How should I behave well when I meet with my director? [closed]

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Well, I'm doing a job in a private institute. The director is very nice person and supportive. I have to give status reports of my job, he has given me one job and it's going to one entire year and it's going to end (That was a big project).



When director had given me force to complete the job early, every time, I was making promise to complete early (I was a fresher).




Just, I'm clueless, how should I behave with my director in professional way?
Can you explain please, when I meet with director with respect to status report, what should my body language and Verbal Language?








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closed as unclear what you're asking by Philip Kendall, Dawny33, jmoreno, Lilienthal♦, mcknz Dec 12 '15 at 18:48


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    Body Language: Like a normal person; As far as you don't use swear words and/or appear haughty, you are good.
    – Dawny33
    Dec 12 '15 at 10:14






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Well, I'm doing a job in a private institute. The director is very nice person and supportive. I have to give status reports of my job, he has given me one job and it's going to one entire year and it's going to end (That was a big project).



When director had given me force to complete the job early, every time, I was making promise to complete early (I was a fresher).




Just, I'm clueless, how should I behave with my director in professional way?
Can you explain please, when I meet with director with respect to status report, what should my body language and Verbal Language?








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closed as unclear what you're asking by Philip Kendall, Dawny33, jmoreno, Lilienthal♦, mcknz Dec 12 '15 at 18:48


Please clarify your specific problem or add additional details to highlight exactly what you need. As it's currently written, it’s hard to tell exactly what you're asking. See the How to Ask page for help clarifying this question. If this question can be reworded to fit the rules in the help center, please edit the question.










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    Body Language: Like a normal person; As far as you don't use swear words and/or appear haughty, you are good.
    – Dawny33
    Dec 12 '15 at 10:14






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    respectful and confident
    – Kilisi
    Dec 12 '15 at 10:18












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Well, I'm doing a job in a private institute. The director is very nice person and supportive. I have to give status reports of my job, he has given me one job and it's going to one entire year and it's going to end (That was a big project).



When director had given me force to complete the job early, every time, I was making promise to complete early (I was a fresher).




Just, I'm clueless, how should I behave with my director in professional way?
Can you explain please, when I meet with director with respect to status report, what should my body language and Verbal Language?








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Well, I'm doing a job in a private institute. The director is very nice person and supportive. I have to give status reports of my job, he has given me one job and it's going to one entire year and it's going to end (That was a big project).



When director had given me force to complete the job early, every time, I was making promise to complete early (I was a fresher).




Just, I'm clueless, how should I behave with my director in professional way?
Can you explain please, when I meet with director with respect to status report, what should my body language and Verbal Language?










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closed as unclear what you're asking by Philip Kendall, Dawny33, jmoreno, Lilienthal♦, mcknz Dec 12 '15 at 18:48


Please clarify your specific problem or add additional details to highlight exactly what you need. As it's currently written, it’s hard to tell exactly what you're asking. See the How to Ask page for help clarifying this question. If this question can be reworded to fit the rules in the help center, please edit the question.






closed as unclear what you're asking by Philip Kendall, Dawny33, jmoreno, Lilienthal♦, mcknz Dec 12 '15 at 18:48


Please clarify your specific problem or add additional details to highlight exactly what you need. As it's currently written, it’s hard to tell exactly what you're asking. See the How to Ask page for help clarifying this question. If this question can be reworded to fit the rules in the help center, please edit the question.









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    Body Language: Like a normal person; As far as you don't use swear words and/or appear haughty, you are good.
    – Dawny33
    Dec 12 '15 at 10:14






  • 1




    respectful and confident
    – Kilisi
    Dec 12 '15 at 10:18












  • 2




    Body Language: Like a normal person; As far as you don't use swear words and/or appear haughty, you are good.
    – Dawny33
    Dec 12 '15 at 10:14






  • 1




    respectful and confident
    – Kilisi
    Dec 12 '15 at 10:18







2




2




Body Language: Like a normal person; As far as you don't use swear words and/or appear haughty, you are good.
– Dawny33
Dec 12 '15 at 10:14




Body Language: Like a normal person; As far as you don't use swear words and/or appear haughty, you are good.
– Dawny33
Dec 12 '15 at 10:14




1




1




respectful and confident
– Kilisi
Dec 12 '15 at 10:18




respectful and confident
– Kilisi
Dec 12 '15 at 10:18










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First of all, be respectful. He/She is a director after all. Also try to think ahead about what questions they're going to ask about your project and think how you can respond to them in a good and positive way.



As the comments say, be yourself, and try not to be nervous. They are people after all, and it'll take time to build a relationship with them.



The one thing I would also advise is read The Clean Coder, it has a section on the Language of Committment. The reason I bring this up, is that you've been forced to finish the project early (if I've understood correctly), and so you've got to deliver. If they push for an update, don't say "I'll try", because that will imply that you've not been trying up to this point. I see this in a lot of new developers who are eager to please. (I know for a fact that I did it, and sometimes I still fall in to this trap!!)



