Colleague cursing while another is on the phone

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How would I break the ice to a colleague that needs to be reminded to not curse while another colleague near them is on the phone? I'm sure it came out naturally, which I don't mind, but I'd like to just to remind her to be more careful when she does it.







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    Do you talk to customers frequently, or only occasionally? Can you hold those conversations in a private space? If so, it behooves you to do that.
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    May 11 '12 at 18:51










  • I would use some subtlety. Unfortunately most folks here think that means lying. I disagree.
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  • I took everyone's advice into consideration and went the subtle route since that's how I'd like to be approached if I made a mistake. Thanks for the tips everyone.
    – Mike
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How would I break the ice to a colleague that needs to be reminded to not curse while another colleague near them is on the phone? I'm sure it came out naturally, which I don't mind, but I'd like to just to remind her to be more careful when she does it.







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    Do you talk to customers frequently, or only occasionally? Can you hold those conversations in a private space? If so, it behooves you to do that.
    – kevin cline
    May 11 '12 at 18:51










  • I would use some subtlety. Unfortunately most folks here think that means lying. I disagree.
    – Michael Durrant
    May 12 '12 at 10:35










  • I took everyone's advice into consideration and went the subtle route since that's how I'd like to be approached if I made a mistake. Thanks for the tips everyone.
    – Mike
    Jun 24 '12 at 6:24












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How would I break the ice to a colleague that needs to be reminded to not curse while another colleague near them is on the phone? I'm sure it came out naturally, which I don't mind, but I'd like to just to remind her to be more careful when she does it.







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How would I break the ice to a colleague that needs to be reminded to not curse while another colleague near them is on the phone? I'm sure it came out naturally, which I don't mind, but I'd like to just to remind her to be more careful when she does it.









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    Do you talk to customers frequently, or only occasionally? Can you hold those conversations in a private space? If so, it behooves you to do that.
    – kevin cline
    May 11 '12 at 18:51










  • I would use some subtlety. Unfortunately most folks here think that means lying. I disagree.
    – Michael Durrant
    May 12 '12 at 10:35










  • I took everyone's advice into consideration and went the subtle route since that's how I'd like to be approached if I made a mistake. Thanks for the tips everyone.
    – Mike
    Jun 24 '12 at 6:24












  • 3




    Do you talk to customers frequently, or only occasionally? Can you hold those conversations in a private space? If so, it behooves you to do that.
    – kevin cline
    May 11 '12 at 18:51










  • I would use some subtlety. Unfortunately most folks here think that means lying. I disagree.
    – Michael Durrant
    May 12 '12 at 10:35










  • I took everyone's advice into consideration and went the subtle route since that's how I'd like to be approached if I made a mistake. Thanks for the tips everyone.
    – Mike
    Jun 24 '12 at 6:24







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Do you talk to customers frequently, or only occasionally? Can you hold those conversations in a private space? If so, it behooves you to do that.
– kevin cline
May 11 '12 at 18:51




Do you talk to customers frequently, or only occasionally? Can you hold those conversations in a private space? If so, it behooves you to do that.
– kevin cline
May 11 '12 at 18:51












I would use some subtlety. Unfortunately most folks here think that means lying. I disagree.
– Michael Durrant
May 12 '12 at 10:35




I would use some subtlety. Unfortunately most folks here think that means lying. I disagree.
– Michael Durrant
May 12 '12 at 10:35












I took everyone's advice into consideration and went the subtle route since that's how I'd like to be approached if I made a mistake. Thanks for the tips everyone.
– Mike
Jun 24 '12 at 6:24




I took everyone's advice into consideration and went the subtle route since that's how I'd like to be approached if I made a mistake. Thanks for the tips everyone.
– Mike
Jun 24 '12 at 6:24










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Just tell them exactly like you wrote it in your question. I don't think most people would be offended by that especially since you have a valid reason for bringing it up that they will understand.






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    Honestly, this is 100% about professionalism. "Please stop cursing when I or someone else is on the phone with a client. It makes us all sound like idiots".






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      Sounds quıte agressıve
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      May 15 '12 at 14:47






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      Perhaps. But there are things that might be OK in some workplaces or situations but not others and those can be addressed in more delicate way. Then there are things that are just universally wrong (like cursing in front of customers) and I feel those needs a more unambiguous and direct approach.
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    Just tell them exactly like you wrote it in your question. I don't think most people would be offended by that especially since you have a valid reason for bringing it up that they will understand.






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      Just tell them exactly like you wrote it in your question. I don't think most people would be offended by that especially since you have a valid reason for bringing it up that they will understand.






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        Just tell them exactly like you wrote it in your question. I don't think most people would be offended by that especially since you have a valid reason for bringing it up that they will understand.






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        Just tell them exactly like you wrote it in your question. I don't think most people would be offended by that especially since you have a valid reason for bringing it up that they will understand.







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        answered May 10 '12 at 23:36









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            Honestly, this is 100% about professionalism. "Please stop cursing when I or someone else is on the phone with a client. It makes us all sound like idiots".






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              Sounds quıte agressıve
              – Anon
              May 15 '12 at 14:47






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              Perhaps. But there are things that might be OK in some workplaces or situations but not others and those can be addressed in more delicate way. Then there are things that are just universally wrong (like cursing in front of customers) and I feel those needs a more unambiguous and direct approach.
              – pap
              May 16 '12 at 6:26














            up vote
            15
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            Honestly, this is 100% about professionalism. "Please stop cursing when I or someone else is on the phone with a client. It makes us all sound like idiots".






            share|improve this answer
















            • 3




              Sounds quıte agressıve
              – Anon
              May 15 '12 at 14:47






            • 1




              Perhaps. But there are things that might be OK in some workplaces or situations but not others and those can be addressed in more delicate way. Then there are things that are just universally wrong (like cursing in front of customers) and I feel those needs a more unambiguous and direct approach.
              – pap
              May 16 '12 at 6:26












            up vote
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            up vote
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            Honestly, this is 100% about professionalism. "Please stop cursing when I or someone else is on the phone with a client. It makes us all sound like idiots".






            share|improve this answer












            Honestly, this is 100% about professionalism. "Please stop cursing when I or someone else is on the phone with a client. It makes us all sound like idiots".







            share|improve this answer












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              Sounds quıte agressıve
              – Anon
              May 15 '12 at 14:47






            • 1




              Perhaps. But there are things that might be OK in some workplaces or situations but not others and those can be addressed in more delicate way. Then there are things that are just universally wrong (like cursing in front of customers) and I feel those needs a more unambiguous and direct approach.
              – pap
              May 16 '12 at 6:26












            • 3




              Sounds quıte agressıve
              – Anon
              May 15 '12 at 14:47






            • 1




              Perhaps. But there are things that might be OK in some workplaces or situations but not others and those can be addressed in more delicate way. Then there are things that are just universally wrong (like cursing in front of customers) and I feel those needs a more unambiguous and direct approach.
              – pap
              May 16 '12 at 6:26







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            Sounds quıte agressıve
            – Anon
            May 15 '12 at 14:47




            Sounds quıte agressıve
            – Anon
            May 15 '12 at 14:47




            1




            1




            Perhaps. But there are things that might be OK in some workplaces or situations but not others and those can be addressed in more delicate way. Then there are things that are just universally wrong (like cursing in front of customers) and I feel those needs a more unambiguous and direct approach.
            – pap
            May 16 '12 at 6:26




            Perhaps. But there are things that might be OK in some workplaces or situations but not others and those can be addressed in more delicate way. Then there are things that are just universally wrong (like cursing in front of customers) and I feel those needs a more unambiguous and direct approach.
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