Perceived disrespect from other team [closed]

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Where I work there are several software programming teams all focusing on different products using completely different technical stacks. I've noticed a somewhat disturbing pattern in that I perceive a significant amount of disrespect from other teams based on, what I can only assume, is our different technology (language) that we write in. Some quick examples of where I've seen this manifest:



  • In group meetings with all teams we've had folks make degrading comments or simply say things that aren't true about what we are capable of. (For what its worth, I don't think is particularly intentional, but just something that they say out of ignorance.)

  • When these groups have to work together, I've seen people lecture my team members on basic programming techniques (implying that they believe we don't know what we are doing or are completely amateur).

  • We will often be left out of important meetings or discussions around things that we care about or have knowledge on.

  • We've had instances where one team is described as "Enterprise" and others are not, without any real benchmark as to what makes a team or product "Enterprise".

In general, I think my sentiment is that I feel disrespected and that my contributions are less valuable than others.



I guess the question I am asking is, how do I make these teams work better together? How can I communicate that we are equals and that we should be treated as such? Is this something better left to management and not something senior devs should concern themselves with?







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  • Perhaps you're trying to avoid specific technical discussion, but is it necessary to mask... is it PHP?
    – Nathan Cooper
    Mar 7 '15 at 22:43











  • No, I didn't really think its relevant to add what specific technologies, because this isn't a technical forum, but this is between Python and Java.
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    Mar 7 '15 at 22:57
















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Where I work there are several software programming teams all focusing on different products using completely different technical stacks. I've noticed a somewhat disturbing pattern in that I perceive a significant amount of disrespect from other teams based on, what I can only assume, is our different technology (language) that we write in. Some quick examples of where I've seen this manifest:



  • In group meetings with all teams we've had folks make degrading comments or simply say things that aren't true about what we are capable of. (For what its worth, I don't think is particularly intentional, but just something that they say out of ignorance.)

  • When these groups have to work together, I've seen people lecture my team members on basic programming techniques (implying that they believe we don't know what we are doing or are completely amateur).

  • We will often be left out of important meetings or discussions around things that we care about or have knowledge on.

  • We've had instances where one team is described as "Enterprise" and others are not, without any real benchmark as to what makes a team or product "Enterprise".

In general, I think my sentiment is that I feel disrespected and that my contributions are less valuable than others.



I guess the question I am asking is, how do I make these teams work better together? How can I communicate that we are equals and that we should be treated as such? Is this something better left to management and not something senior devs should concern themselves with?







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closed as off-topic by gnat, Jim G., IDrinkandIKnowThings, Garrison Neely, Chris E Mar 10 '15 at 20:04


This question appears to be off-topic. The users who voted to close gave this specific reason:


  • "Real questions have answers. Rather than explaining why your situation is terrible, or why your boss/coworker makes you unhappy, explain what you want to do to make it better. For more information, click here." – Jim G., IDrinkandIKnowThings, Garrison Neely, Chris E
If this question can be reworded to fit the rules in the help center, please edit the question.












  • Perhaps you're trying to avoid specific technical discussion, but is it necessary to mask... is it PHP?
    – Nathan Cooper
    Mar 7 '15 at 22:43











  • No, I didn't really think its relevant to add what specific technologies, because this isn't a technical forum, but this is between Python and Java.
    – itsnevereasy
    Mar 7 '15 at 22:57












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Where I work there are several software programming teams all focusing on different products using completely different technical stacks. I've noticed a somewhat disturbing pattern in that I perceive a significant amount of disrespect from other teams based on, what I can only assume, is our different technology (language) that we write in. Some quick examples of where I've seen this manifest:



  • In group meetings with all teams we've had folks make degrading comments or simply say things that aren't true about what we are capable of. (For what its worth, I don't think is particularly intentional, but just something that they say out of ignorance.)

  • When these groups have to work together, I've seen people lecture my team members on basic programming techniques (implying that they believe we don't know what we are doing or are completely amateur).

  • We will often be left out of important meetings or discussions around things that we care about or have knowledge on.

  • We've had instances where one team is described as "Enterprise" and others are not, without any real benchmark as to what makes a team or product "Enterprise".

In general, I think my sentiment is that I feel disrespected and that my contributions are less valuable than others.



