I signed off a job offer and gave an expected start date, I found out I need more than the date given to them

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So last week I got offered a job offer by a company that I’ve went to multiple interviews for and I am excited to join them. I signed the job offer but told the employer verbally that the expected start date I will write on the offer is just estimated initially based on what I have read on the company’s policy (I can join them one month later) and once I hand in my resignation I will know more. (i.e. if my boss needs me for handover or something).



This Thursday I told my direct manager that I will not renew my contract and he told me that he needs me for two months (so that is one month more than I have calculated initially) so I can help in finding a replacement, train them, handover all my current projects to them. And he told me that the period might be one month only depending on how fast we find a replacement and when can they join.



Right now I am kind of embarrassed to talk to my future employer and tell them that I (((might))) join them later. I feel like it was my mistake was that I signed the job offer and gave them an expected start date before talking to my manager.
What is the right approach to handle this?
Should I negotiatie with my current manage on the notice period?
Should I just be honest to my future employer about the hand over? But what if it takes less than two months and I am able to join early?










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  • Why can your soon to be ex manager decide how long you stay? What is your notice period?
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  • I can't really help but this will probably help others: where are you located and when does your contract end? Will it officially end 2 months from now?
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So last week I got offered a job offer by a company that I’ve went to multiple interviews for and I am excited to join them. I signed the job offer but told the employer verbally that the expected start date I will write on the offer is just estimated initially based on what I have read on the company’s policy (I can join them one month later) and once I hand in my resignation I will know more. (i.e. if my boss needs me for handover or something).



This Thursday I told my direct manager that I will not renew my contract and he told me that he needs me for two months (so that is one month more than I have calculated initially) so I can help in finding a replacement, train them, handover all my current projects to them. And he told me that the period might be one month only depending on how fast we find a replacement and when can they join.



Right now I am kind of embarrassed to talk to my future employer and tell them that I (((might))) join them later. I feel like it was my mistake was that I signed the job offer and gave them an expected start date before talking to my manager.
What is the right approach to handle this?
Should I negotiatie with my current manage on the notice period?
Should I just be honest to my future employer about the hand over? But what if it takes less than two months and I am able to join early?










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  • Why can your soon to be ex manager decide how long you stay? What is your notice period?
    – nvoigt
    6 mins ago











  • I can't really help but this will probably help others: where are you located and when does your contract end? Will it officially end 2 months from now?
    – idkfa
    4 mins ago












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So last week I got offered a job offer by a company that I’ve went to multiple interviews for and I am excited to join them. I signed the job offer but told the employer verbally that the expected start date I will write on the offer is just estimated initially based on what I have read on the company’s policy (I can join them one month later) and once I hand in my resignation I will know more. (i.e. if my boss needs me for handover or something).



This Thursday I told my direct manager that I will not renew my contract and he told me that he needs me for two months (so that is one month more than I have calculated initially) so I can help in finding a replacement, train them, handover all my current projects to them. And he told me that the period might be one month only depending on how fast we find a replacement and when can they join.



Right now I am kind of embarrassed to talk to my future employer and tell them that I (((might))) join them later. I feel like it was my mistake was that I signed the job offer and gave them an expected start date before talking to my manager.
What is the right approach to handle this?
Should I negotiatie with my current manage on the notice period?
Should I just be honest to my future employer about the hand over? But what if it takes less than two months and I am able to join early?










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So last week I got offered a job offer by a company that I’ve went to multiple interviews for and I am excited to join them. I signed the job offer but told the employer verbally that the expected start date I will write on the offer is just estimated initially based on what I have read on the company’s policy (I can join them one month later) and once I hand in my resignation I will know more. (i.e. if my boss needs me for handover or something).



This Thursday I told my direct manager that I will not renew my contract and he told me that he needs me for two months (so that is one month more than I have calculated initially) so I can help in finding a replacement, train them, handover all my current projects to them. And he told me that the period might be one month only depending on how fast we find a replacement and when can they join.



Right now I am kind of embarrassed to talk to my future employer and tell them that I (((might))) join them later. I feel like it was my mistake was that I signed the job offer and gave them an expected start date before talking to my manager.
What is the right approach to handle this?
Should I negotiatie with my current manage on the notice period?
Should I just be honest to my future employer about the hand over? But what if it takes less than two months and I am able to join early?







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  • Why can your soon to be ex manager decide how long you stay? What is your notice period?
    – nvoigt
    6 mins ago











  • I can't really help but this will probably help others: where are you located and when does your contract end? Will it officially end 2 months from now?
    – idkfa
    4 mins ago
















  • Why can your soon to be ex manager decide how long you stay? What is your notice period?
    – nvoigt
    6 mins ago











  • I can't really help but this will probably help others: where are you located and when does your contract end? Will it officially end 2 months from now?
    – idkfa
    4 mins ago















Why can your soon to be ex manager decide how long you stay? What is your notice period?
– nvoigt
6 mins ago





Why can your soon to be ex manager decide how long you stay? What is your notice period?
– nvoigt
6 mins ago













I can't really help but this will probably help others: where are you located and when does your contract end? Will it officially end 2 months from now?
– idkfa
4 mins ago




I can't really help but this will probably help others: where are you located and when does your contract end? Will it officially end 2 months from now?
– idkfa
4 mins ago










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In my opinion the best thing would be tell your new employee directly the situation you are in. Be honest and straight forward. That will give a good impression about you to your new employee and also will solve the problem for you.





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