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I work for a nonprofit. I'm 7 weeks into the job. My title is social media manager so as you can imagine, I know how to use the Adobe Creative Suite.
Here's the problem, my immediate superior, who is Director of Marketing and PR, has been opting to get lessons for the entire staff, meaning just for herself, to learn the software that I know. So far, I've been helpful to answer questions about Microsoft Word and other internet things, but I have quickly realized she may want to get me fired.
While I like to help others succeed and grow, I don't know what do I do when I feel my job is threatened.
How do I politely decline to teach superiors and co-workers these little nuggets of information?
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I work for a nonprofit. I'm 7 weeks into the job. My title is social media manager so as you can imagine, I know how to use the Adobe Creative Suite.
Here's the problem, my immediate superior, who is Director of Marketing and PR, has been opting to get lessons for the entire staff, meaning just for herself, to learn the software that I know. So far, I've been helpful to answer questions about Microsoft Word and other internet things, but I have quickly realized she may want to get me fired.
While I like to help others succeed and grow, I don't know what do I do when I feel my job is threatened.
How do I politely decline to teach superiors and co-workers these little nuggets of information?
professionalism communication
asked Mar 16 '15 at 1:15
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Hello and welcome to the Workplace. Quick question: How did you arrive at her wanting to get you fired from asking for Word lessons? Also, is the entire staff just you and her, or is she just the only one who's interested in taking lessons [training that you provide]?
– rath
Mar 16 '15 at 1:33
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This question is a little confusing. Are you saying that you suspect that your immediate superior wants you to train other people so that she can get rid of you? And that you therefore want to avoid training them?
– Carson63000
Mar 16 '15 at 5:21
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Your superior wants you to conduct a training session for the staff on a skill you know. Do you not want to do the training for some reason? What's the problem exactly?
– Brandin
Mar 16 '15 at 11:08
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See What is wrong with sharing knowledge with colleagues at work?
– David K
Jan 7 '16 at 18:00
Suggest a subscription to Lynda.com. It's likely to be more effective than what you can teach anyway.
– Amy Blankenship
Jan 7 '16 at 18:03
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I work for a nonprofit. I'm 7 weeks into the job. My title is social media manager so as you can imagine, I know how to use the Adobe Creative Suite.
Here's the problem, my immediate superior, who is Director of Marketing and PR, has been opting to get lessons for the entire staff, meaning just for herself, to learn the software that I know. So far, I've been helpful to answer questions about Microsoft Word and other internet things, but I have quickly realized she may want to get me fired.
While I like to help others succeed and grow, I don't know what do I do when I feel my job is threatened.
How do I politely decline to teach superiors and co-workers these little nuggets of information?
professionalism communication
asked Mar 16 '15 at 1:15
Troubled
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I work for a nonprofit. I'm 7 weeks into the job. My title is social media manager so as you can imagine, I know how to use the Adobe Creative Suite.
Here's the problem, my immediate superior, who is Director of Marketing and PR, has been opting to get lessons for the entire staff, meaning just for herself, to learn the software that I know. So far, I've been helpful to answer questions about Microsoft Word and other internet things, but I have quickly realized she may want to get me fired.
While I like to help others succeed and grow, I don't know what do I do when I feel my job is threatened.
How do I politely decline to teach superiors and co-workers these little nuggets of information?
professionalism communication
asked Mar 16 '15 at 1:15
Troubled
16
edited Mar 16 '15 at 22:55
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Hello and welcome to the Workplace. Quick question: How did you arrive at her wanting to get you fired from asking for Word lessons? Also, is the entire staff just you and her, or is she just the only one who's interested in taking lessons [training that you provide]?
– rath
Mar 16 '15 at 1:33
4
This question is a little confusing. Are you saying that you suspect that your immediate superior wants you to train other people so that she can get rid of you? And that you therefore want to avoid training them?
– Carson63000
Mar 16 '15 at 5:21
2
Your superior wants you to conduct a training session for the staff on a skill you know. Do you not want to do the training for some reason? What's the problem exactly?
– Brandin
Mar 16 '15 at 11:08
1
See What is wrong with sharing knowledge with colleagues at work?
– David K
Jan 7 '16 at 18:00
Suggest a subscription to Lynda.com. It's likely to be more effective than what you can teach anyway.
– Amy Blankenship
Jan 7 '16 at 18:03
suggest improvements |Â
6
Hello and welcome to the Workplace. Quick question: How did you arrive at her wanting to get you fired from asking for Word lessons? Also, is the entire staff just you and her, or is she just the only one who's interested in taking lessons [training that you provide]?
– rath
Mar 16 '15 at 1:33
4
This question is a little confusing. Are you saying that you suspect that your immediate superior wants you to train other people so that she can get rid of you? And that you therefore want to avoid training them?
– Carson63000
Mar 16 '15 at 5:21
2
Your superior wants you to conduct a training session for the staff on a skill you know. Do you not want to do the training for some reason? What's the problem exactly?