I guess the question I am asking is, how do I make these teams work better together? How can I communicate that we are equals and that we should be treated as such? Is this something better left to management and not something senior devs should concern themselves with?







share|improve this question












Where I work there are several software programming teams all focusing on different products using completely different technical stacks. I've noticed a somewhat disturbing pattern in that I perceive a significant amount of disrespect from other teams based on, what I can only assume, is our different technology (language) that we write in. Some quick examples of where I've seen this manifest:



  • In group meetings with all teams we've had folks make degrading comments or simply say things that aren't true about what we are capable of. (For what its worth, I don't think is particularly intentional, but just something that they say out of ignorance.)

  • When these groups have to work together, I've seen people lecture my team members on basic programming techniques (implying that they believe we don't know what we are doing or are completely amateur).

  • We will often be left out of important meetings or discussions around things that we care about or have knowledge on.

  • We've had instances where one team is described as "Enterprise" and others are not, without any real benchmark as to what makes a team or product "Enterprise".

In general, I think my sentiment is that I feel disrespected and that my contributions are less valuable than others.



I guess the question I am asking is, how do I make these teams work better together? How can I communicate that we are equals and that we should be treated as such? Is this something better left to management and not something senior devs should concern themselves with?









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closed as off-topic by gnat, Jim G., IDrinkandIKnowThings, Garrison Neely, Chris E Mar 10 '15 at 20:04


This question appears to be off-topic. The users who voted to close gave this specific reason:


  • "Real questions have answers. Rather than explaining why your situation is terrible, or why your boss/coworker makes you unhappy, explain what you want to do to make it better. For more information, click here." – Jim G., IDrinkandIKnowThings, Garrison Neely, Chris E
If this question can be reworded to fit the rules in the help center, please edit the question.




closed as off-topic by gnat, Jim G., IDrinkandIKnowThings, Garrison Neely, Chris E Mar 10 '15 at 20:04


This question appears to be off-topic. The users who voted to close gave this specific reason:


  • "Real questions have answers. Rather than explaining why your situation is terrible, or why your boss/coworker makes you unhappy, explain what you want to do to make it better. For more information, click here." – Jim G., IDrinkandIKnowThings, Garrison Neely, Chris E
If this question can be reworded to fit the rules in the help center, please edit the question.











  • Perhaps you're trying to avoid specific technical discussion, but is it necessary to mask... is it PHP?
    – Nathan Cooper
    Mar 7 '15 at 22:43











  • No, I didn't really think its relevant to add what specific technologies, because this isn't a technical forum, but this is between Python and Java.
    – itsnevereasy
    Mar 7 '15 at 22:57
















  • Perhaps you're trying to avoid specific technical discussion, but is it necessary to mask... is it PHP?
    – Nathan Cooper
    Mar 7 '15 at 22:43











  • No, I didn't really think its relevant to add what specific technologies, because this isn't a technical forum, but this is between Python and Java.
    – itsnevereasy
    Mar 7 '15 at 22:57















Perhaps you're trying to avoid specific technical discussion, but is it necessary to mask... is it PHP?
– Nathan Cooper
Mar 7 '15 at 22:43





Perhaps you're trying to avoid specific technical discussion, but is it necessary to mask... is it PHP?
– Nathan Cooper
Mar 7 '15 at 22:43













No, I didn't really think its relevant to add what specific technologies, because this isn't a technical forum, but this is between Python and Java.
– itsnevereasy
Mar 7 '15 at 22:57




No, I didn't really think its relevant to add what specific technologies, because this isn't a technical forum, but this is between Python and Java.
– itsnevereasy
Mar 7 '15 at 22:57










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This is something that has to be fixed from the top down. So management has to get involved. Bring your concerns to your boss, especially if you are not being included in meetings that concern you.






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    This is something that has to be fixed from the top down. So management has to get involved. Bring your concerns to your boss, especially if you are not being included in meetings that concern you.






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      This is something that has to be fixed from the top down. So management has to get involved. Bring your concerns to your boss, especially if you are not being included in meetings that concern you.






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        This is something that has to be fixed from the top down. So management has to get involved. Bring your concerns to your boss, especially if you are not being included in meetings that concern you.






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        This is something that has to be fixed from the top down. So management has to get involved. Bring your concerns to your boss, especially if you are not being included in meetings that concern you.







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