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Boss never talks with me [closed]
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My boss talks all the project related things to my colleague. He ignores me. What should I do in this case? He asks only project updates and what am I doing.
Actually, the colleague is not my senior, so why boss discusses all things related to project with him and not with me?
Am I lacking something? Should I talk this out with him[Boss]?
EDIT:
There are no differences regarding education but my colleague is hired before me.
professionalism
asked Apr 27 '13 at 2:57
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closed as not a real question by Jim G., Rhys, CincinnatiProgrammer, jcmeloni, IDrinkandIKnowThings Apr 29 '13 at 12:36
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My boss talks all the project related things to my colleague. He ignores me. What should I do in this case? He asks only project updates and what am I doing.
Actually, the colleague is not my senior, so why boss discusses all things related to project with him and not with me?
Am I lacking something? Should I talk this out with him[Boss]?
EDIT:
There are no differences regarding education but my colleague is hired before me.
professionalism
asked Apr 27 '13 at 2:57
user8575
1296
closed as not a real question by Jim G., Rhys, CincinnatiProgrammer, jcmeloni, IDrinkandIKnowThings Apr 29 '13 at 12:36
It's difficult to tell what is being asked here. This question is ambiguous, vague, incomplete, overly broad, or rhetorical and cannot be reasonably answered in its current form. For help clarifying this question so that it can be reopened, visit the help center. If this question can be reworded to fit the rules in the help center, please edit the question.
Was your colleague hired before you? Are there any differences in education and experience between him and you? If for any of these questions your answer is positive, you may want to edit your question re: seniority.
– Deer Hunter
Apr 27 '13 at 4:09
Have you noticed that at university lectures or elsewhere the lecturer has eye contact mostly with 2-3 people, who show more interest and attention? If you college has no obvious advantage (like education, experience, etc.), your situation is likely to be very similar. Try to show more interest and enthusiasm.
– superM
Apr 27 '13 at 9:56
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I don't understand the problem. Does this affect your job/performance or are you just jealous?
– user8365
Apr 29 '13 at 0:05
Your question has been closed because you are not really asking a practical question. Perhaps the question should be how do I engage my boss more on the project? What is it you are wanting to know. What should I do in this situation is just too broad, and it is not our decision to make. We can help you achieve your goal but you need to decide what you want to do.
– IDrinkandIKnowThings
Apr 29 '13 at 12:43
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up vote
2
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My boss talks all the project related things to my colleague. He ignores me. What should I do in this case? He asks only project updates and what am I doing.
Actually, the colleague is not my senior, so why boss discusses all things related to project with him and not with me?
Am I lacking something? Should I talk this out with him[Boss]?
EDIT:
There are no differences regarding education but my colleague is hired before me.
professionalism
asked Apr 27 '13 at 2:57
user8575
1296
My boss talks all the project related things to my colleague. He ignores me. What should I do in this case? He asks only project updates and what am I doing.
Actually, the colleague is not my senior, so why boss discusses all things related to project with him and not with me?
Am I lacking something? Should I talk this out with him[Boss]?
EDIT:
There are no differences regarding education but my colleague is hired before me.
professionalism
asked Apr 27 '13 at 2:57
user8575
1296
edited Apr 27 '13 at 20:47
asked Apr 27 '13 at 2:57
user8575
1296
asked Apr 27 '13 at 2:57
user8575
1296
asked Apr 27 '13 at 2:57
user8575
1296
1296
closed as not a real question by Jim G., Rhys, CincinnatiProgrammer, jcmeloni, IDrinkandIKnowThings Apr 29 '13 at 12:36
It's difficult to tell what is being asked here. This question is ambiguous, vague, incomplete, overly broad, or rhetorical and cannot be reasonably answered in its current form. For help clarifying this question so that it can be reopened, visit the help center. If this question can be reworded to fit the rules in the help center, please edit the question.
closed as not a real question by Jim G., Rhys, CincinnatiProgrammer, jcmeloni, IDrinkandIKnowThings Apr 29 '13 at 12:36
It's difficult to tell what is being asked here. This question is ambiguous, vague, incomplete, overly broad, or rhetorical and cannot be reasonably answered in its current form. For help clarifying this question so that it can be reopened, visit the help center. If this question can be reworded to fit the rules in the help center, please edit the question.
Was your colleague hired before you? Are there any differences in education and experience between him and you? If for any of these questions your answer is positive, you may want to edit your question re: seniority.
– Deer Hunter
Apr 27 '13 at 4:09
Have you noticed that at university lectures or elsewhere the lecturer has eye contact mostly with 2-3 people, who show more interest and attention? If you college has no obvious advantage (like education, experience, etc.), your situation is likely to be very similar. Try to show more interest and enthusiasm.
– superM
Apr 27 '13 at 9:56
3
I don't understand the problem. Does this affect your job/performance or are you just jealous?
– user8365
Apr 29 '13 at 0:05
Your question has been closed because you are not really asking a practical question. Perhaps the question should be how do I engage my boss more on the project? What is it you are wanting to know. What should I do in this situation is just too broad, and it is not our decision to make. We can help you achieve your goal but you need to decide what you want to do.
– IDrinkandIKnowThings
Apr 29 '13 at 12:43
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Was your colleague hired before you? Are there any differences in education and experience between him and you? If for any of these questions your answer is positive, you may want to edit your question re: seniority.
– Deer Hunter
Apr 27 '13 at 4:09
Have you noticed that at university lectures or elsewhere the lecturer has eye contact mostly with 2-3 people, who show more interest and attention? If you college has no obvious advantage (like education, experience, etc.), your situation is likely to be very similar. Try to show more interest and enthusiasm.