– Brandin
Mar 16 '15 at 11:08
1
See What is wrong with sharing knowledge with colleagues at work?
– David K
Jan 7 '16 at 18:00
Suggest a subscription to Lynda.com. It's likely to be more effective than what you can teach anyway.
– Amy Blankenship
Jan 7 '16 at 18:03
6
6
Hello and welcome to the Workplace. Quick question: How did you arrive at her wanting to get you fired from asking for Word lessons? Also, is the entire staff just you and her, or is she just the only one who's interested in taking lessons [training that you provide]?
– rath
Mar 16 '15 at 1:33
Hello and welcome to the Workplace. Quick question: How did you arrive at her wanting to get you fired from asking for Word lessons? Also, is the entire staff just you and her, or is she just the only one who's interested in taking lessons [training that you provide]?
– rath
Mar 16 '15 at 1:33
4
4
This question is a little confusing. Are you saying that you suspect that your immediate superior wants you to train other people so that she can get rid of you? And that you therefore want to avoid training them?
– Carson63000
Mar 16 '15 at 5:21
This question is a little confusing. Are you saying that you suspect that your immediate superior wants you to train other people so that she can get rid of you? And that you therefore want to avoid training them?
– Carson63000
Mar 16 '15 at 5:21
2
2
Your superior wants you to conduct a training session for the staff on a skill you know. Do you not want to do the training for some reason? What's the problem exactly?
– Brandin
Mar 16 '15 at 11:08
Your superior wants you to conduct a training session for the staff on a skill you know. Do you not want to do the training for some reason? What's the problem exactly?
– Brandin
Mar 16 '15 at 11:08
1
1
See What is wrong with sharing knowledge with colleagues at work?
– David K
Jan 7 '16 at 18:00
See What is wrong with sharing knowledge with colleagues at work?
– David K
Jan 7 '16 at 18:00
Suggest a subscription to Lynda.com. It's likely to be more effective than what you can teach anyway.
– Amy Blankenship
Jan 7 '16 at 18:03
Suggest a subscription to Lynda.com. It's likely to be more effective than what you can teach anyway.
– Amy Blankenship
Jan 7 '16 at 18:03
suggest improvements |Â
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Why do you feel your job is threatened?
As Social Media Manager I hope you have more skills than simply being able to use Adobe Creative Suite. (If not then you are in real trouble.) Being asked to teach other people something that is a small part of what you do doesn't mean they are looking to replace you. However by refusing to pass on what you know, which is a contradiction of your claim that you 'like to help others succeed', you are painting a picture of yourself as uncooperative and confrontational. That's much more likely to result in you being fired than enabling your co-workers.
Assuming that you have the time to actually do this, there is no way to politely decline.
answered Mar 16 '15 at 3:34
DJClayworth
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Plus, there are few people who really "know" the Creative Suite. Each piece of software can take years to fully master (except maybe Adobe Media Encoder).
– Amy Blankenship
Jan 7 '16 at 18:02
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To politely decline, that's not feasible. Just decline, polite or hateful, your still not going to share your skills, correct? In some form your colleagues may respect that. You denied insight for the non-profit organization, but he sure is polite. No, I don't see anything favorable your way and much kudos the opposite. Good luck!
answered Jan 7 '16 at 17:17
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2 Answers
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active
oldest
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active
oldest
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up vote
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Why do you feel your job is threatened?
As Social Media Manager I hope you have more skills than simply being able to use Adobe Creative Suite. (If not then you are in real trouble.) Being asked to teach other people something that is a small part of what you do doesn't mean they are looking to replace you. However by refusing to pass on what you know, which is a contradiction of your claim that you 'like to help others succeed', you are painting a picture of yourself as uncooperative and confrontational. That's much more likely to result in you being fired than enabling your co-workers.
Assuming that you have the time to actually do this, there is no way to politely decline.
answered Mar 16 '15 at 3:34
DJClayworth
40.8k886146
Plus, there are few people who really "know" the Creative Suite. Each piece of software can take years to fully master (except maybe Adobe Media Encoder).
– Amy Blankenship
Jan 7 '16 at 18:02
suggest improvements |Â
up vote
28
down vote
Why do you feel your job is threatened?
As Social Media Manager I hope you have more skills than simply being able to use Adobe Creative Suite. (If not then you are in real trouble.) Being asked to teach other people something that is a small part of what you do doesn't mean they are looking to replace you. However by refusing to pass on what you know, which is a contradiction of your claim that you 'like to help others succeed', you are painting a picture of yourself as uncooperative and confrontational. That's much more likely to result in you being fired than enabling your co-workers.
Assuming that you have the time to actually do this, there is no way to politely decline.
answered Mar 16 '15 at 3:34
DJClayworth
40.8k886146
Plus, there are few people who really "know" the Creative Suite. Each piece of software can take years to fully master (except maybe Adobe Media Encoder).
