
show 1 more comment
My brother's wife doesn't normally use her maiden name but I guess I could still put it down. The reference section asks for your relationship status though. Should I put that she is my sister in law or should I just put former boss?
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 5:24
@LisW If she would have fired you if you didn't perform, she was your boss. If she says that she is also your sister-in-law, she should add that she was exacting in selecting you as the nanny.
– Vietnhi Phuvan
Oct 3 '14 at 7:33
Okay but should I mention her relation to me first or let her be the one to do it? I just don't want it to seem like I'm attempting to hide anything.
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 7:56
@LisW Let her be the one to do it. Ask her not to volunteer the information but to disclose it if directly asked i.e. "Are you a family relation?", and IMMEDIATELY say that she was tough on you because you are family. Back in Saigon, the ethnic Chinese merchant families used to apprentice their kids with each other. If they apprenticed their kids within the family, they might be too indulgent on the kids - with predictable, negative consequences - or they might be too tough and unnecessarily tough on the kids. I am pretty sure that your sister-in-law was not being indulgent with you :)
– Vietnhi Phuvan
Oct 3 '14 at 8:30
:D It sounds likes you know my sister in law because she has DEFINTELY never been in indulgent with me. Thank you though, I was having a hard time choosing between her as a reference and my academic advisor.
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 19:40
My brother's wife doesn't normally use her maiden name but I guess I could still put it down. The reference section asks for your relationship status though. Should I put that she is my sister in law or should I just put former boss?
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 5:24
My brother's wife doesn't normally use her maiden name but I guess I could still put it down. The reference section asks for your relationship status though. Should I put that she is my sister in law or should I just put former boss?
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 5:24
@LisW If she would have fired you if you didn't perform, she was your boss. If she says that she is also your sister-in-law, she should add that she was exacting in selecting you as the nanny.
– Vietnhi Phuvan
Oct 3 '14 at 7:33
@LisW If she would have fired you if you didn't perform, she was your boss. If she says that she is also your sister-in-law, she should add that she was exacting in selecting you as the nanny.
– Vietnhi Phuvan
Oct 3 '14 at 7:33
Okay but should I mention her relation to me first or let her be the one to do it? I just don't want it to seem like I'm attempting to hide anything.
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 7:56
Okay but should I mention her relation to me first or let her be the one to do it? I just don't want it to seem like I'm attempting to hide anything.
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 7:56
@LisW Let her be the one to do it. Ask her not to volunteer the information but to disclose it if directly asked i.e. "Are you a family relation?", and IMMEDIATELY say that she was tough on you because you are family. Back in Saigon, the ethnic Chinese merchant families used to apprentice their kids with each other. If they apprenticed their kids within the family, they might be too indulgent on the kids - with predictable, negative consequences - or they might be too tough and unnecessarily tough on the kids. I am pretty sure that your sister-in-law was not being indulgent with you :)
– Vietnhi Phuvan
Oct 3 '14 at 8:30
@LisW Let her be the one to do it. Ask her not to volunteer the information but to disclose it if directly asked i.e. "Are you a family relation?", and IMMEDIATELY say that she was tough on you because you are family. Back in Saigon, the ethnic Chinese merchant families used to apprentice their kids with each other. If they apprenticed their kids within the family, they might be too indulgent on the kids - with predictable, negative consequences - or they might be too tough and unnecessarily tough on the kids. I am pretty sure that your sister-in-law was not being indulgent with you :)
– Vietnhi Phuvan
Oct 3 '14 at 8:30
:D It sounds likes you know my sister in law because she has DEFINTELY never been in indulgent with me. Thank you though, I was having a hard time choosing between her as a reference and my academic advisor.
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 19:40
:D It sounds likes you know my sister in law because she has DEFINTELY never been in indulgent with me. Thank you though, I was having a hard time choosing between her as a reference and my academic advisor.
– LisW
Oct 3 '14 at 19:40
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Is the experience (or skilled gained thereof) relevant to the position you're applying to in your opinion?
– kolossus
Sep 26 '14 at 15:32
I think so. I had to be organized, multi-tasking was something I had to learn. Patience, work ethic. I would think all those skills would be relevant to this job( really almost any job).
– LisW
Sep 27 '14 at 3:04
If those skills are completely generic (generic does not mean less important) then I would argue they are actually relevant for a specific position. Since virtually every job you want will require you to be organized, patient and an ethical person.
– Areks
Sep 27 '14 at 5:53