– superM
Apr 27 '13 at 9:56
3
I don't understand the problem. Does this affect your job/performance or are you just jealous?
– user8365
Apr 29 '13 at 0:05
Your question has been closed because you are not really asking a practical question. Perhaps the question should be how do I engage my boss more on the project? What is it you are wanting to know. What should I do in this situation is just too broad, and it is not our decision to make. We can help you achieve your goal but you need to decide what you want to do.
– IDrinkandIKnowThings
Apr 29 '13 at 12:43
Was your colleague hired before you? Are there any differences in education and experience between him and you? If for any of these questions your answer is positive, you may want to edit your question re: seniority.
– Deer Hunter
Apr 27 '13 at 4:09
Was your colleague hired before you? Are there any differences in education and experience between him and you? If for any of these questions your answer is positive, you may want to edit your question re: seniority.
– Deer Hunter
Apr 27 '13 at 4:09
Have you noticed that at university lectures or elsewhere the lecturer has eye contact mostly with 2-3 people, who show more interest and attention? If you college has no obvious advantage (like education, experience, etc.), your situation is likely to be very similar. Try to show more interest and enthusiasm.
– superM
Apr 27 '13 at 9:56
Have you noticed that at university lectures or elsewhere the lecturer has eye contact mostly with 2-3 people, who show more interest and attention? If you college has no obvious advantage (like education, experience, etc.), your situation is likely to be very similar. Try to show more interest and enthusiasm.
– superM
Apr 27 '13 at 9:56
3
3
I don't understand the problem. Does this affect your job/performance or are you just jealous?
– user8365
Apr 29 '13 at 0:05
I don't understand the problem. Does this affect your job/performance or are you just jealous?
– user8365
Apr 29 '13 at 0:05
Your question has been closed because you are not really asking a practical question. Perhaps the question should be how do I engage my boss more on the project? What is it you are wanting to know. What should I do in this situation is just too broad, and it is not our decision to make. We can help you achieve your goal but you need to decide what you want to do.
– IDrinkandIKnowThings
Apr 29 '13 at 12:43
Your question has been closed because you are not really asking a practical question. Perhaps the question should be how do I engage my boss more on the project? What is it you are wanting to know. What should I do in this situation is just too broad, and it is not our decision to make. We can help you achieve your goal but you need to decide what you want to do.
– IDrinkandIKnowThings
Apr 29 '13 at 12:43
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How long have you worked for him?
Your boss may be a shy person, uncomfortable talking to new people. I've worked for people like that. Not everyone in management is as outgoing as they should be. When I was younger I thought it was me, but later I realized that my manager was just as shy as me. I suggest you talk to some other people in your office who have known him longer and see what they think.
answered Apr 27 '13 at 5:17
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1 Answer
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active
oldest
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active
oldest
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active
oldest
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up vote
2
down vote
accepted
How long have you worked for him?
Your boss may be a shy person, uncomfortable talking to new people. I've worked for people like that. Not everyone in management is as outgoing as they should be. When I was younger I thought it was me, but later I realized that my manager was just as shy as me. I suggest you talk to some other people in your office who have known him longer and see what they think.
answered Apr 27 '13 at 5:17
kevin cline
15.6k43861
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up vote
2
down vote
accepted
How long have you worked for him?
Your boss may be a shy person, uncomfortable talking to new people. I've worked for people like that. Not everyone in management is as outgoing as they should be. When I was younger I thought it was me, but later I realized that my manager was just as shy as me. I suggest you talk to some other people in your office who have known him longer and see what they think.
answered Apr 27 '13 at 5:17
kevin cline
15.6k43861
add a comment |Â
up vote
2
down vote
accepted
up vote
2
down vote
accepted
How long have you worked for him?
Your boss may be a shy person, uncomfortable talking to new people. I've worked for people like that. Not everyone in management is as outgoing as they should be. When I was younger I thought it was me, but later I realized that my manager was just as shy as me. I suggest you talk to some other people in your office who have known him longer and see what they think.
answered Apr 27 '13 at 5:17
kevin cline
15.6k43861
How long have you worked for him?
Your boss may be a shy person, uncomfortable talking to new people. I've worked for people like that. Not everyone in management is as outgoing as they should be. When I was younger I thought it was me, but later I realized that my manager was just as shy as me. I suggest you talk to some other people in your office who have known him longer and see what they think.
answered Apr 27 '13 at 5:17
kevin cline
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edited May 13 '13 at 18:59
answered Apr 27 '13 at 5:17
kevin cline
15.6k43861
answered Apr 27 '13 at 5:17
kevin cline
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answered Apr 27 '13 at 5:17
kevin cline
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Was your colleague hired before you? Are there any differences in education and experience between him and you? If for any of these questions your answer is positive, you may want to edit your question re: seniority.
– Deer Hunter
Apr 27 '13 at 4:09
Have you noticed that at university lectures or elsewhere the lecturer has eye contact mostly with 2-3 people, who show more interest and attention? If you college has no obvious advantage (like education, experience, etc.), your situation is likely to be very similar. Try to show more interest and enthusiasm.
– superM
Apr 27 '13 at 9:56
3
I don't understand the problem. Does this affect your job/performance or are you just jealous?
– user8365
Apr 29 '13 at 0:05
Your question has been closed because you are not really asking a practical question. Perhaps the question should be how do I engage my boss more on the project? What is it you are wanting to know. What should I do in this situation is just too broad, and it is not our decision to make. We can help you achieve your goal but you need to decide what you want to do.
– IDrinkandIKnowThings
Apr 29 '13 at 12:43