But otherwise, be respectful, and if you have to defend your corner, do it but with the language of respect. They should be willing to listen to you, as you have a better idea of where your work is at than they do, and you know how much you may/may not have left to get done.



Hope that helps






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  • Please don't post "thanks" as a comment - comments are there to improve the answer, not to act as a discussion forum.
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    Dec 12 '15 at 11:22
















1 Answer
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active

oldest

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1 Answer
1






active

oldest

votes









active

oldest

votes






active

oldest

votes








up vote
3
down vote



accepted










First of all, be respectful. He/She is a director after all. Also try to think ahead about what questions they're going to ask about your project and think how you can respond to them in a good and positive way.



As the comments say, be yourself, and try not to be nervous. They are people after all, and it'll take time to build a relationship with them.



The one thing I would also advise is read The Clean Coder, it has a section on the Language of Committment. The reason I bring this up, is that you've been forced to finish the project early (if I've understood correctly), and so you've got to deliver. If they push for an update, don't say "I'll try", because that will imply that you've not been trying up to this point. I see this in a lot of new developers who are eager to please. (I know for a fact that I did it, and sometimes I still fall in to this trap!!)



But otherwise, be respectful, and if you have to defend your corner, do it but with the language of respect. They should be willing to listen to you, as you have a better idea of where your work is at than they do, and you know how much you may/may not have left to get done.



Hope that helps






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  • Please don't post "thanks" as a comment - comments are there to improve the answer, not to act as a discussion forum.
    – Philip Kendall
    Dec 12 '15 at 11:22














up vote
3
down vote



accepted










First of all, be respectful. He/She is a director after all. Also try to think ahead about what questions they're going to ask about your project and think how you can respond to them in a good and positive way.



As the comments say, be yourself, and try not to be nervous. They are people after all, and it'll take time to build a relationship with them.



The one thing I would also advise is read The Clean Coder, it has a section on the Language of Committment. The reason I bring this up, is that you've been forced to finish the project early (if I've understood correctly), and so you've got to deliver. If they push for an update, don't say "I'll try", because that will imply that you've not been trying up to this point. I see this in a lot of new developers who are eager to please. (I know for a fact that I did it, and sometimes I still fall in to this trap!!)



But otherwise, be respectful, and if you have to defend your corner, do it but with the language of respect. They should be willing to listen to you, as you have a better idea of where your work is at than they do, and you know how much you may/may not have left to get done.



Hope that helps






share|improve this answer




















  • Please don't post "thanks" as a comment - comments are there to improve the answer, not to act as a discussion forum.
    – Philip Kendall
    Dec 12 '15 at 11:22












up vote
3
down vote



accepted







up vote
3
down vote



accepted






First of all, be respectful. He/She is a director after all. Also try to think ahead about what questions they're going to ask about your project and think how you can respond to them in a good and positive way.



As the comments say, be yourself, and try not to be nervous. They are people after all, and it'll take time to build a relationship with them.



The one thing I would also advise is read The Clean Coder, it has a section on the Language of Committment. The reason I bring this up, is that you've been forced to finish the project early (if I've understood correctly), and so you've got to deliver. If they push for an update, don't say "I'll try", because that will imply that you've not been trying up to this point. I see this in a lot of new developers who are eager to please. (I know for a fact that I did it, and sometimes I still fall in to this trap!!)



But otherwise, be respectful, and if you have to defend your corner, do it but with the language of respect. They should be willing to listen to you, as you have a better idea of where your work is at than they do, and you know how much you may/may not have left to get done.



Hope that helps






share|improve this answer












First of all, be respectful. He/She is a director after all. Also try to think ahead about what questions they're going to ask about your project and think how you can respond to them in a good and positive way.



As the comments say, be yourself, and try not to be nervous. They are people after all, and it'll take time to build a relationship with them.



The one thing I would also advise is read The Clean Coder, it has a section on the Language of Committment. The reason I bring this up, is that you've been forced to finish the project early (if I've understood correctly), and so you've got to deliver. If they push for an update, don't say "I'll try", because that will imply that you've not been trying up to this point. I see this in a lot of new developers who are eager to please. (I know for a fact that I did it, and sometimes I still fall in to this trap!!)



But otherwise, be respectful, and if you have to defend your corner, do it but with the language of respect. They should be willing to listen to you, as you have a better idea of where your work is at than they do, and you know how much you may/may not have left to get done.



Hope that helps







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  • Please don't post "thanks" as a comment - comments are there to improve the answer, not to act as a discussion forum.
    – Philip Kendall
    Dec 12 '15 at 11:22
















  • Please don't post "thanks" as a comment - comments are there to improve the answer, not to act as a discussion forum.
    – Philip Kendall
    Dec 12 '15 at 11:22















Please don't post "thanks" as a comment - comments are there to improve the answer, not to act as a discussion forum.
– Philip Kendall
Dec 12 '15 at 11:22




Please don't post "thanks" as a comment - comments are there to improve the answer, not to act as a discussion forum.
– Philip Kendall
Dec 12 '15 at 11:22


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