– Amy Blankenship
Jan 7 '16 at 18:02
suggest improvements |Â
up vote
28
down vote
up vote
28
down vote
Why do you feel your job is threatened?
As Social Media Manager I hope you have more skills than simply being able to use Adobe Creative Suite. (If not then you are in real trouble.) Being asked to teach other people something that is a small part of what you do doesn't mean they are looking to replace you. However by refusing to pass on what you know, which is a contradiction of your claim that you 'like to help others succeed', you are painting a picture of yourself as uncooperative and confrontational. That's much more likely to result in you being fired than enabling your co-workers.
Assuming that you have the time to actually do this, there is no way to politely decline.
answered Mar 16 '15 at 3:34
DJClayworth
40.8k886146
Why do you feel your job is threatened?
As Social Media Manager I hope you have more skills than simply being able to use Adobe Creative Suite. (If not then you are in real trouble.) Being asked to teach other people something that is a small part of what you do doesn't mean they are looking to replace you. However by refusing to pass on what you know, which is a contradiction of your claim that you 'like to help others succeed', you are painting a picture of yourself as uncooperative and confrontational. That's much more likely to result in you being fired than enabling your co-workers.
Assuming that you have the time to actually do this, there is no way to politely decline.
answered Mar 16 '15 at 3:34
DJClayworth
40.8k886146
edited Mar 16 '15 at 13:05
answered Mar 16 '15 at 3:34
DJClayworth
40.8k886146
answered Mar 16 '15 at 3:34
DJClayworth
40.8k886146
answered Mar 16 '15 at 3:34
DJClayworth
40.8k886146
40.8k886146
Plus, there are few people who really "know" the Creative Suite. Each piece of software can take years to fully master (except maybe Adobe Media Encoder).
– Amy Blankenship
Jan 7 '16 at 18:02
suggest improvements |Â
Plus, there are few people who really "know" the Creative Suite. Each piece of software can take years to fully master (except maybe Adobe Media Encoder).
– Amy Blankenship
Jan 7 '16 at 18:02
Plus, there are few people who really "know" the Creative Suite. Each piece of software can take years to fully master (except maybe Adobe Media Encoder).
– Amy Blankenship
Jan 7 '16 at 18:02
Plus, there are few people who really "know" the Creative Suite. Each piece of software can take years to fully master (except maybe Adobe Media Encoder).
– Amy Blankenship
Jan 7 '16 at 18:02
suggest improvements |Â
up vote
-3
down vote
To politely decline, that's not feasible. Just decline, polite or hateful, your still not going to share your skills, correct? In some form your colleagues may respect that. You denied insight for the non-profit organization, but he sure is polite. No, I don't see anything favorable your way and much kudos the opposite. Good luck!
answered Jan 7 '16 at 17:17
Mateoojosazul
234
suggest improvements |Â
up vote
-3
down vote
To politely decline, that's not feasible. Just decline, polite or hateful, your still not going to share your skills, correct? In some form your colleagues may respect that. You denied insight for the non-profit organization, but he sure is polite. No, I don't see anything favorable your way and much kudos the opposite. Good luck!
answered Jan 7 '16 at 17:17
Mateoojosazul
234
suggest improvements |Â
up vote
-3
down vote
up vote
-3
down vote
To politely decline, that's not feasible. Just decline, polite or hateful, your still not going to share your skills, correct? In some form your colleagues may respect that. You denied insight for the non-profit organization, but he sure is polite. No, I don't see anything favorable your way and much kudos the opposite. Good luck!
answered Jan 7 '16 at 17:17
Mateoojosazul
234
To politely decline, that's not feasible. Just decline, polite or hateful, your still not going to share your skills, correct? In some form your colleagues may respect that. You denied insight for the non-profit organization, but he sure is polite. No, I don't see anything favorable your way and much kudos the opposite. Good luck!
answered Jan 7 '16 at 17:17
Mateoojosazul
234
answered Jan 7 '16 at 17:17
Mateoojosazul
234
answered Jan 7 '16 at 17:17
Mateoojosazul
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answered Jan 7 '16 at 17:17
Mateoojosazul
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Hello and welcome to the Workplace. Quick question: How did you arrive at her wanting to get you fired from asking for Word lessons? Also, is the entire staff just you and her, or is she just the only one who's interested in taking lessons [training that you provide]?
– rath
Mar 16 '15 at 1:33
4
This question is a little confusing. Are you saying that you suspect that your immediate superior wants you to train other people so that she can get rid of you? And that you therefore want to avoid training them?
– Carson63000
Mar 16 '15 at 5:21
2
Your superior wants you to conduct a training session for the staff on a skill you know. Do you not want to do the training for some reason? What's the problem exactly?
– Brandin
Mar 16 '15 at 11:08
1
See What is wrong with sharing knowledge with colleagues at work?
– David K
Jan 7 '16 at 18:00
Suggest a subscription to Lynda.com. It's likely to be more effective than what you can teach anyway.
– Amy Blankenship
Jan 7 '16 at 18:03